Zimakhala zakuda, ndipo nthawi zina zimati pali woyera, koma mtundu uliwonse umakhala ndi mphamvu zowonongeka, pang'onopang'ono kufooketsa kudzidalira, kudzidalira komanso kusokoneza chiyanjano ndi ena. Maganizo otero, monga kaduka, ndi obadwa mwa anthu okha. Ganizirani, chifukwa palibe tambala adzadzifanizira okha ndi mphungu kapena peacock ndikuvutika ndi tulo, ndikuiwala zonse za nkhuku zawo. Ndipo chimachitika ndi chiyani kwa ife?
Ngakhale ife sitingathe kudzivomereza tokha nthawi zonse kuti timasirira . Sitikuchitira nsanje antchito anzathu okha, komanso achibale athu: abwenzi, abale, alongo. Kumbuyo kwa mpanda woyandikana nawo mpanda, monga mukudziwa, nthawi zonse udzu umakhala wobiriwira.
Ndikofunika kuti wina athandizidwe ndi anthu enaake, momwe mumayamba kumverera movutikira pafupi naye. Ayi, "sitimasirira", pamene, taphunzira za kupambana kwa wina, timati: "Mudzaganiza ... kotero bwanji! Zomwezo kwa ine ... Inde, sindikusowa izi. "
Anthu ambiri omwe satha kusangalala ndi kupambana kwa ena chifukwa cha kaduka, amasonyeza mwachidwi kuti chinali chonyenga chabe kukwaniritsa zonsezi. Ndipo tsopano powona momwe bwenzi ali ndi galimoto yabwino, suti yamtengo wapatali, mumayamba kumuchitira kaduka, ndipo pamene iye anali ndi nkhawa kwambiri potsegula bizinesi yake, kutayika ndalama ndikuyendabe patsogolo, munalibe kuyang'ana mosamveka. Chifukwa chiyani tsopano, popeza mwaphonya nthawiyi mu moyo wa mnzako, kodi mumangokhalira kudana ndi zotsatira zokha, zomwe mwaikapo mphamvu zambiri? Nchiyani chimakulepheretsani kuchita chimodzimodzi, kuti mupange nsembe zomwezo kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino?
Alipo anthu omwe ali ovuta kwambiri kwa okondedwa awo . Ndipo monga akunena, tonsefe timabwera kuchokera muubwana. Ngati, kuyambira ali mwana, mwanayo wakhala akunena kuti ali woipitsitsa kuposa Sasha, yemwe adalandira "zisanu" ndipo amathamanga mofulumira komanso nthawi zonse, ndiye, atakula, munthu amadziyerekezera ndi wina ndipo amamva kuti " ndiye kupambana pawekha. Musapangitse zolakwika zomwezo ndi ana anu, yerekezerani zotsatirapo zokhazokha ndizo zawo. Mwachitsanzo, nenani kuti kumapeto kotsiriza mwaphunzira bwino kuposa izi, choncho muyesetse kukokera zinthu zina.
Mulimonsemo, muzonse mungapeze nthawi zabwino . Ngati mukuchita zomwe mumakonda, ndiye kuti simungasokoneze magazi anu, chifukwa munthu wokhutira sazindikira zolakwitsa za moyo wake. Kodi si bwana? Zolondola, chifukwa chofunira kuchokera kwa inu nthawi yochuluka ndi yochuluka ya moyo waumwini. Ingosuntha zamveka. Yesani zonse zomwe zili zabwino pamoyo wanu, mukuyang'ana kudzera mu galasi lokulitsa, ndi chisokonezo chodutsa.
Ngati , ngati inu muli ndi nsanje kwa ena , ndiye choyamba, ganizirani, mwinamwake khalidwe lanu limasokoneza ulemu wa anthu ena. Onetsani kudziletsa, musadzitamande. Pamapeto pake, tsogolo la munthu wopanda nzeru, akhoza kukuchokerani. Sikofunika kulankhula za zolinga zanu, zomwe zisanachitikebe, chifukwa mutaya mphamvu, zomwe zingathandize kukhazikitsa ndondomekoyi.
Yesetsani kulankhulana mochepa ndi omwe amakuchitirani nsanje momveka bwino, omwe mumakhala osamvetsedwa pamaso pawo. Kuchokera poti mudzayesera kuwasangalatsa iwo sangathe kukuchitirani bwino. Mukabwera kunyumba, sambani ndi madzi ozizira, zidzatengani ndi mauthenga oipa omwe mudapatsa anthu achisoni.
Phunzirani, ngakhale ziri zovuta, kuti muzisangalala ndi anthu ena, kuti mupeze nthawi zabwino m'moyo wanu chifukwa iwo, ndithudi, ali, ndipo mokwanira, amafunikira kuti azindikire.