Akatswiri awiri a zamaganizo a ku America, G. Kaf ndi A. de Haan anagwira ntchito yophunzira za mwayi wosawerengeka kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo potsirizira pake anapanga mayankho apadera omwe angathandize kuwulula luso la mwanayo. Etaanketa amayesa luso la mwanayo m'madera akulu a ntchito za anthu.
Zizindikiro Zisanu za Mphatso Yoimba
Mungathe kulingalira mwana waluso mu nyimbo, ngati ali ndi maluso otsatirawa:
nyimbo zimakumbukiridwa mosavuta, mwamsanga amatenga ichthyram, amamvetsera phokoso la nyimbo, ndipo izi ziyenera kuchitika mosavuta ndi mopepuka;
Pamene mwana nthawi zonse amafikira nyimbo, amagwiritsa ntchito mpata uliwonse kuti amvetsere;
akhoza kulemba nyimbo zake zomwe nthawi zambiri zimagwiritsidwa ntchito;
Ngati mwanayo amakonda kusewera zida kapena zinazake. Mukhoza kuona chisangalalo cha nyimbo za mwanayo komanso chidwi chake cha kizra, akuyandikira mozama ku funso ili ndipo popanda kupumula amaika;
N'zotheka kuti amaphunzira ndi chida choyendetsa chidachi kapena ataphunzira kale, makamaka ngati izi zikuchitika popanda kuthandizidwa kwina.
Zizindikiro zisanu za luso la luso
Mwana wanu akhoza kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino pamene ali ndi zizindikiro zotsatirazi:
Kuchita chidwi kwambiri ndi magalimoto komanso njira zosiyanasiyana. Nkofunika kusasokoneza chidwi, chifukwa pafupifupi ana onse akudabwa momwe zimagwirira ntchito. Koma sikuti onse adzayesera kumvetsetsa zomwe zili, komanso nthawi zonse;
Pamene mwana amakoka njira, nthawi zina ngakhale ndi zithunzi zojambula;
makamaka ngati nthawi zonse amagwira ntchito ndi ojambula, amasonkhanitsa maulendo apakompyuta. Amakonda kusokoneza njira zosiyanasiyana zowonongeka ndikuyamba kuvutika, amamvetsa chipangizo chawo ndikuyesera kukonza;
kawirikawiri ana otere angakhale ndi chidwi ndi zolemba zapamwamba zomwe zimapezeka kwa akuluakulu;
mwanayo akhoza kusokoneza njira ndi zipangizo, ndiye kuti asonkhanitse mtundu wina wa chipangizo chake.
Makhalidwe asanu ndi limodzi a ntchito ya sayansi
Ntchito ya sayansi ingakhale ntchito yake, samverani izi:
ngati mwanayo ali ndi mawu abwino, akugwiritsa ntchito zomwe, akhoza kukufotokozerani malingaliro ake, kufotokozera anthu ena kapena kufotokoza zochitika zina. Kawirikawiri ana oterewa amakhala ndi zolemba, kapena zopempha, chinachake cholemba;
Nthawi zina, popanda kufotokozera m'mabuku, amayesa kufotokoza zomwe zimayambitsa zochitika, zochitika zina;
ngati mwanayo ali ndi malingaliro abwino, amadziwa momwe angakhazikitsire mutu womwe uli wamba;
akufunitsitsa kusonkhanitsa kapena kulenga ndondomeko kapena zosonkhanitsa;
makamaka ngati mwanayo ali ndi chidwi ndi zolemba za sayansi, akamalowa m'magazini akuluakulu ndi mabuku, pamene anzake akutsalirabe patsogolo pa chitukuko;
sangawonongeke kumayambiriro oyamba mwamsanga, ngakhale atatha kuseka.
Zizindikiro zisanu ndi ziwiri za luso la wojambula
Mwina mwana wanu ndi wojambula kapena wojambula wa mtundu wina:
popanda kukhala ndi malingaliro amodzi, iye akhoza kufotokoza izo ndi manja a kutsanzira;
Kufufuza moyenera zovala zabwino ndi zachilendo;
mwana wotereyo nthawi zambiri amakhala pakati pa anthu akuluakulu, pomwe panthawi yomweyo adzamasuka kuimba, kuwerenga masewera kapena kukopa chidwi;
kuyang'ana chirichonse chiri chatsopano mu malangizo ena opangira, pulasitiki kwambiri;
mphatso kumasulira mawu, zizolowezi kapena mawonekedwe a nkhope;
kuyang'anitsitsa zomwe zimachitika ndi maganizo a anthu, zimayambitsa kukhumudwitsa mu nkhaniyo;
Zimangosintha mawu ndi zizindikiro mosavuta, makamaka ngati zimamupangitsa munthuyo kulankhula zomwe akunena.
Zizindikiro zisanu ndi zinayi za nzeru zodabwitsa
Musaphonye luso la nzeru la mwana wanu:
mwanayo ali ndi kukumbukira bwino kwambiri;
pamene mwana akufunsa mafunso ambiri, pomwe ali m'nkhani yofanana ndi ya wamkulu;
amasiyanitsa zochita zolondola ndi zenizeni za anthu kuchokera pamtima, mwanayo ali ndi malingaliro omveka bwino, ngakhale mutuwo sunafotokozedwe mpaka mapeto, iye amauzindikira kale, kulingalira bwino;
kumbuyo kwa anzako mwana woteroyo adzadziwika bwino ndi anzeru. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti adzakhala wophunzira wabwino kwambiri. Anangopsetsa sayansi, chifukwa iye amadziwa zonsezi ndipo amamvetsa mozama kwambiri;
Nthawi zambiri ana oterewa amawerenga mabuku ambiri omwe sagwirizana ndi msinkhu wawo, ndipo amapita patsogolo mu maphunziro;
Amadziwa zinthu zilizonse kusukulu mosavuta ndikuzikumbukira bwino;
Ana awa ndi abwino kwambiri, kuposa anzawo, amadziwitsidwa za ndondomeko ndi zochitika zomwe zimadzidera nkhawa, chitukuko, moyo kapena thanzi;
Kusamala komanso kulandira zinthu zabwino zomwe zimakhudza chilengedwe;
Nthawi zambiri ana awa ali ndi chigamulo chokwanira kwambiri, kudzidalira kumawalepheretsa kuyankhulana ndi anzawo, omwe amadziwika ndi kuwerengera mwachinyengo.
Maluso asanu ndi atatu a zizindikiro
Mwachibadwa, ana amakula mofulumira, nkofunika kuti asaphonye ndikuwonetsa masewera a mwanayo:
kulimba mtima kumamukakamiza kuchita zolakwika, ngakhale machimo athu ndi zovulazidwa;
mwanayo ali ndi nyanja yamphamvu;
ngakhale madzulo mwanayo samasonyeza kutopa;
mu mpikisano, masewera, ngakhale ngakhale kumenyana mumsewu, nthawizonse amatsogolera;
ndi pulasitiki, mwakuthupi amakula bwino kuposa anzako, amathandiza bwino kayendetsedwe ka kayendetsedwe ka kayendetsedwe kake;
ana oterewa mofulumira komanso podziwa kuti ali ndi luso lokopa, masewero, masewera, kapena amadziwa kusambira bwino, ngakhale kuti palibe amene awaphunzitsa izi;
M'malo mowerenga mwakachetechete buku kapena kukhala pakompyuta, imakokera msewu ndikuyenda;
ana oterewa amapezeka kuti ali ndi zaka zocheperako, monga lamulo, ndilo masewera omwe amasuntha.
Zizindikiro zisanu za mphatso zolembedwa
Monga mphatso zina zonse, zolemba, zimadziwonetsanso ngati mwana:
mwana akhoza kupanga chiwembu bwino, kuwonjezera zozizwitsa zake, koma zimagwirizana ndi mutu;
Malo amtendere amatha kupezeka kumbuyo kwa kulemba nkhani kapena nkhani za ntchito yake;
pamene alankhula za chinachake, nthawi zonse amachita mogwirizana, amatsatira chiwembucho, kufotokozera kungakhale kowona bwino komanso koonekera;
Wopangidwa ndi malingaliro ake, amauza moyo wake nkhani;
Amadziwa bwino momwe angasankhire mawu olondola, omwe amasonyeza bwino momwemo.
Zizindikiro zisanu ndi chimodzi za luso lojambula
Izi n'zovuta kudutsa, luso lojambula limakhala lodziwika bwino:
ana otere m'malo momveka mawu awo ndi mapepala awo pa pepala kapena pazinthu zojambula, kujambula, ndi zina zotero;
Nthawi zambiri akhoza kufotokoza maganizo ake pa ntchito ya wojambula wotchuka;
ndi chidwi ndi kutenga zofunikira zonse zopangidwa. Kaŵirikaŵiri amalowa mwa iwo okha, akuyang'ana malo omwe amakonda chidwi chawo kapena zithunzi zawo;
ngati mwana akukonza chiwembu, ndiye kuti ali ndi zinthu zing'onozing'ono zomwe amawonetsa zonse zomwe akuwona, samaima pokoka munthu mmodzi yekha, amayesa kubwezera malingaliro ake onse mujambula;
ana oterowo amakopeka kuti apange chinthu chamtengo wapatali ndi chokongola, mwachitsanzo, zomangamanga kunyumba;
Nthaŵi yawo yonse yaufulu ana awa amadzipereka kujambula, stuko, zojambulajambula ndi mitundu ina ya luso.
Tsopano, podziwa momwe mungasamalire bwino matalente a mwana wanu, ganizirani mwa mipangidwe ya mipira kuchokera 2 mpaka 5, awo kapena matalente ena omwe munawawona mwanayo. Muyenera kufufuza mkhalidwe uliwonse payekha, kenaka yikani kuchuluka kwa mipira. Chiwerengero cholandilidwa chiyenera kugawidwa ndi chiwerengero cha zizindikiro mu gulu (5, 6, 7, 8 kapena 9). Kuyenera kuchitidwa ndi kuthandizidwa ndi chithunzi chogwirizana. Pamalo osasinthasintha, yikani chiwerengero cha matalente mu gululi, pamayeso awa, alipo asanu ndi awiri mwa iwo. Ndipo mzere wotsindikizirawu ndi wambiri kuchokera pa 2 mpaka 5, ndipo chifukwa cha talente iliyonse, pamene mizere ikuyendera, ikani madontho, ndiyeno muwagwirizanitse ku tchati.
Chithunzi cha kuyesa kwa mphatso
Ndondomeko imeneyi idzakuthandizani kuti muone bwinobwino kusiyana kwa mwana, zomwe zingamuthandize kusankha zosangalatsa zambiri.