Bwanji ngati mwanayo akuopa agalu?


Agalu amapezeka mumzinda kulikonse, ndipo ambiri amawopa. Kawirikawiri ndi zomveka. Koma zimachitika kuti mwanayo ali ndi mantha ngakhale ndi chiwawa china. Izi ndi zovuta. Kodi mungakhale bwanji makolo? Chochita ngati mwanayo akuopa agalu - onani yankho pansipa.

Pali malingaliro osiyanasiyana a chiyambi cha zoopseza. Akatswiri ena a maganizo amanena kuti mantha amenewa amachitikira ngakhale pa nthawi yobadwa. Kuwonjezera apo, mantha awa ali ndi mizu yosinthika - kukumbukira kwa akambuku a sabata ndi olimba m'thupi lathu. Koma nthawi zambiri anthu amayamba kuopa agalu chifukwa amamuwopa ali mwana.

Mwana ndi galu

Mantha amphamvu akhoza kukhazikitsidwa ndikusanduka neurosis, ngati chochitika chochititsa mantha chinachitika mu moyo wa mwana wosakwana zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri. Pa msinkhu uwu, nthawizina ndikwanira kuona galu lalikulu, monga garu kapena Doberman, kuti awopsyeze. Ngakhale kulira kwakukulu kwa ana kungakhale koopsya, osatchula kuti pali, mwatsoka, agalu omwe ana aang'ono samakonda ndikuwaluma popanda kukhumudwa nawo.

Mchira ndi makutu siziri za masewera

Koma chinthu chimodzi ndi mantha, ndipo kukonza mantha pamaso pa agalu ndi kosiyana kwambiri. Agalu samakonda kukokedwa m'makutu ndi mchira. Ndipo amadana nazo akamachotsa fupa lawo lomwe amalikonda kwambiri. Pazochitikazi, akhoza kuwaluma kwambiri. Akulu ayenera kufotokoza kwa mwanayo kuti nkofunikira kusunga malire poyankhulana ndi nyama.

Makolo kawirikawiri amatha kuchita zambiri kuti asiye mwanayo ku agalu oopa. Kuyambira ali wamng'ono, mukuyenera kusonyeza zithunzi zambiri ndi mafilimu omwe ali ndi agalu abwino komanso okoma, kutulukira nkhani zamatsenga, kumene agalu achibwibwi amagwira ntchito. Pomalizira, muyenera kufotokozera mwana wanu pang'onopang'ono, poyamba - wokongola komanso wokoma mtima. Koma chofunika kwambiri, pa nthawi ya nkhondo, mwana ndi galu samenyana ndi amatsenga. Ndi khalidwe losayenera la makolo lomwe nthawi zambiri limapangitsa ana kukonza mantha.

Kutaya pamaso pa galu

Zoipa, pakuwona galu mwanayo akugwidwa ndi mantha. Koma choipa kwambiri, ngati chikhalidwe ichi, mpaka kutaya, chimadza pa lingaliro limodzi ponena za galu kapena kuyang'ana pa chithunzi chake. Nthaŵi zambiri mabungwe amenewa amadza mwa munthu wokhudzidwa ndi munthu woyang'anira nyumba ndipo amagwirizanitsidwa ndi zochitika zomwe zachitika ali wamng'ono. Mwachitsanzo, mwana akusewera mubokosi la mchenga, anagogoda ndikukankhira pansi phokoso lamphongo. Pambuyo pake, mwanayo anayamba mantha: poyamba ankaopa agalu akuluakulu, ndipo manthawa anafalikira kwa agalu onse.

Akuchiritsidwa ...

Kodi mungatani ngati mwana akuopa mbwa amamulepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo ndikukhala mwamtendere? Nthaŵi zambiri Phobias amachiritsidwa ndi njira yakale komanso yovomerezeka yoonetsetsa kuti palibe vuto. M'dera lamtendere, mwanayo akufotokozedwa poyamba kuti palibe chifukwa chowopa agalu. Komabe, nthawi zambiri iye amadziŵa yekha. Kenaka amabweretsedwera kumalo osangalala ndipo amasonyeza zithunzi za galu. Madokotala amatsimikizira kuti sakuchita mantha nthawi yomweyo. Mwanayo akamagwiritsa ntchito chithunzithunzichi, amaloledwa kuyamikira zizindikiro zowoneka bwino kwambiri za agalu omwe ali ndi pakamwa. Kenako onetsani mafilimu ndi agalu. Kenaka amatsogolera agalu aang'ono abwino ku ofesi, ndipo poyamba ayambe mosamala, komabe munthuyo ayamba kuwatsitsa. Potsirizira pake, kuti potsirizira pake achiritsidwe, wodwalayo amalankhula kwambiri ndi galu wamkulu wa mtundu woopsa; Panthawi ino iye amaiwala za phobia yake; mantha adafa. Mankhwalawa amatenga masabata awiri kapena atatu.

Phobias amachitiranso matenda oponderezedwa, kumukakamiza wodwalayo kuti adzokere ku matenda omwe amachititsa mantha kwambiri. Munthu amasewera zochitikazo ndipo motero chikumbukiro cha usiku chimataya chikhalidwe chake choyambirira. Chithandizo chomwecho ndi kukondwerera komwe kunayambitsidwa ndi agalu a mantha.

Neurosis monga izo ziri

Pa milandu yochulukirapo nkofunikira kuti musamaope mantha enieni, koma neurosis yokha. Apo ayi, munthu amene adachiritsidwa poopa wina kapena mzake ayamba kuchita mantha ndi kuona chinachake kapena wina. Pochiza matenda a neurosis, akatswiri amagwiritsa ntchito njira yapadera. Musaganize kuti ndi bwino kuti mwanayo afotokoze kuti omwe amamuopa - zolengedwa zopanda pake ndi zokongola, iye adachiza nthawi yomweyo. Izi sizikuchitika, chifukwa mantha sali m'maganizo, koma mu zigawo zakuya za chikumbumtima, ndipo sagonjera zikhulupiriro zomveka.