Ambiri a ife ponena kuti "mpumulo" amamvetsa chabe kusowa kwa ntchito. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti panthawi yachisangalalo timamasuka ndi moyo wathu ndi thupi lathu.
Nchiyani chimalepheretsa ena onse?
Kodi "mpumulo wopuma" ndi chiyani? Kujambula masewera ndi kuyenda. Malingana ngati mutafika kumapeto, mudzapeza thukuta zambiri. Mwinamwake, izo zidzakhala zothandiza pa thanzi, koma nkokayikitsa kuti pambuyo pake mutamva kuti mukupumula? Monga akunena, kupumula kwachangu, ndimasewera.
Malo oyamba oti "mpumulo" amasungidwe ndi makompyuta. Zokwanira kuti mupite ku Skype kapena ICQ. Anzanga ena akukhala kumeneko masiku ambiri, sagwira ntchito kumeneko kwa masiku. Amapachika pawebusaiti, kusewera masewera amtundu, kuyankhula. Amangopereka ubongo wawo ndi chidziwitso. Ndipo, chifukwa chake, ubongo wawo sumapumula.
Ena amakonda TV. Tsiku lina ndinabwera kwa bwenzi, anali ndi TV tsiku lonse, ndipo nthawi ndi nthawi ankasintha njira, anali kufunafuna chinachake chochititsa chidwi kumeneko. TV ndizodziwikiranso. Ndipo nthawi zambiri pali zolinga zoipa.
Mabuku? Inde, njira yabwino yopumula, umadzizinamizira ndi buku m'manja mwanu, mumawerenga, komanso ubongo umatengedwa.
Tiyerekeze kuti ndinu oitanidwa ngati tchuthi. Kapena iwo okha anapita kukachezera. Ndipo taganizirani kuchuluka kwa mphamvu zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito polankhulana? Munthu samafuna kukhala wopereka ndalama, m'malo mwake, iye mwiniyo akufunafuna kudyetsa mphamvu. Choncho konzekerani kuti poyankha, bwenzi lanu lidzudandaula za mavuto awo. Kapena iye ayamba kukuphunzitsani inu. Kotero simungathe kumasuka komanso kumasuka.
Ndipo ngati muli ndi chibwenzi ndi mwamuna, nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala tcheru ndi kulamulira mawu ndi sitepe iliyonse kuti musanene ndi kuchita chinachake cholakwika.
Kugonana kumakhalanso kosangalatsa, koma uwu si mpumulo. Chilichonse chimene amanena, ambirife tikatha kugonana timamva ngati mandimu osakanizidwa, ngakhale mwabwino. Choncho, izi sizinanso zomwe mungachite.
Mofananamo, palibe njira yomwe idzakhalire yopuma ndikukwera kumalo ena osangalatsa, kuvina, kupita ku zisudzo. Kapena, titi, mu casino kapena bowling. Muyenera kuyankhulana nthawi zonse, kudziletsa nokha, tsatirani, yesani. Mukhoza kupeza malingaliro abwino nthawi zonse izi, koma simungamve bwino.
Anthu ambiri amayesa kumasuka mothandizidwa ndi mphamvu. Koma ichi ndi chinyengo chabe. Posakhalitsa zonse zidzabwerera kumalo ake, ndipo mudzapeza pafupi nanu mavuto ambiri osathetsedwera, komanso kuwonjezera apo.
Ulendo - komanso osasankha. Mukasiyidwa popanda ntchito zambiri, simudzakhala womasuka. Ena pa maholide amafukula mabedi m'dziko kapena kuyamba kukonza m'nyumba. Kodi mudatha kupuma pambuyo pa izi?
Ndipo ngati musankha "mitengo ya kanjedza, dzuwa ndi mchenga"? Mwinamwake kugula tikiti ndikupita kwinakwake ku malowa? Zikuwoneka bwino kuti mupumule! Komabe, njira iyi idzakhala ndi zambiri zovuta. Poyamba, padzakhala milandu ya msewu, ndiye msewu, kudziwana ndi anzako, chipangizo pamalo atsopano. Mudzapita nthawi zonse paulendo, kukonzekera chinachake, onetsetsani kuti mwana wanu samamira m'nyanja ndi zina zotero. Mwinanso mudzakhala ndi maloto kapena zakudya zoipa. Kotero musayembekezere mpumulo wabwino.
N'chiyani chimathandiza kuti muthetse?
Pali zinthu zambiri zoterezi. Mwachitsanzo, nyimbo. Sankhani zomwe mumakonda, pitirizani, mukhale pampando kapena mugona pa sofa. Ndipo mvetserani.
Kusinkhasinkha kungathechitenso ndi nyimbo. Tsopano pali njira zambiri zosungira. Ndibwino kuti musankhe njira yotereyo kuti iwonetsenso thupi ndi kutulutsa chidziwitso. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kuphunzitsa zambiri kapena kulembetsa maphunziro, koma izi ndi zoyenera.
Chotsatira chabwino chidzaperekedwa kuyenda mu chilengedwe - paki, m'munda, m'nkhalango. Ndi yekha, wopanda galu, wopanda bwenzi labwino kapena chibwenzi. Mwachibadwa, pamalo otetezeka, kumene kuli njira kapena njira yabwino, kumene sizonyansa. Kumene simukusowa kuopa kuti wina akhoza kumenyana kapena kumamatira. Inde, ndife tonse osiyana. N'zotheka kuti wina, pofuna kumasuka, uyenera kupita ku concert yolemera thanthwe kapena disco. Zitha kutenga nawo mbali pakuyesera, momwe mungapulumuke mumkhalidwe wovuta.
Tsopano tikudziwa zomwe zimathandiza ndikuletsa mpumulo wathu. Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti kumapeto kwa tchuthi mumawona kuti munalandira chilango cha vivacity ndikumasuka. Ndipo kumverera koteroko simungasokoneze ndi wina aliyense.