Mtengo wa Khirisimasi ndiyo nthawi yabwino yonena za kulengeza. Malinga ndi zikhulupiliro zambiri, madzulo a maholide akulu achikristu (January 7 ndi 19) mphamvu zoipa zimagwira ntchito kwambiri. Aliyense amene akudabwa kuti adziwe zomwe zidzachitike panthawiyi adzalandira yankho lodalirika. Zozizwitsa zimapangidwanso tsiku la Winter Solstice (December 25), ndipo pa Chaka Chatsopano (December 31). Masiku ano mungapeze zomwe zidzachitike chaka chamawa.
Atsikana aang'ono amakonda kusangalala ndi Khirisimasi. Mafunso ofala kwambiri akukhudzana ndi kukwaniritsidwa kwa zilakolako ndi gawo la chikondi. Mwamwayi, njira zambiri zamatsenga sizingakhoze kuchitika m'mizinda. Pambuyo pake, nyumbazi sizikhala osamba, nkhuni ndi nkhuku. Koma pali njira zopezera matsenga, zomwe zimapereka mayankho olondola komanso olondola.Kulosera kwa Khadi ndi betrothed
Mapu akhala akuwoneka ngati chida chapadera chamatsenga. Pothandizidwa ndi iwo, mukhoza kuyang'ana m'tsogolo ndikudziƔa momwe abambo amachitira. Kuti mupambane, mukufunikira digiti yosawerengeka ya makadi 36. Kuchokera pamenepo muyenera kusankha khadi limodzi limene lingapangitse munthu kukhala wambwebwe. Atsikana aang'ono amatenga maseche, akazi a zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri mphambu makumi awiri mphambu zisanu ndi zitatu (makumi asanu ndi awiri mphambu makumi awiri mphambu zisanu) - mayi wamtima. Zonsezi "zithunzi" zachotsedwa. Ndiye pakubwera nthawi yovuta kwambiri. Woperekera chiwongoladzanja akuwopsya bwino kabwalo, ndikuganiza mwakufunsani za chomwe chidzasankhidwe. Ndiye makadi onse amaikidwa mu mzere umodzi. Mapepala omwe akutsatira chithunzi cha wolosera amasonyeza mkwati wamtsogolo:- Ma diamondi (zakuthupi, zolakalaka, mwamsanga, amasankha):
- 10 - tanthauzo
- 9 - atetezedwa
- 8 - molunjika ndi molunjika
- 7 - kumangokhalira kukangana
- Sutu ya Trifovye (munthu wolimba, yemwe ali ndi udindo, wogwira ntchito za boma, asilikali):
- 10 - waluntha
- 9 - wodekha ndi wololera
- 8 - osakwatiwa
- 7 - kukayikira komanso osakhulupirika
- Chotupa cha mphutsi (moyo wa kampani, yotseguka, maonekedwe okongola ndi oyankhulana):
- 10 - aulemu, ali ndi makhalidwe abwino
- 9 - kucheza, achikondi
- 8 - wonyada
- 7 - osatsutsana, ali ndi chisangalalo
- Cholinga chachikulu (chinsinsi, chodziletsa, chili ndi mphamvu pa anthu ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu):
- 10 - odzikuza, odzikonda
- 9 - kutsutsa
- 8 - kulumpha, koma panthawi imodzimodzi wanzeru
- 7 - kuwerengera
Kusamba ndi mphete
Izi ndizobwezera kwa azimayi. Thirani mpunga kapena mpunga mu chikho chachikulu ndikubisa mphete zingapo pamenepo. Mmodzi ayenera kukhala wophweka (zodzikongoletsera), wachiwiri - siliva, wachitatu - golide, wachinayi - ndi mwala wamtengo wapatali. Mtsikana aliyense amathyola tirigu wambiri ndikumuyang'ana mdzanja lake:- Zodzikongoletsera zokongoletsera - munthu wophweka wopanda luso lapadera;
- mphete ya siliva - munthu yemwe ali ndi ndalama zambiri;
- mphete yagolidi - mnyamata wochokera ku banja lolemera;
- mphete ndi miyala yamtengo wapatali ndi mkwati wolemekezeka ndi wolemera.
- ngati mutakhala m'manja, amangoganiza za moyo wa bachelor.
Kulankhulira mu dzina la wotsutsa
Atsikana ambiri amafuna kudziwa dzina la mkwatibwi. Mungapeze yankho la funso ili m'njira zingapo zosavuta:- Pa pepala lalikulu makalata onse a alfabeti alembedwa mu bwalo, kupatula "i" ndi "i". Pakatikati mwa bwalolo muike mpeni, zomwe muyenera kupotoza, pofunsa funso lanu. Mpeni wa mpeni udzalozera ku kalata yomwe dzina la betrothed liyamba.
- Usiku wa 6 mpaka 7 Januwale, mapepala apangidwe amaikidwa pansi pa pillow. Pa aliyense wa iwo ayenera kulembedwa dzina lachimuna, limodzi kuti lichoke lopanda kanthu. Mmawa wa January 7, atangomuka, pepala limodzi lokha limachotsedwa (popanda kuyang'ana). Dzina lolembedwa pa ilo likufanana ndi dzina la mkwati. Pepala lopanda kanthu limatanthauza kuti dzina lake silinali pandandanda.
- Thirani madzi mu mbale yaikulu kapena beseni ndikuikapo chidebe pamtunda. Pamphepete mwa mbale zakhazikika pamapepala ndi maina a amuna. Ndiye pulogalamu yamakandulo imatayidwa ndipo imayikidwa pakati pa mapepala. Mwalawo uyenera kupita ku gawo limodzi la mapepala (kuti liwotchedwe), lomwe likukhudzana ndi dzina la osankhidwa amtsogolo. Ngati kandulo imakhala pamalo amodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, zikutanthauza kuti sipadzakhala kusintha kulikonse m'moyo wanu m'zaka zingapo zotsatira.