Anthu ambiri amayamba moyo watsopano Lolemba. Kapena kuchokera Chaka Chatsopano. Ndipo mayi wamtsogolo ali ndi chifukwa chabwino kwambiri chochitira izi, atadziwa kuti ali ndi mimba, avomereze kuti ndibwino kuti tsopano tikukhala ndi nthawi yomwe mimba yayamba kutengedwa ngati matenda. Ndipotu iyi ndi imodzi mwa nthawi zabwino kwambiri zomwe mkazi ayenera kukondwera nazo, monga amayi ambiri amakono ali ndi chochitikacho chokha, kuchokera ku mphamvu kawiri mu moyo. Ndipo zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri ngati ulendo waufupi wa miyezi 9 watsala kukumbukira makolo monga nthawi yowopsya, nkhawa komanso kuthetsa mavuto osiyanasiyana. Kotero, ndi kusintha kotani komwe kuli kotheka komanso kofunikira pamene tikuyembekezera mwana?
Mu thupi labwino, mzimu wathanzi.
Koma osati mwa njira zopanda malire kwa madokotala ndikuyika mayesero osiyanasiyana. Ambiri aife mwinamwake taganiza za momwe mungakhalire moyo wathanzi, koma kawirikawiri anthu okha omwe ali ndi mphamvu zambiri anali achangu. Komabe, m'magaziniyi ndi ofunikira: kudziletsa ndi cholinga. Cholinga cha mayi wam'tsogolo ndi choopsa kwambiri: kuchokera poti mkazi amadya ndi kumwa, momwe amapuma, ndi mawonekedwe ati omwe amathandizira, thanzi labwino ndi la mwana m'thupi limatengera mwachindunji. Aliyense amadziwa kuopsa kwake, mwachitsanzo, kusuta. Koma sikuti amayi onse ali ndi mphamvu zokwanira kuti asiye chizoloŵezi chovulaza ichi. Koma chidziwitso chakuti munthu wamng'ono amatha kukhazikika m'mimba, amapereka mphamvu zambiri kuti asiye kusuta. Sikuti aliyense ali wokonzeka kukhala pamadyerero ndikudzikana yekha zinthu zopanda pake, koma maonekedwe a mwanayo amalamula malamulo atsopano. Mwanayo amawatsogolera amayi kuwongolera zisankho pamaganizo. Sikovuta kuti mayi wapakati apereke chikho, tiyi wamchere kapena galasi lamadzi, kuphika nyama mmalo mwakuwotcha poto, phokoso ndi zipatso kapena mtedza mmalo mwa chips. N'chimodzimodzinso ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi. Inde, palibe amene akuyembekezera zolemba za Olympic kuchokera kwa iwe, angopeza katundu womwe umakonda, nthawi zambiri amasambira, amakondedwa ndi amayi ambiri oyembekezera ndipo amaona kuti masewera abwino kwambiri ndi akatswiri ambiri. Kapena yoga kwa amayi apakati, ofewa kwambiri, osati ovuta kwambiri ngakhale kwa osakonzekera. Ndipo kuyenda nthawi zonse mofulumira, makamaka paki, kudzakhala ndi zotsatira zabwino kwambiri. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi kuyesa kuchita zonse zosangalatsa, osati kudzikakamiza, koma, mosiyana, ngati kulimbikitsa, chifukwa izi ndizo zamoyo zodabwitsa kwambiri, zomwe zikuyembekezeredwa kwambiri, zomwe zikudalira inu.
Tiyeni tipitirire tokha.
Mwina kusintha fano, kalembedwe, zovala. Amayi ambiri amavomereza kuti akufuna kukhala achikazi kwambiri, amakopeka ndi mitundu yofewa, nsalu zoyenda bwino, zomwe zimakhala zojambulajambula kuti zisinthe zovala ndi madiresi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti chibadwa cha amayi, chikhalidwe cha amayi chimatipatsa mfundo zomwe ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito. Tsopano muli ndi chifukwa chabwino chokhalira pamper. Ndipo achibale, abwenzi, ndi abwenzi awo, monga lamulo, amanyalanyaza "kutaya" akazi pa nthawiyi. Monga momwe mwamuna wanzeru wa mnzanga wina ananenera, yemwe mwadzidzidzi adagula zovala zake (mu moyo wamba omwe samawakonda): "Inde, mugule. Mwadzidzidzi uwu ndi mimba yanu yotsiriza, timatha kukwaniritsa zofuna zanu, mumayenera kukhala ngati amayi okongola kwambiri padziko lonse! "