Timafotokozera mavuto
Kwenikweni, monga mu zina zilizonse, musawope nthawi yomweyo. Mwinamwake mwamuna wanu amangokhala ndi maganizo kapena mavuto kuntchito. Chabwino, kodi iwo akuipitsitsa kuposa ife? Pankhaniyi, m'pofunika kulankhula, fufuzani chifukwa. Mwina amuna anu okondedwa ayenera kulankhula, kugawana nanu, ndipo mudzakhala othandizira kwambiri komanso mphoto. Kapena mwinamwake mwamuna wanu, mosiyana, sakufuna kugaŵana nanu mwanzeru kwambiri. Inde, inde. Ndipo musadabwe. Ndi chinsinsi. Amuna ambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito pothetsa mavuto pawokha, ndipo mosiyana, kwaife akazi, nthawi zina kuti adziwonetsere okha, kugawana nawo zowawa zawo, zimawoneka zosaloledwa.
Kukongola mkati = kukongola kwakunja?
Ndi nkhani ina ngati mwamuna wanu akuchita bwino ndikugwira ntchito, komanso ali ndi thanzi labwino, koma simunamvetse bwino. Maluwa amakhala kawiri pachaka, pa tsiku la kubadwa ndi lachisanu ndi chitatu cha March, ndipo ena alibe ngakhale. Osati chidutswa chimodzi, palibe mawu ofunda, kuyang'ana mofatsa. Ndipo apo tikuwona Isex inakhala yosawerengeka, monga iwo akunenera, kunja kwa chizolowezi. Ndi chiyani chomwe chikuchitikira mayiyu? Ndikufuna kulankhula, kuyankhula. Kawirikawiri, akazi amachita zinthu mwabuluu ndipo amatha kuuza mwamuna wawo kuti: "Wokondedwa, n'chifukwa chiyani unasiya kunditamandira? Ndipo kodi mumandikonda? Ndipo ndine wokongola? ", Ndi zina zotero. Mwinamwake, izi sizidzatsogolera ku zotsatira zabwino. N'zosatheka kuti munthu akuyankhe, kuti sakukukonda kapena kuti ndiwe woipa. Pa nthawiyi, m'pofunika "kuphatikizapo" chomwe chimatchedwa nzeru yachikazi kapena ufulu wosanena, chinyengo. Choyamba, khalani patsogolo pa galasilo ndikuyang'ana paziwonetsero, mudziwonetse nokha, mukuwona msungwana, mtsikana wokongola, yemwe mwamuna wanu amamukonda kwambiri. Mkazi aliyense wolemekezeka ndi wachikondi, ndizofunikira kuti aziwoneka bwino. Ngakhale kunyumba. Ngakhale patatha zaka khumi ndikukhala pamodzi. Chovala chokongola cha nsalu ndi kavalidwe katsopano sichimuvulazepo mkazi aliyense. Mundikhulupirire ine, ziribe kanthu momwe zinalili mmenemo, ndi chirichonse chimene iwo akunena, ngakhale mu dziko lamakono mkazi sali wamng'ono pansi pa mwamuna, chiyambi choyambirira sichinyalanyaza mwa atsikana. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, mwa amuna, palibe amene anapha osaka omwe tonsefe tinamva. Dzichepetseni nokha ndikupangitsa munthu kusasangalatsa! Ndikhulupirire, inu nonse mungakonde!
Amayi ambiri nthawi zambiri sangathe kudziyesa okha, kulimbikitsa kuti ana, moyo, palibe nthawi. Ndipo, ngati iye akukonda, ndiye kuti ayenera kuzindikira ndi kukonda mtundu umene iye ali. Iye ndi dona, ndi zopusa komanso zopusa. Kotero tiyeni tonse tizisambira ndi mafuta, tiziyenda mu nsalu zotupa ndi zovala zonyezimira kuzungulira nyumba ndikudabwa, nanga n'chifukwa chiyani mwamuna uyu akuyamikira kukongola kwamoto mu bikini zomwe zikuwonetsedwa pa TV?
Kupatula pang'ono
Kuwonjezera pa kukongola kwa kunja ndi kudzikongoletsa, musaiwale ndi kuphunzira khalidwe. Pazochitika za moyo wa pakhomo, nthawi zambiri timaiwala za maonekedwe a mtundu uliwonse wachisoni ndi chifundo, koma tikufuna amuna omwewo. Iwo ndi ana akuluakulu, momwe amamuna ndi amphamvu sakuwonekera. Ndipo mwana aliyense amafunikira kutentha ndi kusamala. Sizosadabwitsa ngati mkazi asiya kupereka kwa mwamuna wake, choipa kwambiri, nthawi zonse amadula nthawi zonse, kuti mwamuna wake safuna kubweza chilichonse.
Kawirikawiri, pokwatirana kwa zaka zambiri, banjali limakhalanso ndi chidwi. Moyo wamba umagona ndi okwatirana. Adzabweretsa zosiyana pang'ono pa moyo wanu wapamtima. Palibe munthu amene amakonda zosayesa zogonana. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mumayenera kugulitsira kugula kugonana ndi kugula zinthu zosamvetsetseka komanso zodula. Ndipotu, chirichonse chiri chophweka kwambiri. Siyani ana ndi agogo anu, tchuthirani ndikugwiritsira ntchito limodzi. Kusintha chilengedwe sikungokulolani kuti mupumule ndi kupumula, komanso kukuwonetsani ubale wanu ndi mawonekedwe atsopano, atsopano. Kumbukirani monga kale, dozamuzhestva? Inu munayenda mozungulira kwa masiku, muthamanga ndi mwamuna wanu wamtsogolo kuti mukakhale ndi tsiku, mumpsompsona usiku wonse pansi pa nyenyezi zakuthambo. Kotero, chasintha chiyani? Ndiuzeni, zaka siziri zofanana, ana, ntchito. Ndipotu, m'njira zambiri ifeyo timayambitsa mavuto ndikupanga moyo wathu ndi moyo wina ndi mzake imvi ndi zamtundu uliwonse. Sizothandiza kudzipangira lamulo, mwachitsanzo, Loweruka lililonse madzulo kapena tsiku lina lililonse, yendani ndi mwamuna wanu wokondedwa mumzinda wamadzulo, mukhale kanyumba kosangalatsa kapena mutenge botolo la vinyo kunyumba ndikukondweretsana. Khalani ophweka, mtima wochepa pang'ono, wokondwa. Ndipo muzidzikonda nokha. Amuna amamva. Ngati munthu tsiku lililonse adzawona pafupi ndi iye, osati mkazi wosasangalatsa, wokwatira, koma mkazi wokongola, wokondwa, wachikondi, ndithudi adzakubwezera chimodzimodzi.
Amayi okondeka! Ngakhale mavuto onse otizungulira, kutopa, moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ... Tiyeni nthawi zonse tikumbukire kuti ndife akazi.