Mwana aliyense, asanaphunzire kuyenda, amayesetsa kubweretsa nyumbayo mwa njira yake - mu chipinda ndi usiku, poto ndi boot. Iye, poyesera kutsanzira anthu akuluakulu, kupukuta msuzi ndi kugwa pansi pansi ndi misozi, akulira misozi, kuyesa kupambana ufulu wosamba chikho kapena mbale. Koma pa msinkhu wotere mwana amatha kupeza chisangalalo chenicheni pobweretsa nyumbayo. Panthawiyi, makolo sayenera kuganizira momwe angaphunzitsire mwana molondola - zonse zimachitika paokha. Ndipo mulole madzi a pansi, ndipo zinyalala zimatsanulira kuzungulira chidebe. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kulimbitsa chidwi cha wothandizira wamng'onoyo ndikutamanda: "Zikomo, wokondedwa! Ndipo ndikanatani popanda iwe? "
Mwamwayi, nthawi zambiri poyendetsa chuma cha ana awo, timanena mosiyana: "Musandivutitse," "Musakwere," "Pitani kusewera. Ukadali wamng'ono. " Zaka zingapo zidzatha ndipo muzokambirana ndi mwanayo padzakhala mawu akuti: "Dziyang'anire wekha!", "Uyenera", "Ndi angati omwe angakhoze kubwerezedwa, ndinu wamkulu kale". Ndipo tsopano mwanayo sakufuna, ndizosamvetsetseka, ndikutsutsa, chifukwa sakugwiritsidwa ntchito. "Ndiwe wamkulu. Muyenera kuthandiza amayi anu, "mwana mmodzi amamva tsiku lina. Koma chimene chinaloledwa kale ndipo chikufunidwa, tsopano chikuyenera kukhala chokhumudwitsa.
Pangani chizoloŵezi chabwino
"Chizoloŵezi ndicho chikhalidwe chachiwiri," amatero nzeru yotchuka. Kwa mwana, miyambo yachizolowezi ndiyo maziko ndi kudalirika kwa moyo wake. Kusintha ndi msinkhu wachitsulo chokhazikika cha khalidwe kwa mwanayo ndi kovuta kwambiri. Komabe, mofanana ndi wamkulu. Mukufuna kuphunzitsa mwana wanu molondola? Tembenuzani zoyenera kuchita pa tsikulo - zikhale zofanana ndi kusamba mano kapena kusamba m'manja tsiku ndi tsiku musadye.
Gwiritsani ntchito kampaniyi kaŵirikaŵiri mosavuta
Wokha, ngakhale ntchito yovuta kwambiri nthawi zina imakhala yovuta kwambiri kwa mwana. Ngati mwana wazaka zisanu ndi zitatu akuyenera kuti awononge pansi, ntchitoyi ingawoneke kuti ndi yolemetsa kwa iye. Koma ndibwino kuyeretsa anthu ena a m'banja, chifukwa zinthu zakhala bwino komanso zosavuta.
Musaponyedwe mwanayo pamodzi ndi chisokonezo cha kunyumba. Kumumvera chisoni, pita kukagwira ntchito limodzi. Inu nokha mudzadabwa ndi momwe mwanayo akusangalalira kuyeretsa, kuyeretsa, kusamba. Musachite mantha kuti mumusamalire mwanayo! M'malo mwake, mum'phunzitsa kumvetsetsa ndi kuthandizira.
Ntchito silingalekerere mwamsanga
Nthawi zambiri sitingakhale ndi mphindi zisanu zokha pamene mwanayo watsala pang'ono kuthandiza. Winawake amasiya msanga kuti: "Musadandaule, pita kumbali!". Wina mwa maminiti angapo: "Onani momwe mwasambitsira. Ndikulakalaka ndikadapanga ndekha. " Njira yachiwiri ndi yoipa kwambiri kuposa yoyamba, chifukwa imangowononga chiyambi choyamba, komanso chikhulupiriro cha mwanayo mu mphamvu zawo. Tangoganizirani momwe kudandaula ndi pamene wina akukonzeketsanso maso anu ntchito yomwe mwachita!
Musathamangire pamene mwanayo atsuka mbale, yambitsanso zinthu. Musamunyoze, musamukakamize kuti amwe kapu kapena chifukwa madzi adathira pansi: izi zikhoza kuchitika kwa aliyense! Uthawi ndi ubongo usiku womwewo sungakhale. Nthaŵi zonse zimakhala zosavuta kukhala ndi zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku, pamene zimapatsa ulemu mowolowa manja. Musachite mantha kutamanda mwana. Nthawi zonse mumthokoze chifukwa cha chithandizo, khama, kuthandizira. Ndizofunika kwambiri kwa ife.
Zambiri zosiyana!
Ambiri aife timadziwa bwino "avral", nthawi zonse kumvetsa nyumbayi tisanafike maholide aakulu. Masiku otere, amayi, kawirikawiri amapita ku khitchini kukaphika chinachake chachilendo, chapadera, ana nthawi zonse amalangizidwa chinthu chimodzi chokha - kuchoka m'nyumba. Ndipo, ndithudi, angakonde kugwedeza ndi amayi kuti apange mbale zatsopano.
Ana salekerera okha. Ndipo sizowonongeka kuti nthawi zonse muziponya ntchito yanu yosakondedwa pa iwo. Ngati mukufuna kuti mwana akhale wokondwa kuyankha pempho lothandizira, mumupatse ufulu wosankha. "Lero tikuyenera kupukuta fumbi ndi kuyeretsa bafa. Mukusankha chiyani? "
Dziyang'anire Wekha
Ana samakonda kuyeretsa okhaokha? Kupuma, kosadziwika, shirk njira zonse zomwe zilipo? Ndipo mumagwirizana bwanji ndi ntchito zapakhomo? Kodi panalibe nthawi pamene mudandaula ndi mawu akuti: "Kodi ndadyetsedwa bwanji ndi kuyeretsa, mapeni, kutsegula zovala, kuphika!" Kodi mwana wanu akukonzekera zinthu m'malo ndi kuwonetsa chikhulupiriro pa nkhope yake? Dziyang'ane nokha pagalasi musanayambe kusamalira zinthu m'nyumba. Kodi simunapezepo mawu achisoni awa? Ndiye, mwinamwake, mwana wanu akutengera chitsanzo kuchokera kwa inu?