Kodi mukudziwa Barbara Cher? Ameneyu ndi wolemba wotchuka kwambiri - wolemba wa "Kulota sizowopsya" - buku lomwe lamasuliridwa m'zilankhulo makumi awiri ndipo lakhala likulemba mndandanda wabwino kwa zaka 35. Ngakhale kuti tsogolo la Barbara ndi lovuta kuchitira nsanje.
Anachoka molawirira ndi ana awiri m'manja mwake, adagwira ntchito ngati mlonda kwa zaka 7 kuti adyetse banja lake. Nthawi yonseyi anali ndi nthawi yaitali komanso yovuta kuti apite ku maloto ake - analemba mabuku ndikuthandiza anthu. Buku loyamba la Barbara linatuluka ali ndi zaka 45. Kuchokera apo, Barbara wakhala athandiza anthu mamiliyoni ambiri padziko lapansi kupeza ntchito yawo. Ndipo ife takusankhirani inu malangizo angapo ochokera m'mabuku a Barbara kuti mungachite bwanji izi.
Njira ya Feline
Kotero, ndikuti kuti uyambe kuyang'ana kuyitana kwanu? Popeza muyenera kupumula. "Nthawi zina timalephera kwambiri kuti tipeze komwe tikupita, chifukwa zikuwoneka kuti zidzakhala zofunikira kusankha moyo. Ndiyeno chikhumbo chathu chimakhala chofunikira kwambiri kwa ife kotero kuti sitingathe kukwanitsa, "- akulemba Barbara Cher m'buku" Kukota sikovulaza. "
Ndipo talingalirani chomwe chingachitike ngati mutakhala ndi miyoyo yambiri, ngati mphaka? Tiye tinene zisanu. Kodi mungawachotse bwanji? Tengani kapepala ndi zolemba pakali pano ndipo lembani mutu wakuti "moyo 5." Ndipo tsopano taganizirani: muli ndi miyoyo isanu, ndipo moyo uliwonse umene mungathe kuchita pa nkhani inayake. Zidzakhala zotani? Tiyerekeze kuti muli ndi mndandanda wotere: Wopereka TV, katswiri wa zachilengedwe, wothamanga, mphunzitsi ndi veterinarian. Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Mndandandawu ukuwonetsa malo omwe akukulimbikitsani inu. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kugwira ntchito zonsezi. Chinachake kuchokera mndandanda uwu chingakhale, mwachitsanzo, chizoloŵezi. Tiyerekeze kuti mukhoza kukhala wowonetsa TV pa malo osungirako zachilengedwe kapena wolemba nyuzipepala. Pa nthawi yomweyo mu nthawi yanu yachinyamata mukhoza kuvina ndi kuthandiza zinyama. Kuzindikira chilakolako chokhala "mphunzitsi" kumakhalanso kosavuta: mukhoza kulankhula ndi anthu ndikuyankhula za mayiko osiyanasiyana. Onetsetsani kuti mukuchita masewerawa, ndipo mukumvetsa njira yomwe mungapitire.
Si ntchito, ndi gehena!
Mu bukhu la "What to Dream" Barbara amapereka zochitika zogwiritsira ntchito "Infernal ntchito". Tsopano tiyeni tiganizire za mtundu wanji wa ntchito umene umadana nawo. Nthawi zambiri anthu sangathe kunena kuti ndi ntchito yotani imene ingawawononge. Koma amadziwa bwino zomwe sakufuna. Ndicho chifukwa chake njira yosiyana ndi ine yodandaulira kwambiri, "- anatero Barbara. Kodi mungachite bwanji zimenezi? Choncho, lembani zinthu zoopsa kwambiri zomwe ntchito yanu ya hellish ingakhale nayo. Mwachitsanzo, "Ndimakhala pang'onopang'ono, chipinda chopanda kanthu, popanda mawindo. Kwa masiku kumapeto, ndikulemba mapepala omwe palibe amene akufuna, omwe alibe mphamvu. Bwana wanga ndi mwana wa mkulu wamkulu. Iye ndi wonyenga komanso wopusa. Wokondedwa wanga okha ndipo angathe, zomwe tingakambirane za omwe ali ndi usiku ndi kumene angapange manicure ndi pastes ». Kodi mwachita izo? Mkulu! Ndipo tsopano tiyeni titembenuzire izi kuti timvetse zomwe mukufuna. Mwinanso, zidzakhala monga izi: "Ndikufuna kugwira ntchito m'chipinda chachikulu, ndibwino ngakhale ngati ndi ofesi ya panyumba. Ndikufuna kuchita zinthu zina zothandiza, kuti zithandize dziko. Ndikofunika kuti anzako ndi abwana aphunzire komanso apangidwe anthu. "
Kodi lingaliro lofunika pano ndi liti? "Zothandiza." Tiyeni tiganizire za "zinthu zothandiza" zomwe zikutanthauza kwa inu. Lembani mndandanda wa ntchito zomwe mukuganiza kuti zimawapanga. Musayang'ane zochitika ndi zolakwika, chifukwa, mwinamwake, pakadali pano madokotala ndi ozimitsa moto adzabwera m'maganizo, koma, mwinamwake, kwa inu izi sizikupangitsa kuzindikira. Ngati mukuganiza kuti zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe olemba amachita, zikutanthauza kuti ndi pamene mukuyenera kupita.
Akanema kapena diver?
Ndipo chidutswa china chochititsa chidwi kuchokera m'buku la Barbara Cher "Ndikukana kusankha." Barbara akugawaniza anthu kukhala mitundu iwiri: scanners ndi osiyanasiyana. Akanema ndi omwe sangathe kuima pa chinthu chimodzi, ndipo amakonda kukonda dziko lonse. Ndipo osiyana ndi iwo omwe abatizidwa mu chinthu chimodzi ndi mitu yawo.
Zojambula zotchuka: Goethe, Aristotle, Mikhail Lomonosov, Benjamin Franklin, Leonardo da Vinci. "Iwo onse anali okalamba, ndipo aliyense wa iwo anali wopambana osati mu gawo limodzi. Ndipo ndani wakuuzani kuti muyenera kusankha malo amodzi okha? Mu dziko lathu lovina, zojambulajambula zimakhala zovuta kwambiri, chifukwa amakakamizika "kusankha", - Barbara akulemba. Kodi mukuyesera kuti mudzipange nokha? Musamamvere aliyense! Tengani maulendo angapo mwakamodzi ndikupange njira yanu ku malotowo! Chitani zinthu zonse zomwe zimakulimbikitsani ngakhale mphindi khumi patsiku, ndipo mudzawona kuti mumadzizindikira nokha mwa ambiri a iwo! Mabuku atatu onse a Barbara Cher - "Kulota sikuli kovulaza," "Zomwe mungalota," ndi "Kuleka kusankha" zidzakupatsani yankho lathunthu za tsogolo lanu.