Kuchita mwachibadwa.
Amanyazi kwambiri ndi osabvundika ndi iwo omwe amanama chifukwa cha mawu ofiira. Anthu oterewa nthawi zambiri amakhala moyo wa kampani, olemba nkhani zokongola komanso ochepa. Amanena nkhani zozizwitsa zomwe mukufuna kwambiri kukhulupirira. Kupambana kwa mabodza awo ndikuti ambiri a ife tikufuna kukhulupirira mu chozizwitsa ndi m'nthano, zomwe timapeza pamene tikumvetsera nkhani zawo. Zoonadi, ambiri amayenera kukhala mu nsapato za bodza wabodza, kotero n'zosavuta kumvetsa anthu oterowo. Timadziwa bwino chifukwa chake timayankhula pazinthu zoterezi - kuti tibweretse chitsitsimutso ku zokambirana kapena kukopa chidwi pa kampani yatsopano. Kawiri kawiri, bodza limeneli silimakhala lopanda phindu, kupatula ngati talente ya wolemba nkhaniyo imagwiritsidwa ntchito phindu.
Kunama kwa chipulumutso.
Nthawi zambiri anthu amanama, kukhulupirira kuti kunama kumathandiza munthu. Kuti tiyankhe funsoli chifukwa chake timagona pamene munthu wapafupi akudwala kwambiri, ngati bwenzi limasintha mwamuna wake, ngati sitikukonda tsitsi latsopano kapena galimoto, sizili zovuta. Sitikufuna kupwetekanso kachiwiri, timaganiza kuti munthu adzasangalala kwambiri ngati sakudziwa choonadi. Ndipotu, timamupangira chisankho chowonadi kuti alipo, ndipo timayankhula zabodza kwa iye mwini. Nthawi zambiri mabodza amenewa ndi olondola. Koma kwenikweni, bodza ndilo bodza nthawi zonse, ziribe kanthu chifukwa chomwe chingathetsere. Kawirikawiri, ndizofunika kuti munthu adziwe choonadi kuti atenge zofunikira, ngakhale kungokhala nkhani yopambana.
Mabodza opindulitsa.
Nthawi zambiri anthu amanena zabodza, pogwiritsa ntchito phindu lawo. Ambiri anakumana ndi zovuta ngati izi zimakhala zophweka kunama, pamene tinachedwa kucheka ntchito, pamene tinayiwala za lonjezo lathu, pamene ndife aulesi kwambiri kuti tichite chinachake. Nchifukwa chiyani timagona muzochitika zoterezi? Chifukwa choonadi sichingakhale chopindulitsa kwa ife. Koma phindu la kunama lingakhale losiyana. Anthu ochita zachiwerewere nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito mfundo zawo zowonongeka komanso zolimbikitsa kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo, zomwe sizinapambane. Kawirikawiri ndi malo opindulitsa omwe amapangitsa anthu onyenga kukhala osokonezeka kwambiri.
Kulungamitsidwa kwa maofesi awo.
Kawirikawiri anthu amapinduladi zoona, chifukwa dzikoli ndi moyo wawo, sizikugwirizana nazo. Wina sakhutira ndi ntchito yawo, wina ali ndi galimoto, wina ali ndi ubale wapamtima. Nthawi zonse pali chinachake chimene sichikugwirizana ndi zomwe tikuyembekeza. Koma ngati wina ayesa kukonza moyo molingana ndi zilakolako zawo, ndiye kuti pali ena amene amakonda kunama. Anthu oterewa amapanga chinyengo chokha, ndi iwo omwe amalankhula za zokongola, zomwe zimayang'ana bwino, za ntchito yabwino kwambiri, za magalimoto okwera mtengo komanso moyo umene anthu ambiri sangakwanitse. Mwa njirayi ndi zophweka kupeza kutchuka, koma ndi chiani chomwe chidzakhala mtengo wake ndipo ziwopsezo ziti zidzawululidwe panthawi yovuta kwambiri - osati aliyense akuganiza za izo. Kawirikawiri okonda amabisala moyo wawo weniweni, kwa nthawi yaitali amatchula dzina loipa.
Chilichonse chonyenga, nthawi zonse sichisangalatsa. Ndi anthu ochepa chabe omwe amamukonda akamamunyamula pamphuno, nanga n'chifukwa chiyani timanama, ngati tikudziwa momwe zingakhalire zopweteka? Aliyense ali ndi zifukwa zake komanso zifukwa zake. Izi ziyenera kumveka kuti munthu aliyense kamodzi kamodzi pamoyo wake amagwiritsa ntchito izi kapena bodza lamtundu umenewu ndipo cholinga chake chingakhale chilichonse. Nthawi zina bodza silingaganizire, nthawi zina kukhululukira. Aliyense amasankha yemwe, ndi liti, ndi chifukwa ninji amamukhululukira chifukwa cha bodza. Koma m'moyo, choonadi nthawi zonse chimakhala chamtengo wapamwamba, zirizonse zomwe zingakhalepo.