Kodi zimachitika mu ubale wanu kuti mnyamata amatha nthawi yambiri yocheza ndi abwenzi ake, koma amaiwala za iwe? Kodi mukudziwa izi ndipo simukudziwa choti muchite ndi momwe mungathetsere vutoli?
Nchifukwa chiyani anyamata amasankha anzawo ndikusiya atsikana awo?
Vutoli makamaka limatanthawuza anyamata achichepere, omwe sadayendepo ndipo sadzikonzekera kuti azidziphatika okha ndi manja awo.
Anyamata amasankha anzanu, chifukwa ndi iwo omwe amakhala odekha komanso omasuka. Palibe amene amawerenga makhalidwe ndipo samayesera kusintha. Pamene mnyamata ali ndi gulu la anzanu, ali ndi mpumulo mumtima mwake. Iye akhoza kuchita chirichonse chopusa ndipo amadziwa kuti palibe amene angamuimbe mlandu iye. Pambuyo pake, iye ndi abwenzi ake ali ngati anthu amalingaliro.
Nthawi zambiri, anyamata amasankha anzawo ndikusiya atsikana awo chifukwa cha zofewa zawo. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zonse ankawathandiza abwenzi ake - anafika pofuna, kumapeto kwa sabata komanso nthawi yake yonse yaulere. Koma, mwadzidzidzi pamoyo wake panali mtsikana amene anayamba kukomana naye. Pa nthawi imeneyi, ubale pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana si wolimba ndipo mwamunayo samadziwa kuti ndi njira yake kapena ayi. Amaopa kupha abwenzi ake, choncho amaika abwenzi ake patsogolo pake.
Ndikupatsani chitsanzo cha nkhani imodzi. Izo zinachitika mu moyo wa msungwana wina wokongola ndi wanzeru. Kuchokera kumbali, ndikhoza kunena kuti mtsikanayu ndi wabwino kwa munthu aliyense. Kuwoneka kowala, bwenzi lokondweretsa, wanzeru ndi kuwerenga bwino. Pa zaka zake zachinyamata, kale anali ndi lingaliro la momwe angakhalire bwino maubwenzi ndi anyamata.
Madzulo a chaka chatsopano, anakumana ndi mnyamata wa msinkhu wake. Mnyamatayo anali wolimbikira kwambiri pachibwenzi chake. Chotsatira chake, adakwanitsa cholinga chake, adayamba kukumana.
Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yoyamba, msungwanayo anasangalala ndi chimwemwe - chibwenzi chake chinali chokongola, chokongola kwambiri ndipo ankafuna mphindi iliyonse yaulere kuti azikhala naye. Anapatsa maluwa, ananditengera ku cinema - anali ndi mwayi ndipo anasangalala kuti anali pafupi. Ndiyenela kudziŵa kuti mu nyengo yachisangalalo panalibe kulankhula za abwenzi ake - iwo sanakumane nawo mu ubale wawo.
Koma, mwamsanga pomwe mphindi ya chikondi idatha, mnyamatayo anatsegula nkhope yake yeniyeni. Mavuto anayamba. Ndi zinthu ziti? Ndizo zomwe tikuyesera kuti tichite, pamutu wakuti: "Nchifukwa chiyani anyamata amasankha anzawo ndikusiya atsikana awo"?
Usiku uliwonse ankayenera kupita ku bizinesi - kunyamula bwenzi kuchokera kuntchito, kutenga mnzanga wina ku sitolo, kumwa mowa ndi bwenzi lachitatu, amene mtsikanayo watsala pang'ono kusiya.
Wachiroma wathu sanali wochokera kwa amantha khumi ndi kukhala chete, pamene chinachake sichinamuyenere, iye sanakonze. Osati kukonza amatsenga, msungwanayo anayesa kuyankhula ndi chibwenzi chake - kufotokoza kuti khalidwe lake limamukhumudwitsa; kuti afotokoze. Kuti akufuna kuti azikhala naye nthawi yochuluka ndipo amakhumudwa chifukwa chakuti anzake ndi opatulika kwa iye, ndipo sali wofunikira kwambiri.
Koma, chifukwa cha khalidwe lake, mnyamatayo anatenga zinthu molakwika. Nkhanza zinayamba - kenako zinayanjananso ndipo, munthuyo adalonjeza kuti tsopano zonse zidzakhala zosiyana. Koma mwezi unadutsa, ndipo adakumbukiranso za chibwenzi chake.
Kupirira kwake kunafika pamapeto - iye analibe mphamvu yowonjezera chinachake. Komanso, ngati mnyamatayu sakanatha kumvetsa.
Afika kumapeto kuti sakukonda ubale wotero, kuti sakufuna kukhala nthawi ya khumi kapena makumi awiri.
Pamapeto pake, iwo anaphwanya. Ngakhale kuti mnyamatayu akufuna kubwezeretsanso, koma nthawi imodzimodziyo, sanamvetse chifukwa chake amapuma.
Ngati mukukumana ndi vuto ngatilo, pamene anyamata amasankha anzanu ndikusiya atsikana awo - poyambirira, adakali ofunika kuti amvetsere zopweteka zanu ndikukambirana ndi munthuyo. Mwinamwake iye sakudziwa kuti khalidwe lake limakukhumudwitsani inu. Ngati kukambirana sikubweretsa zotsatira zabwino, ndikuganiza kuti ndibwino kuti tisiyanitse chiyanjanocho, mwinamwake, mudzalira usiku uliwonse mumtsamiro pamene chibwenzi chanu chimasangalala ndi anzanu. Ikani izo musanakhale kusankha - osayenera. Ndikutsimikiza kuti adzasankha anzanu, ngakhale atakukondani ndi mtima wake wonse.