Nsanje ya ana kapena udani mwa njira ya alongo

Nsanje ya ana kapena udani ndi mlongo m'banja. Mwana wanu wamkazi wamkulu adanena kuti wamng'ono kwambiri ndiye nkhondo yeniyeni ... Kuchita nsanje ndi chinthu chodabwitsa, ndithudi, chodziwika. Mukuwerenga za izi ndikumva kwa ena. Mwachidziwitso, izi zikuwoneka zomveka bwino ndipo zingagonjetsedwe: mwana aliyense, amati, akufuna chikondi chochuluka. Koma pamene chodabwitsa ichi chiri pafupi, ndipo pamlingo waukulu kuti chikhumbo cha chikondi chimafanana ndi udani weniweni ... Ingotayika ndipo simukudziwa choti muchite! Mwana wanu wamng'ono asanabereke, inu, monga momwe mungathere, anafotokozera wamkulu kuti posachedwapa ali ndi mlongo wamng'ono, kuti adzathe kusewera limodzi naye, ndipo kawirikawiri adzakhala osangalatsa pamodzi. Mwana wamkazi wamkulu anamvetsera mauthenga anu popanda chidwi, osadumphadumpha ndi kubwezerera zidole zake ... Pamene inu ndi mwanayo mudatengedwa kuchipatala, amamva chisoni kwambiri pozindikira kubwezeretsedwa kwa banja. Anayamba kuchita ngati wachifwamba. Pa sitepe iliyonse, ndinayamba kukhala wamwano kwa inu. Pa nthawi yosafunika kwambiri imayendetsa amatsenga. Koma nsanje za ana kapena udani zikhoza kumveka mwa njira ya alongo: Mwana wamkazi wamkulu wakhala akukondedwa kwambiri m'banja, ndipo tsopano wokondana adzawonekera. Mukapanda kuwona, amachotsa pang'onopang'ono kuti amve.

Tweaks izo , amazitcha ndi mawu oyipa. Ndipo kawirikawiri amachitira molimba mtima molimba mtima molakwika. Izi zikhoza kutchedwa nsanje yaunyamata kapena kudana mwadongosolo. Mwamuna amavomereza pa zodandaula zanu ndi kudandaula, akumbukira kuti iwo ndi mchimwene wawo nayenso anali ndi nsanje yoyenera pakati pa ana ndi mpikisano - ndipo palibe chowopsya, chinadutsa paokha. "Musamamvetsere za antics - ndipo adzaima," akukutsimikizirani. Ndipo inu ndi mophweka simungathe kuchita zokambirana ndi mtima ndi mtima. Wamng'ono anabadwa wamng'ono, wofooka, nthawi zambiri wodwala. Inunso, simukumva bwino. Ndinayesera kufotokoza kwa wamkuluyo, ndikumupangitsa kukhala wachifundo - ngati kuyang'ana pa khoma. Nsanje ya ana ikupambanabe. Kuwonekera kuchokera pansi pa mawonekedwe ake, maso ngati tizilombo tating'onoting'onoting'onoting'onoting'onoting'onoting'onoting'onoting'onoting'ono, omwe amawopsa: "Ndipo sindinakufunseni kuti mubereke aliyense Tinaganiza zothetsa vutoli panopa ndikulikonza monga momwe mumafunira. "

Patapita nthawi , monga, zonsezi zinkakhala zochepa kwambiri. Mwana wamkazi wamkulu, yemwe adakhala msungwana wa sukulu, anali ndi zodzikongoletsera zatsopano, watsopano wothandizana nawo - ndipo anasiya kumuopseza mwanayo. Koma chikondi cha alongo pa mbali yake sichinayambepo. Simunamuone akukangana ndi mlongo wake, kusonyeza chidwi ndi chidwi chake. Malangizo anu, ngati mupempha kuthandizira kusamalira ang'onoang'ono, amachita, koma mosasamala komanso mosasamala. Koma kawirikawiri, amakulira mwana weniweni, ndi momwe angamupulumutsire ku dera lachidani. Wakulira mwanayo akukhala, makamaka kumverera kwa nsanje yaunyamata kapena udani ndi mlongo. Ndi zomwe zingakhale zogwirizana - simukudziwa. Mwachitsanzo, iwo adagula foni yachinyamata (wamkuluyo ali ndi nthawi yayitali), choncho anayamba kumenyana ndi mlongo wake pachabe. Pofuna kupeza zomwe zikuchitika, musapereke chirichonse: "O, uyu ndiye mngelo wanu wokondedwa!". Wamng'ono sanachite chilichonse kwa mlongo wake woipa, koma mosiyana ndi zonse, zonse zimayesa kusewera naye, kuti akhale ndi abwenzi. Koma kuchokera kwa akuluakulu nthawi zonse amanyodola, kuseka, misonkhano yoipa ndi mawu oipa.

Udani mwa njira ya alongo ukutuluka. Inde, ndikukhumudwa tsopano kukumbukira momwe inu munalota ndi ubwenzi wa atsikana awiri aulemerero ndi mgwirizano wa akazi anu ...
Mulimonsemo, tiyese kuyesa kukambirana ndi mwana wamkazi wamkulu, yemwe wakhala akulembedwera "achifwamba"! Icho chikutsalirabe kuti zitsatire udindo womwe wapatsidwa. Kuchokera kunja kuli kovuta kuweruza chomwe chimayambitsa "nthabwala" za mwana wake wamkazi. Ndipotu palibe amene amawona kuti amadzilola yekha "mngelo" pamene palibe makolo pafupi. Kuti asiye udani, njira yosavuta yowonjezera ikufunika. Chinthu choyamba chobwezera chiyanjano chokhulupilira chingakhale ulendo wopita ku tchuthi pamodzi. Mwana wanga wamkazi ayenera kumverera kuti ndi wofunikira kwa amayi ake. Ndipo apo inu mukuyang'ana, ndipo kukangana kudzatha.