Chikondi ndi kugonana - chitsimikiziro cha zosangalatsa

Amuna sali obadwa okondedwa abwino, iwo amakhala oyamikira kwa akazi. Tikuwonetsani momwe mungakhalire ndi mphunzitsi wake wogonana ndikumuukitsa mu virtuoso kugonana. Chikondi ndi kugonana ndi chitsimikiziro cha zosangalatsa ndipo aliyense ayenera kudziwa izi.

Zonse kuti zikhale zolakwa za nkhani zamatsenga!
M'nthano nthawi zonse pamakhala kalonga wokongola yemwe amadziwa kukweza mwana wamkazi komanso momwe angamupatsire. Ndipo ambiri amadzuka kuchokera kwa ana aamuna a maloto amaganiza kuti mwamuna weniweni ayenera kukhala wokondedwa, ndipo amadziwa momwe angakwaniritsire maloto athu onse. Koma zenizeni, zonse sizili bwino: monga lamulo, kalonga sakonda kusuntha mwadzidzidzi, amakhutira ndi muyezo wa caresses ndi poses, ndipo malingaliro ake ndi opambana kwambiri. Musakwiyire. Kodi amadziwa bwanji zomwe akazi akufuna? Zonse zake zogwiritsa ntchito - zochitika zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zomwe munthu amaonera komanso kuona mafilimu olaula. Ndi mabwenzi ake, sakumayankhulanso pa nkhaniyi, ndipo wakale wake adanena kuti akuwononga chilichonse. Chabwino, kugula buku lotsogolera kumatanthauza kuvomereza kuti sakudziwa momwe angachitire izi. Gwirizanani, sizophweka, makamaka kwa mwamuna. Kenaka amakumana nanu, ndipo chiwonongeko chimamupatsa mwayi: pambuyo pake munthu akhoza kukhala wokondedwa wokhayokha ndi mkazi amene adzamupulumutse ku zolephera za kugonana. Ndi mkazi yekha angaphunzire za mkazi. Mphunzitsi wake wabwino kwambiri ndiye amene adzaukitsa makhalidwe obisika a wokondedwa weniweni: INU! Tsopano muphunzire za zifukwa zisanu zowonjezera za zolephera zake komanso momwe angathetsere zotsatira zake.


Kodi mukufuna ine?

Vuto la Phunziro

Wokondedwa wanu akuchita zosayenera, akuchitirana nanu chikondi ndi kugonana - chikole cha zosangalatsa sizowonjezereka osati mofunitsitsa monga momwe mungafunire, ndipo zosiyana pa bedi sizikuwoneka.

Chifukwa

Pa "masewera a chikwati" maudindo a abwenzi amagawidwa molingana ndi mfundo yoyamba (ngakhale kuti "kugonana mu mzinda waukulu" zinthu ndi zosiyana). Kawirikawiri munthu amadziyika yekha ntchito "yotha" mkazi, ndipo mosiyana ndi iye, safuna kusiya mwamsanga kuti asakhale "ngati wina aliyense". Choncho, satenga kanthu, chifukwa sakhala ndi chidaliro mwa iye yekha ndipo akuwopa kuti adzakanidwa.

Yankho

Zonse zomwe munthuyu akusowa ndizofunikira. Ngati amva kuti mkaziyo amamufuna, ndiye kuti sachita chidwi ndi iye. Chibadwa chake chosaka chimadzutsidwa, ndiyeno ali wokonzeka kuwuluka ngati roketi! Chilakolako cha mkazi ndi chiwombankhanga, chifukwa chawi la moto la munthu likuwuluka.


Musamayembekezere mphindi yoyenera - tilenge

Ndi liti pamene mphindi yoyenera idzabwera pa chikondi ndi kugonana - chikole cha zosangalatsa? Pakali pano! Bweretsani wokondedwa wanu kunja kwa tulo - muzimusungira pomwe akufika pakhomo pakhomo, kapena, atakhala mu bar, wong'oneza khutu kumutu kwake: "Nditengeni! Posakhalitsa! "Palibe chomwe chimakondweretsa munthu kwambiri ngati chikhumbo chosayembekezereka cha mkazi.


Ganizani ngati munthu

Muzinthu zotere monga "Ndikufuna kugonana" kapena "Ndithandizeni ndikundikoka ine kugona", timamva dongosolo, ndipo munthuyo ndi chiitanidwe chomwe adadikirira mosaleza mtima.


Khalani msungwana woipa

Ngati wokondedwa wanu achita zinthu zochititsa manyazi, ndiye kuti amayesetsa kugwiritsa ntchito mfundo zofunikira zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Chotsani mavutowo, nthawi yomweyo muyimira phokoso latsopano, ikani pakamwa pa kondomu yake ya mbolo kapena mumusungire pansi pa madzi. Cholinga chimenecho chidzamudabwitsidwa, ndipo kenako adzalimbikitsa zida!


Mutenge "iye" m'manja mwanu

Tengani wokondedwa wokondwera m'chipinda chogona, atenge ulemu wake mdzanja lake ndikuyiyika mukazi. Kwa iye, chitsimikizo chochititsa chidwi ichi chakuti mumamufuna ngati munthu. Ndipotu, ngakhale amuna ochenjera komanso okongola amadalira pazinthu zochepa zokhudzana ndi kugonana.

Zachitika zambiri! Tengani kutsogolo. Mwachitsanzo, am'bwezere kumbuyo, ndipo mugwadire pamaso pake, kuika manja pakati pa m'chiuno mwake, ndikugwira manja ake, kuwagwirizira pafupi ndi ansembe ake, pamene mukumugwetsa pansi. Amaphunzira kumvetsetsa kuti mumasangalalanso ndikumukondweretsa.


Vomerezani kuti ndi zabwino

Osati mawu, koma zochita. Amuna 15% okha amadziona okha okongola mokwanira. Mawu sangathe kuthandizira pano, koma atakhudza, inde. Ndipotu, khungu limatha kukumbukira zinthu zolakwika. Munthu amene nthawi zambiri amadwala, amakhala ndi kudzidalira kokwanira, sakhala wovutika maganizo ndipo samadwala nthawi zambiri. Mukamukakamiza, ganizirani kuti thupi lake ndi mbolo yaikulu, amve kuti mumamukonda. Tsiku lililonse iye adzakhala ndi mphamvu molimba mtima.

Vuto

Wokondedwa wanu amamenya mwakuya kwake: poyamba akupsompsonani m'khosi, ndiye amakoka makoko anu, ndipo musanatsirize, amachititsa chidwi chanu. Ichi ndi chodabwitsa kwambiri.

Ndipo mulibe zosiyanasiyana zokwanira, zamalingaliro, zopitirira malire a ololedwa. Sakudziwa ngakhale chifukwa chake simukukondwera, chifukwa, ngakhale kuti mukusangalala, mumapezekanso ...


Chifukwa

Vuto lanu lalikulu ndilo cholinga chachikulu cha munthu. Ndipo kuti akupatseni inu chisangalalo, iye amapereka njira zovomerezeka. Kwa mkazi, cholinga ndicho njira yokhayo, njira yokhayo yopita. Izi zimayambitsa munthu kusokonezeka. Kudalira kwake pa ziwalo zanu kumamulepheretsa kuyesa: kukuyika pa tebulo, kudutsa ndi makandulo, kapena kusewera ndi inu m'mabati a munthu wakhungu, pamene mukukakamiza tambala ndi pakamwa panu. Kwa iye, kukhutira mumtima chifukwa cha njirayi ndizovuta kwambiri.

Yankho

Ndikofunika kuti mumvetse bwino pakati pa zoyesayesa ndi ufulu womutsutsa kuti zosangalatsa ndi zosangalatsa komanso zopanda pake: mpatseni mwayi wakudabwa. Izi ndi zofunika kwa EGO yake.


Zowopsa Kwambiri

Ngakhale akazi ochenjera kwambiri amasangalala komanso amadziwa momwe angakhalire ndi mwamuna, amangokhala ndi mayesero 5-10. Kodi mupitiriza kutsatira malamulo akale kapena, potsiriza, yesani chinthu chatsopano? Tengani chiopsezo chochita chinachake chonga ichi, mwachitsanzo, misala mbolo yake pansi pa tebulo, pangani chikondi pansi pa opera nyimbo, ndikuganiza kuti mumaseĊµera anu okhudzidwa amatsatira chilankhulo "pamalo amodzi kamodzi". Nthawi ina ikamatera, ina imakhala m'galimoto, yachitatu ku hotelo, m'mphepete mwadongosolo, muchitetezo ... Pitirizani kuchoka pa bedi, zosankha zatsopano zatsopano zidzabadwira mutu wa okondedwa anu kuvala masokosi a la Lolita, kapena kumutcha iye "mwana wonyansa".


Dziwani bwinoko.

Malingana ndi kafukufuku, magawo 50 okhudzana ndi zochitika zogonana sizimagwiridwa ndi theka lawo lachiwiri. Kotero tsopano tsopano theka la zilakolako zake zilipo kwa inu!

Chowonadi chokha

Musamayerekezere kuti mumakonda chilichonse kuti musamukhumudwitse. Amuna ambiri amayamikira pamene mkazi akunena kuti iwo sali! Sungani dzanja lake, mumuthandizeni ndi mawu. Izi zikuphatikizapo: malangizo anu amachotsa ndondomeko yonse ya zochita zake ndikukulimbikitsani kuti mukwaniritse zonse zomwe mumapempha.


Mphoto kwa Masewera

Tsopano ndi nthawi yanu. Mupempheni kuti ayang'ane dzanja lanu. Kuchita kugwa, funsani zomwe akufuna: kuti mumvetse mwamphamvu mbolo yake ndi milomo yake ndi kupita mwamsanga kapena, mwinamwake, mwapang'onopang'ono mutenge mbolo yake. Tengani mlengalenga momwe mungathe kukonza molakwika zolakwitsa wina ndi mzake ndikuphunzira china chatsopano.


Mipata mu chidziwitso

Mwa munthu wosatetezeka, zonse zimayenda molakwika. Zimamveka ngati sakudziwa choti achite. Nthawi zina ali ndi mafunso abwino monga "Kodi mwabwera?". Ndipo pamene amaliza, simungapitirize. Pakati pa okonda otetezeka kumeneko pali mitundu itatu ya amuna: choyamba ndi chokhazikika ku chikondi ndi kugonana - chikhomo chachisangalalo ndicho chibadwa, chachiwiri chimayambitsa clitoris, ngati akugwiritsira ntchito wailesi, ndipo wacitatu amachititsa cunnilingus kuti akulimbikitseni mwamsanga.

Thupi la mkazi la munthu wosatetezeka ndi chinsinsi kumbuyo kwa zisindikizo zisanu ndi ziwiri. Iye samakhulupirira zotsutsana ndipo samakhulupirira zomwe akumva ndi zomwe akuziwona. Mutu wake ndi chithunzi cha wokonda bwino ndi erection osatha. Umu ndi momwe amayesera kukhala, osati kumvetsera zosowa zake. Kawirikawiri, sizingatheke!

Chizindikiro choyimira cha mtundu uwu wa munthu ndi mofulumira kwambiri pabedi. Musathamangire, ng'ombe yamphongo! Ndipo mumamuthandiza kuti ayende pang'onopang'ono kuti: "Ndiloleni ndikupange chiphuphu? Mwinamwake ndine pamwamba? Kodi ndingatemberere? "Kotero, pokhala pachikondwerero, adzamvetsa kuti kugonana kwautali kungakhale kosangalatsa kwambiri.


Yankho

Ngati mumaphunzitsa phunziro ku zochepa, zingakhale zothandiza kwa iye. Thandizani kuchotseratu zomwe zakonzedweratu ndikufotokozera kuti ayenera (zongomveka!) Yesetsani kuchita zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti mukhale ogonana bwino kwambiri pamoyo wake! Aloleni agwiritse ntchito njira zonse zomwe ziri mu zida zake - mawu ake, zala, mawondo (inde, ndi mawondo!) Mukhoza kuwamenya mwachidwi pamene akulimbana ndi tsitsi lanu.


Maphunziro omalizira

Panthawi ina, filimuyo "Omaliza Maphunziro" Mike Nichols anapanga phokoso lambiri. Koma ndikumuthokoza kuti mutha kusintha bwino chithunzi cha kugonana pakati pa azimayi a Robinson ndi Ben Bradock wa zaka 21. Musamachite manyazi kuona ndi kumverera mu ntchito ya wophunzitsa amuna, chifukwa pomaliza pake munthu aliyense wachiwiri amalota kuti ndi wophunzira. Zoona, muyenera kuganizira chinthu chimodzi: musamangolankhulana monga: "Ndidzakuphunzitsani inu kuchita, opusa." Kumenya mphindi ino, kutanthauza gulu limodzi ndi zochitika zokhudzana ndi awiri a inu: "Tiyeni tiyese ... Mwinamwake tidzakonda ... Ndikudabwa momwe tingachitire ngati ife ..."


Mfundo yogwirira ntchito

Khulupirirani thupi lanu, osati liwu lamkati limene limanong'oneza bondo: "Mwinamwake iye adzasintha maganizo ... Mwinamwake mofulumira ..." Sungani manja ake. Muwonetseni kuti mukufuna kumverera manja ake pamapewa, pachifuwa, ndi m'kamwa mwake m'kamwa mwake. Koma ngati mukufuna kupukuta miyendo yake, ingomangirira mpaka m'chiuno.


Muphunzitseni iye

Muwerenge mokweza nkhani zongopeka kapena encyclopedia za kugonana (kapena kuchoka mu bukhu - komwe anthu amawerengera nthawi zambiri). Yang'anani palimodzi filimu yosasangalatsa, mwachitsanzo, "Mlembi" Stephen Sheinberg kapena "Henry ndi June" Philip Kaufman. Musakhale wamanyazi kumufunsa kuti apeze Google chidziwitso chosadziwika cha kugonana, ngati kompyuta yanu mwadzidzidzi imapachika ...


Thupi

Thandizani mwamuna wanu kuchotsa lingaliro lakuti mbolo yake ndilokatikati mwa chilengedwe chonse. Tisalani za thupi lake, panikizani mankhwala ake, ziuno, matako (mukhoza kuyamba kuwapaka mafuta), ndipo chitani kuti clitoris yanu isangalale ndi chisangalalo. Ndipo atakupangitsani khunyu kwa inu, yekani mchifuwa chake.


Zidzakhala zosavuta!

Phatikizani masewera olimba ndi kuseka. Ngati mukakumana ndi "wophunzira" wanu m'masitolo ndi corset,

ndipo ngakhale ndi malingaliro osayenera pamaso pake, adzawopa kuti mukuyembekezera kuti achitepo kanthu. Adzalandira gawo, lomwe, mwatsoka, sakudziwa. Zikomo! Ndipo iye amadziwa kuti ndiwe, mtsikana wake. Palibe maudindo omveka. Ndi masewera chabe!


Yankhani!

Akufuna kukupatsani zambiri kuposa "kugonana kwa ana". Zomwe mungachite: kuzungulira ndi mawu, kubuula, kusuntha kapena kusunga maganizo anu nokha? Ngati munthu amva ndikumva kuti akuchita zonse bwino, kudzidalira kwake kukukula. Choncho musataye. Koma dziwani kuti chinthu chovuta kwambiri chimene amuna akufuna kumva ndi "Inde!", Makamaka makamaka polowera.


Vuto

Poyamba, zonse zili bwino. Iye ndi wachikondi ndipo amathandiza: "Kodi ndizovuta kwa inu?", "Kodi mumamva bwino?". Koma pali chinthu chimodzi: kuchoka ku ndende yambiri, kukomoka kwake kumatayika. Ndipo ngati mwadzidzidzi mutengapo mbali, adzakuchititsani kusokoneza, chifukwa sakonda kulamulidwa, ndipo posankha zochitikazo amatsogoleredwa ndi udindo waukulu wa munthuyo. Iye ndi wovuta kwambiri komanso wosasamala.

Pakati pa kugonana, mutu wake umakhala ndi malingaliro omwe amamugwedeza: "Kodi mumamukomera?", "Kodi ndine wamwano kwambiri?" Kodi kuunika kuli koyenera? "" O, anali kupuma, mwinamwake ndinatsiriza mofulumira kwambiri? ". Amuna amenewa ali ndi nkhawa za iwo okha, akazi komanso dziko lonse. Kugonana kwa iye kuli kochepa pa ntchito yogwira ntchito ya amuna, ndipo zochita zanu sizingaganizidwe nkomwe.


Yankho

Cholakwika chonse ndi lingaliro la udindo. Kuyesera kusintha izo ziribechabechabechabe. Koma mu mphamvu yanu kupereka "abwana ovutika" kukhala omasuka panthawi yopanga chikondi. Kwa ichi muyenera kudza ndi chinyengo; njira, kuti asakayikire kuti ndinu woyambitsa ndi kutsogolera zonse; zochita zake ...


Amayi Poyamba

"Bwanamkubwa" wanu amayamba kuda nkhawa musanawonekere, mukuganiza kuti zonse zidzakhala bwanji. Thandizani kuti athetse mavuto. Mwachitsanzo, funsani kukubweretsani kuchidutswa ndi chala chanu, pakamwa, phokoso latsopano la violet lomwe simungagwiritse ntchito nokha. (Kumuthandizani! Iye amakonda kuti muzisangalatse!) Kotero sadzakhala ndi nkhawa pang'ono komanso amatha kukwaniritsa.


Debriefing

Muuzeni za zomwe mumakonda. Chimene anachita bwino kwambiri. Onjezerani zomwe mumasangalala pamene adatsiriza. Pamene adapereka thupi lake m'manja mwanu. Pamene anali kubuula. Izi zomwe zimatchedwa "NLP" zimamupatsa chikho: "Ndikumaliza - iyeyo ndi wokondwa - Ndidzatha nthawi zambiri kuti ndimusangalatse." Zotsatira zake: wokondedwa wanga ali ndi vuto.


Ili ndi dongosolo

Muuzeni kuti mumasangalala kuti amamasulidwa. Muuzeni, mwachitsanzo, kuti mukufuna kumuwona mwana wake pa bere komanso mwamsanga. Iye adzagwada, ndipo mudzaphatikizira manja onse awiri. Kodi kupitiriza kwanu kudzapangitsa chiyani? Adzangophunzira zokondweretsa inu, osasokoneza zake.


Matenda Othandizira

Mukamaliza kulira, funsani kuti akuthandizeni ndi mawu achikondi ndikuika chingwe m'manja mwake. Mukakhala pa iyo, khalani pansi kuti clitoris yanu isakanikize phungu lake.

Mukumukakamiza kuti: "Simungandithandize?" Ndipo muike manja ake pamapewa ake, kuti akuthandizeni. "Simungandithandize?" - Mukufunsa, akagwada pakati pa miyendo yanu, ndipo mumatenga mbolo yake yowongoka ndikukweza mutu ndi zozungulira za clitoris. Kotero iye amamverera ngati iye nthawizonse amakhala mu malo otanganidwa, ngakhale kuti kwenikweni, inu mukugwira ntchito. Kusokoneza kumeneku kumatsimikizira ntchito ya onse awiri ndipo sikumapangitsa kugwirizana pakati pa bedi.


Chikondi, chofatsa

Muuzeni za zokhumba zanu, koma musakhale achifundo. Mwachitsanzo, nenani: "Ndikufuna kusamba chikondi ndi iwe" mmalo mwa "Ndikufuna kungosamba basi." Kapena "gwiranani manja anga palimodzi." Ndikufuna kumva kuti mumandikonda pang'onopang'ono. " Makhalidwe odzikondawa adamukomera mtima, ndipo nthawi yomweyo amamvetsa zomwe amafuna.


Kupotoza?!

Pa mafunso anu zokhuza kuganiza kwake, iye samayankha kapena amayankha mobwerezabwereza. Pamene mukudabwa kuti ndi chiani chomwe amachikonda kwambiri, kapena ngati amachikonda pamene mumpsompsona, akuti: "Chabwino, musanene chilichonse chokhudza chilichonse!" Zikuwoneka kuti ndiwe wokonda zokhudzana ndi kugonana koyenera. Kapena mwina amanyazi? Ndipo ngakhale kuti muli ndi chikondi cholimba, mukuwopa kuti m'tsogolomu simudzapeza naye chinachake champhamvu komanso cholimba.

Musaope. Iye akungodandaula ndi funso lomwelo monga 98% ya umunthu wonse: "Ndidzakhala wodabwitsa ngati ..." Zirizonse, zotsatira zotsatila "ngati" ("Ngati ndikumufunsa kuti azivala zazifupi kuchokera ku latex", "Ngati Ndikufuna kugonana ndi abambo "kapena" Ngati ndikuganiza kuti tikugonana pagulu "), - Kuda nkhawa kwa mnzanuyo chifukwa chomuona kuti ndi wopotoka, wosazolowereka kapena wopanikizika, kumamuchititsa kubisala zilakolako zake zogonana. Izi "mgwirizano wosadziwika" umachokera kumbuyo: ngati wina sanena chilichonse, ndiye winayo sanena chilichonse!

Munthu aliyense ali ndi zikhumbo zambiri zokhumba zokhumba. Musakhulupirire mawu amodzi, chifukwa sakufuna kulankhula momasuka. Koma musamamuvutitse ndi mafunso - chifukwa "zokhala chete" zokambirana za kugonana sizingatheke: angakuuzeni bwanji kuti akuvutika ndi zilakolako zopanda nzeru? Pokhapokha mutanena za anthu anu ndipo simumaumirira yankho lake. Kuvomereza kwanu kudzamupangitsa iye kuswa lumbiro la chete.


Tidzakambirana?

Tayang'anani mafilimu okonda zachiwerewere, muwonetseni izi zowonjezereka kwa April JOY, masamba kudzera mujambula zithunzi za kugonana. Tsatirani zomwe anachita, ndemanga. Momwemonso mudzasinthana maganizo pa nkhani zomwe sizikukhudza kwambiri ubale wanu, choncho, zili zotetezeka kwa amuna.

Amene safuna kumva, ayenera kumverera

Mumupatse maloto anu obisika. Yambani popanda chenjezo! Kodi mukufuna kuti iye akumangirireni? Mumupatse chingwe. Kodi mukufuna kuti adule zazifupi m'thupi lanu?

Mumupatse mpeni. Kapena mwinamwake mukufuna kupanga kanema ya panyumba? Ndiye yambani katatu. Sizingatheke kuti mwamuna angakane ngati mkazi akuulula momveka kuti akufuna kusewera naye "masewera onyenga."


Vomerezani izo

Koma osati pabedi, koma mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Muuzeni zomwe ali ndi zolinga zake, zomwe amachita kuti azindikire maloto anu. Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yomuthandizira kuti azikonda. Ngati akuwona kuti mumamulemekeza, adzalimba kuti adzivomereze yekha mu "zilakolako zake". Ndipo, usiku, iye angayesetse kunena za iwo ndi inu-mpaka inu, mukupuma kovuta, simungamunong'oneza: "O inde, ndinu okongola! Ndipo iwe unali kuti kale? "Ndipo iye anali nthawizonse pano. Anali kuyembekezera kuti wina wonga iwe amudzutse ndi kupsopsona.