Sikuti mkazi aliyense amapatsidwa mkazi wabwino. Wina sangathe kugona mwamtendere, ngati pali pepala limodzi patebulo, ndipo kuti wina asapume mwezi umodzi ndilozolowereka. Koma posakhalitsa mzimayi aliyense amayamba kumvetsetsa kuti akuyenera kudzimanganso yekha ndi kusiya kukhala mbuye woipa. Kodi izi zingatheke bwanji?
Mtsinje wa Mneniso
Pamene wina ayamba kutsutsa nyumba yathu zomwe zikuchitika mmenemo, nthawi zambiri timakwiya ndipo timalengeza kuti izi sizinthu zawo. Komabe, nthawi zonse pali munthu amene timamvetsera maganizo ake. Choyamba, poyamba tingathe kukangana, ngakhale kutsutsana, koma ndi mawu ake omwe amanyansidwa pamutu mwathu ndipo adzatipangitsa kuganiza. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti simungathe kukhala munthu wokhala nawo bwino - pemphani munthu wotere mnyumba mwanu ndipo musayambe kukonzekera kubwera kwake, mwinamwake iye akhoza kukhala ndi maganizo olakwika. Mulole chirichonse chikhale monga momwe zilili pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwa njira, poitana oterowo kunyumba kwanu, simukusowa kumuuza za cholinga chomwe mumamuitana. Mukamamuuza, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse mumaganiza kuti akukutsutsani chifukwa akuchita ntchito yake. Choncho mungoitanira kuti ayendere, ndipo ayang'ane zomwe anachita. Kawirikawiri, munthu wovomerezeka woteroyo ndi munthu wapafupi kwambiri amene amaopa kukuuzani zoona. Choncho, konzani kuti mawu ake akhoza kukukhumudwitsani kwambiri. Koma lingaliro lake pakapita nthawi lidzakupangitsani kuganiza ndikusintha chinachake. Mwinamwake, poyambirira inu mudzamvetsera, ndiye kuti ziyamba kukuwoneka kuti akuwombera ndodo ndipo mumavomereza kale kutsutsidwa kwake ndi zikhomo. Koma potsirizira pake, pamene mufufuza ndikusinthasintha chirichonse, mukumvetsa kuti ali wolondola, mudzasankha ndikuganiza momwe mukufuna kusintha chinachake.
Kufalitsidwa ndi
Amwenye ambiri amavutika kuti achite zonse mwakamodzi. Poganizira zoyeretsa, amangoyamba kuzungulira komanso kusokonezeka. Choncho, amatenga nthawi yaitali kuti azikhala pamodzi ndi mzimu, asanapite ku bizinesi ndipo atapita nthawi yaitali amachoka. Chifukwa chake, pali nthawi yayitali pakati pa kuyeretsa, kumene nyumbayo ili yonyansa kwambiri. Pofuna kupewa izi, simukufunika kuchita zonse mwakamodzi. Pitirizani kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Kodi tikukamba za chiyani? Mwachitsanzo, lero mumatsuka chipinda chanu ndipo ndizokha. Ndipo, kuyeretsa kungatambasulidwe tsiku lonse. Palibe amene amakupangitsani kuti muzichita zonse mwakamodzi. Sikofunika kwa nthawi yomwe mumatsiriza ntchitoyi, ndipo zotsatira zake zidzakhala zotani. Choncho, mukhoza kusokoneza zotsalira pa matebulo ndikuwonera mndandanda, kenako fumbi ndikuchita zina. Zotsatira zake, simungamve kutopa koteroko, komwe kumapangitsa kuti pakhale ntchito. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti iwe ukhale ndi cholinga pawekha - kutsiriza kuyeretsa chipinda madzulo ndikusafulumira tsiku lotsatira, chifukwa mawa uyenera kuchita ntchito ina, mwachitsanzo, kusamba mawindo paliponse. Kuyeretsa nyumbayo mwanjira iyi, simungalole kuti muyambe zonse, chifukwa kuyeretsa kudzachitika pafupifupi tsiku lililonse, koma m'magawo ang'onoang'ono. Momwemo mutha kukwaniritsa kuti nyumbayo idzayeretsedwa kamodzi pa sabata, monga momwe mukufunira, ndipo ndithudi mumatha kumayeretsa maola ambiri tsiku ndi tsiku ndikusiya kuyang'ana. Njira iyi ndi yabwino kwa amayi aulesi omwe sangathe kuchita zomwe zimakhudza nthawi yaitali.
Ktorano amadzuka
Pa kasamalidwe ka bwino ka chuma, nthawi zambiri timakhala ndi nthawi yochepa komanso timakhala tikukonza ndondomeko yolakwika. Izi zimagwira ntchito makamaka kwa ogwira ntchito kunyumba. Atadzuka pa 4 koloko madzulo, usiku umabwera ndi mwachibadwa, ukufuna kupumula, koma usamachite chinachake chokhudza nyumbayo. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kuchita zonse, dziwani kuti mumakhala ola limodzi nthawi ya masana. Ambiri adzanena tsopano kuti ndichedwa kwambiri, koma onetsetsani kuti pali ena omwe ali oyambirira kwambiri. Mukadzuka m'mawa, mudzawona nthawi yochuluka yomwe mudzakhala nayo. Mfundo ndi yakuti ngati simukukonda kugalamuka usiku komanso kugona tulo tambiri, munthu amene ali ndi kachilomboka kameneka amagwira ntchito mwakuthupi komanso mwamaganizo pamene dzuwa likuwala. Ndicho chifukwa chake ngati mukufuna kupeza nthawi ndi mphamvu kuti mugwire bizinesi, yesetsani kugawa zinthu zanu kuti ntchitoyo ndipo mumagwira ntchito zapakhomo masana, ndipo madzulo ndi usiku munakhalabe. Tinayankhula ndi anzanu ndi zina zotero. Ndikhulupirireni, nthawi yochuluka yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito, ndiye kuti tsikulo lidzatha. Ndipo ngati nthawi yambiri, ndiye bwanji osapatsa ora la kuyeretsa boozer. Choyamba, poyamba zingakhale zovuta kuti mukhale ndi ndondomeko yatsopano, koma onetsetsani kuti thupi lidzamanganso mofulumira kwambiri, monga momwe moyo wamasana ulili wodziwika bwino, ndipo mukhoza kusamalira zonse ndipo simukuona kuti ndinu waulesi kuchita ntchito zapakhomo ndikuwononga nthawi yanu pa iwo.
Kitchen
Azimayi ambiri amakonza zakudya zowonjezera kwambiri zomwe zimadya zakudya zofulumira, chifukwa amaganiza kuti zimatenga pafupifupi theka la tsiku kukonzekera chinachake chabwino. Ndipotu, lingaliro limeneli ndi lolakwika ndi lolakwika. Ngati mukuda nkhawa kuti ndinu mbuye woipa, koma simukufuna kusintha moyo wanu, ndiye kuti mumangokhalira kuphika mofulumira komanso chokoma Mbuye si wina yemwe sangathe kuyima pa uvuni kwa theka la tsiku, koma iye amene amadyetsa alendo ake ndi vermicelli kuphika mwamsanga ndi msuzi kuchokera kumagazi. Choncho, choyamba, muyenera kusiya zakudya zoterezi kuchokera ku zakudya zanu. Sizowoneka kuti zimakukhumudwitsani, monga mayi wamkazi, zimakhudza thanzi lanu. Mayi wabwino amafunika kukonzekera mbale yoyamba nthawi zonse. Chinsinsi ndi chakuti simusowa kupanga mitundu khumi ya supu ndi borscht. Zokwanira kusankha wina amene mumakonda kwambiri ndikuphunzira kuphika. Mwachitsanzo, kuti mukhale msuzi wouma, simukusowa kuthera nthawi yochuluka, pomwe zimakhala zosangalatsa komanso zokoma. Kawirikawiri, kotero kuti simunauzidwenso kuti ndiwe munthu wamba mu khitchini, muyenera kungosankha zakudya zochepa zomwe mumakonda ndikuzikonzekera mwamsanga, kuti muzitha kuphika mbale izi kuti muzitha kuchita bwino ndipo simudzauzidwa kuti simungathe kudyetsa nokha alendo.
Kukwanitsa kukhala munthu wogwira ntchito yabwino sizochita luso lapadera kwa osankhidwa, koma kugawidwa bwino kwa nthawi yanu kuti mukhale omasuka kuchita chinachake.