Ukwati umavala kwa akwatibwi kwa makumi atatu

Mavalidwe achikwati nthawizonse ndi ovuta kusankha. Izi sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa madiresi okwatirana ayenera kukhala apadera. Koma momwe mungachitire pamene zaka za akwatibwi ndi makumi atatu. Kodi mungasankhe bwanji kavalidwe koyenera kwa akwatibwi kwa zaka makumi atatu, kuti musamawoneke?

Ndipotu, kavalidwe ka ukwati kwa mkwatibwi kwa zaka makumi atatu tsopano sivuta kupeza. Komanso, musaiwale kuti ku Ulaya kukwatirana ali ndi zaka makumi atatu - izi ndizozolowezi. Kumeneko akwatibwi, inu mukhoza kunena, kuwonetsera khumi ndi awiri. Ndipo kwa iwo, ojambula akupanga madiresi osiyanasiyana. Ukwati umavala kwa amayi athu amakhalansopo. Pambuyo pake, ngakhale mutakhala osapitirira makumi atatu, izi sizikutanthauza kuti musamawoneke wokongola komanso wokongola. Choncho, kwa akwatibwi otero pali zovala zambiri. Olemba mafashoni amapanga mitundu yonse ya madiresi ndi zovala. Zinyumba zaukwati izi zimasiyanitsidwa ndi chiyambi ndi kukongola. Ndipo izo ziri za iwo, ife tsopano tiyankhula.

Koma poyamba, kumbukirani kuti kukwatira pa msinkhu wa zaka makumi atatu sizochititsa manyazi. Pambuyo pake, panthaƔi imeneyi ya moyo mkazi amadzipangira yekha kusankha, osati kutsogolera mtima wake wokha, komanso mwa nzeru zake. Kuonjezerapo, panthawi ino mayiyo ali kale ndi chikhalidwe chachuma komanso chuma, kotero saganizira za ndalama za ukwati. Inde, akufuna kuti munthu azipeza bwino, koma, panthawi yomweyi, amadziwa kuti akhoza kudzithandiza yekha. Inde, akangokhulupirira kuti ali ndi zaka makumi atatu - ndi olemekezeka kwambiri. Koma, musaiwale kuti panthaƔi imeneyo asungwana anapatsidwa ukwati ali ndi zaka khumi ndi zitatu kapena khumi ndi zinayi. Ndipo, ngati iwo sali magazi abwino, amayenera kugwira ntchito mwakhama, kotero ali ndi zaka makumi atatu iwo anali okalamba kwenikweni.

Koma, tsopano ndi nthawi ina. Amayi ambiri omwe tsopano ali makumi atatu, amamverera achichepere, ngakhale aang'ono. Choncho, pokwatira pa msinkhu uwu, simukusowa kuti mukhale ovuta. Pamapeto pake, ndi bizinesi yanu komanso moyo wanu, kotero palibe amene ali ndi ufulu woweruza.

Kotero, ndi chithunzi chotani chomwe mkwatibwi ali bwino kusankha ndi zovala ziti kuti asankhe mwambo wokongola uwu? Inde, pali njira zambiri zosiyana. Koma, komabe, tiyeni tiyambe tidziwa chomwe mafashoni amasiku ano akuyendera, ndipo, monga tonse tikudziwira, nyengo iliyonse imakhazikitsa malamulo atsopano ndi atsopano. Koma, komabe, lero machitidwe achikwati ndi demokarase mokwanira. Ndicho chifukwa chake mungathe kuyeserera momasuka ndi mwamtendere ndi zikondwerero zosiyanasiyana zomwe mumakhala nazo, komanso kuti mutenge chovala china. Tsopano pali zochitika zosiyanasiyana zaukwati, zomwe mungasankhe zomwe zingakhale zabwino kwambiri kwa inu. Mwachitsanzo, anthu ena amakondwerera ukwati mu miyambo yamtunduwu. Ndipotu, ndizokongola, chifukwa chikhalidwe cha anthu onse chimanyamula miyambo yambiri yosangalatsa komanso zizindikiro, zomwe zimawonetsedwa ndi zovala. Choncho, ngati mumasankha zovala zamtundu uliwonse ndikukonzekera ukwati wanu wonse, mawonekedwe anu adzakhala oyenera. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, pokhapokha pakupeza mwayi wamoyo, timayamba kuyamikira chikhalidwe ndi mbiri. Zovala za anthu sizingaganizire za msinkhu wanu, koma nzeru zanu ndi zomwe mumaphunzira.

Ndiponso, mukhoza kupanga ukwati wokongoletsedwa zaka makumi awiri kapena makumi atatu zapitazo. Zovala zimenezi zidzawoneka ngati zokongola komanso zokongola. Pakati pa mitundu ya madiresi a nthawi imeneyo, mayi aliyense adzasankha chimodzimodzi chomwe chimamuyenerera kwambiri. Inde, musaiwale kuti, mu nkhaniyi, alendo onse ndi osowa pokonzekera amayeneranso kuvala moyenera. Apo ayi, zikondwerero zaukwati siziwoneka koyambirira, koma zokondweretsa. Choncho, musanasankhe njira yotereyi, sankhanibe ngati zili zoyenerera kwa inu komanso ngati alendo angadzafike momwe zingakhalire, kapena ndibwino kuti musankhe mwambo wachikwati ndi kavalidwe ka chikhalidwe.

Mwa njira, amayi ena amakhulupirira molakwika kuti sangathe kusankha zovala zomwe mkwatibwi wamng'ono angazivala. Ndipotu izi siziri choncho. Muyenera kutsogoleredwa ndi maganizo okhudza msinkhu wanu, koma malingaliro anu. Ngati mukumva ngati makumi awiri, musayese kukhala wamkulu komanso wovuta. Inde, kink ndodo siyeneranso. Posankha zovala, kumbukiraninso za deta yanu yakunja. Yesetsani kusankha ndondomeko yoyenera yomwe idzagogomezera ulemu wanu. Mwa njira, musaganize kuti chovala chaukwati chiyenera kukhala chowopsa, kukhala ndi crinoline ndi mipendero yambiri. Fashoni yamakono ili ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana yosiyanasiyana. Anthu ambiri ayesayesa kusankha madiresi amenewa, omwe angagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati madiresi am'mawa. Ndiponso, simukusowa kugula chovala choyera. Pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya pinki, yofiirira, kirimu, khofi. Pakati pawo pali zovala zoyenerera mfumukazi yeniyeni.

Ndiponso, vuto lina limodzi kwa okwatirana kwa makumi atatu limakhala chophimba. Chowonadi ndi chakuti amadziwa: ichi ndi chikhalidwe choyenera cha kavalidwe kaukwati. Koma, panthawi yomweyi, amai ambiri amakhulupirira kuti sali oyenerera kuvala chotchinga ndi msinkhu. Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Ndipotu, musaganizire zovuta zosafunikira ndikudzidandaulira nokha. Fashoni yamakono yatsala pang'ono kusiya chotchinga. Inde, akwatibwi ambiri amavala iye, chifukwa ichi ndi chikhalidwe chachikhalidwe. Koma, ngati simukufuna chophimba, ndiye kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito korona kapena zokongoletsera zokongola kuchokera maluwa a tsitsi lanu. Ndikhulupirire. Iwo sadzawoneka choipa kuposa chophimba, perekani chithunzi chanu mwachinsinsi ndi kukongola.

Ndipotu, ngati mkwatibwi ali ndi zaka zoposa makumi atatu ndipo ali ndi chiwerengero chabwino, akhoza kugula zovala. Zonse zachikwati zachikwati zimakhala zokhazikika pazithunzi ndi zoonda zopanda. Chabwino, ngati mumadziwona nokha zolakwa zanu, pezani madiresi ndi zovala zaufulu ndi zovala. Musayese kudzimangiriza mu corset, kuti musapume kupambana konse. Bwino kusankha zovala zaulere zomwe mungayang'ane mwachibadwa ndikukhala omasuka.