Musayese kuti mumveke munthu. Musapite kuzinthu zoopsa. Musamachititse manyazi kapena kuopseza gawolo ndi iye, ngati sakukwatira. Onetsetsani kuti munthu, wolemera zonse zabwino ndi zamwano, angasankhe ufulu wa banjali, ngakhale mutakhala paubwenzi wabwino. Munthu aliyense, ngati mwana, amachita zosiyana. Ngati mumamukakamiza kuti achite chinachake, ndiye kuti akutsutsana. Ngati chinachake chiri choletsedwa, ndiye kuti padzakhala mwapadera, kapena mwinamwake osadziŵa, kuyesera kuchita izo. Chipatso choletsedwa ndi chokoma. Ndiye momwe mungapangire munthu mwiniyekha kuti apange kupereka?
Choyamba, lankhulani ndi mnyamata wanu za momwe akuyimira moyo wanu wa banja m'tsogolomu komanso ngati alipo. Funsani momwe amachitira ndi banja, kwa ana. Taganizirani za banja lake. Ngati munthu anakulira m'banja lonse, komwe kunali amayi ndi abambo, ndipo m'banja lino munali mgwirizano ndi chikondi cha makolo, mwamuna wanu posachedwa adzayesetsanso kukhazikitsa banja lake. Ngati wosankhidwa wanu anakulira m'banja losakwanira kapena m'banja lomwe limakhala losalekeza, kumene makolo amanyalanyazana wina ndi mnzake, ndiye kuti akhoza kupeŵa banja kotero, poopa kubwereza zomwe makolo ake amamva chisoni. Ulendo wothandizira kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo a banja ungathandizire pano.
Pali chikhulupiliro chofala kuti amuna mpaka otsiriza amapewa ukwati ndipo amawopa ngati moto. Malinga ndi kafukufuku, amuna ambiri akufuna kukwatira. Nthawi zambiri amalingalira za kugwirizanitsa miyoyo yawo ndi mkazi mmodzi, kukhala ndi moyo wokhazikika ndi kugonana naye, ndiyeno kukhala ndi ana. Pangani banja ndi kumanga maubwenzi mmenemo.
Kwa munthu wakupangitsani inu kupereka, musati muchite zinthu zowonongeka. Pitani ku cholinga chanu pang'onopang'ono. Khalani ndi mwamuna nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse, mumuthandize pa chilichonse. Mwamuna ayenera kukhala ndi chidaliro mwa iwe, adziŵe kuti ndiwe amene sakulepheretsa. Landirani munthu wanu monga momwe aliri. Ayenera kukhala wotsimikiza kuti akadzuka mmawa umodzi, ngati mwadzidzidzi akufuna kusintha moyo wake wonse, kusintha ntchito yake kuti ikhale yopanda malipiro ochepa ndipo ingakhale yoopsa koma yokondweretsa kwa iye, simudzadandaula.
Amuna amanjenjemera ndi amayi amafunika kukonzanso anzawo. Amuna sakufuna kusiya zinthu zomwe zimawapatsa chimwemwe, chifukwa cha moyo wa banja. Thandizani mwamuna wanu pa zokondwerero zake, khalani mpira kapena njinga zamoto. Musayesere kuzigwiritsa ntchito kapena kuziphunzitsanso, mutenge momwemo.
Musalole chikondi chanu chichoke. Tithandizire ndi zovuta zosiyana siyana: mau ochepa achikondi panthawi yachisomo, Sushi ya ku Japan, osagulidwa mu lesitilanti, koma yophikidwa ndi nyumba yokhayo, kubwereza ku maphunziro okwera.
Onetsani mwamuna wanu kuti mupange mayi wodabwitsa. Amuna amakhudzidwa ndi chikondi ndi kudzipereka kwa amayi enieni.
Palibe maphikidwe enieni omwe angachite kuti munthu apereke kupereka kwa manja ndi mitima. Khalani mwamuna kwa mwamuna wanu, mmodzi yekha, wopanda zomwe iye sangapereke moyo wake wam'tsogolo. Ndiyeno simukuyenera kudikira nthawi yaitali kuti munthu apereke chopereka.