Chilichonse chimayamba, ngati chikhoza kuoneka, nthawi zosafunika: zovuta kukumbukira makalata, kusakhoza kuika maganizo kapena kuchepetsa ntchito. Chinachake chalembedwera ku nthawi - chochepa, chosagwiritsidwa ntchito; chinachake - kusowa maphunziro; chinachake - kusowa chilakolako chogwira ntchito. Koma pakadutsa nthawiyi mavutowa ndi osavuta kuwazindikira komanso osavuta kuwongolera. Koma ndiye mavuto amayamba kukula monga snowball - wina amakokera ena ndipo amapanga bwalo loopsa ndi loopsya. Kulephera kosalekeza kumangowononga mwanayo ndikupitilira ku phunziro lina.
Wophunzira sukulu akuyamba kudziona kuti sangakwanitse, sangathe, komanso amayesetsa - zopanda phindu. Akatswiri a maganizo a ana ndi otsimikizika: zotsatira za maphunziro sizidalira kokha luso la munthu kuthetsa ntchito zomwe wapatsidwa, komabe ndi chidaliro chakuti adzatha kuthetsa vutoli. Ngati zolepheretsa zimatsatizana, ndiye kuti, pakubwera nthawi yomwe mwanayo amadzilimbikitsa kuti, ayi, izo sizidzandigwirira ntchito. Ndipo kuyambira kale, ndiye palibe chifukwa choyesera. Kutayidwa ndi bambo kapena amayi anga pakati pa mulandu: "Kodi iwe wopusa!" - ukhoza kuwonjezera mafuta pamoto. Osati mau okha, koma maganizo okha, omwe amasonyeza, ngakhale mwadzidzidzi, koma ndi chitonzo, manja, malingaliro, mwana nthawi zina amalankhula mawu okweza.
Makolo ayenera kuchita chiyani ngati mavuto atulukira kale kapena momwe angathandizire mwanayo kumsukulu?
Sikoyenera kulingalira za mavuto omwe sukulu ya sukulu ikuwoneka ngati tsoka.
Musataye mtima, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, yesetsani kusonyeza kusakhutira ndi chisoni chanu. Kumbukirani kuti ntchito yanu yaikulu ndi kuthandiza mwanayo. Pachifukwa ichi, chikondi ndi kuchilandira monga momwe ziliri ndipo padzakhala kosavuta kwa iye.
Tifunika kuyanjana, ndipo tidzakonzekera ntchito yokhudzana ndi mwanayo kwa nthawi yaitali.
Ndipo kumbukirani - iye yekha sangathe kuthana ndi mavuto awo.
Thandizo lalikulu ndikuthandizira kudzidalira.
Ndikofunika kuyesa kumuthandiza kuti azidzimva kuti ndi wolakwa komanso kuti azivutika chifukwa cha zolephera. Ngati mutanganidwa ndi zomwe mukuchita ndikuchitapo kanthu kuti muzitha kuchita zinthu kapena kudandaula - ndiye izi sizothandiza, koma maziko a vuto latsopano.
Kumbukirani mawu osokonezeka: "Mwapeza chiyani lerolino?"
Sikofunika kuti mwanayo afotokoze mwamsanga nkhani zake kusukulu, makamaka ngati wakwiyitsa kapena wakwiya. Musiyeni iye yekha ngati ali ndi chidaliro mu chithandizo chako, ndiye, mwinamwake, adzakuwuzani chirichonse pambuyo pake.
Palibe chifukwa chokambirana ndi aphunzitsi mavuto a mwanayo.
Zingakhale bwino kuchita popanda iye. Osati mwanjira iliyonse, musamuzunze mwanayo ngati abwenzi ake kapena anzake a m'kalasi ali pafupi. Musayamikire zopindula ndi zopambana za ana ena.
Khalani ndi chidwi chochita homuweki pokhapokha mukamuthandiza nthawi zonse.
Pa ntchito yogwirizana, pirira. Popeza ntchito yolimbana ndi mavuto a sukulu imafuna kuthetsa ndipo imatopetsa kwambiri, simukusowa kukweza mawu, kubwereza mobwerezabwereza ndikufotokozera chinthu chomwecho mobwerezabwereza - popanda kukhumudwa ndi kunyozedwa. Madandaulo odabwitsa a makolo: "Mitsempha yonse yatopa ... Palibe mphamvu ..." Kodi mumvetsetsa vuto lake? Munthu wamkulu sangathe kudziletsa yekha, koma mwanayo amakhala wolakwa. Makolo onse amadzidandaula okha, koma mwanayo - kawirikawiri.
Makolo pazifukwa zina amakhulupirira kuti ngati pali zovuta polemba, ndiye muyenera kulemba zambiri; ngati osaganiziridwa bwino - zambiri zothetsera zitsanzo; ngati zoipa zikuwerenga - werengani zambiri. Koma maphunzirowa ndi olemetsa, osapereka chisangalalo ndikupha chisangalalo cha ntchito. Choncho, simusowa kuti mumubweretse mwanayo zinthu zomwe sizikumuyendera bwino.
Ndikofunika kuti mukamaphunzire sukulu musasokoneze, komanso kuti mwanayo akumva - inu ndi iye komanso kwa iye. Chotsani TV, musasokoneze kalasi, musasokonezedwe kuti muthamangire ku khitchini kapena muimbire foni.
Ndifunikanso kusankha kuti mwanayo ndi ovuta kuchita chiyani. Amayi kawirikawiri amakhala ochepetsetsa komanso osapirira, ndipo amadziwa zambiri. Abambo amakhala chete, koma olimba. Munthu ayenera kuyesetsa kupeĊµa vutoli, pamene wina wa makolo, atataya mtima, amachititsa wina kuti apambane.
Tiyeneranso kukumbukira kuti mwana yemwe ali ndi mavuto a kusukulu, pokhapokha amadziwa kuti adafunsidwa kupita kwawo. Mu izi palibe vuto - ntchito yopezeka kunyumbayi nthawi zonse imaperekedwa ndi mapeto a phunziro, pamene aliyense m'kalasi akulira, ndipo mwana wanu watopa kale ndipo mphunzitsi samamva. Choncho, kunyumba, akhoza kunena moona mtima kuti sanafunsidwe chilichonse. Zikatero, phunzirani kwa anzanu akusukulu za ntchito yanu ya kusukulu.
Kukonzekera kolemba kunyumba kumakhala nthawi yokwanira ya ntchito yopitilira osaposa makumi atatu. Kuti mupume, pamene mukuchita homuweki, nkofunika.
Palibe chifukwa choyesera, ngakhale kuli kofunikira kuchita nthawi yomweyo ntchito yophunzitsa.
Mwanayo amafunikira thandizo ndi chithandizo kuchokera kumbali zosiyanasiyana, choncho yesetsani kupeza chinenero chimodzi ndi aphunzitsi.
Ngati pali zolephereka, zimalimbikitsa kulimbikitsa ndi kuthandizira, ndipo zilizonse, ngakhale kupambana kochepa kwambiri kuyenera kukugogomezedwa.
Chinthu chofunika kwambiri pakuthandiza mwanayo ndikumulimbikitsa kugwira ntchito, osati ndi mawu okha. Kungakhale ulendo wopita ku zoo, kuyenda koyenderana, kapena kukacheza ku zisudzo.
Ana omwe ali ndi vuto la sukulu ayenera kuyang'ana boma lodziwika bwino komanso lodziwika bwino.
Musaiwale kuti ana otero nthawi zambiri amasonkhana, sapuma, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti samangotsatira boma.
Ngati m'mawa mwanayo akukumana ndi mavuto, musafulumire ndipo musamukankhire, bwino kuika khungu nthawi yotsatira kwa theka la ora.
Madzulo, nthawi yoti mugone, mungamupatse ufulu - kusiya, kuyambira 9 mpaka 30. Mwanayo amafunikira kupumula kwathunthu pamlungu ndi sabata, popanda maphunziro apadera.
Ngati pali zotheka, ndiye onetsetsani kuti mukufunsana ndi mwana ndi akatswiri - odziwa kulankhula, madokotala, aphunzitsi, akatswiri a maganizo. Ndipo tsatirani malingaliro awo onse.