Mwachitsanzo, nkhani za chikondi za Napoleon Bonaparte ndi Josephine Beauharnais, wamkulu kuposa wokondedwa wawo ndi wokondedwa wawo zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, Diana de Poitiers ndi Henry II, kusiyana pakati pawo kunali zaka 20. Amuna ambiri a nyenyezi angapezekedwe pakati pa nyenyezi za Hollywood - Demi Moore ndi Ashton Kutcher, Antonio Banderas, yemwe ndi wojambula bwino komanso mkazi wake Melanie Griffith, ndipo nyenyezi za ku Russia nthawi zambiri zimagwirizana ndi amayi ambiri komanso osakulitsa.
Komabe, ngakhale izi zikuchitika, kawirikawiri ndi akazi ang'onoang'ono kuposa osankhidwa awo. Komanso, amayi ambiri sachita mantha kuti ayambe ubale ndi amuna, atsikana omwe ali okalamba. Pali zifukwa zambiri zowopsya kuti mzimayi adzakhala wamphepo komanso wosasamala, kuti potsiriza adzamwa mowa, apite ku wina, ataperekedwa ndi anthu osauka, malangizo a abwenzi kuti asawononge mphamvu pa "achinyamata obiriwira", ndi zina zotero.
Mwachilungamo, nkoyenera kuzindikira kuti amuna ambiri amaopa amayi achikulire. Sadziwa momwe mungayandikire kwa iwo, momwe mungakope chidwi chazolakalaka zawo. M'nkhaniyi, tiyesa kuthandiza omwe akuvutika maganizo ndi atsikana okalamba, ndikuyankha funso - momwe mungakonde msungwana wamkulu kuposa inu?
Cholepheretsa kuyankhulana pakati pa anthu kungatheke mosavuta ndi kuthandizidwa ndi nthabwala zabwino ndi kukambirana kwaubwenzi. Makamaka, akazi, monga mukudziwa, amakonda makutu. Choncho sungani zizindikiro zochepa zatsopano (osati zonyansa), ndipo kawirikawiri zimakhala zokambirana zokondweretsa. Ndipotu, msinkhu wachikulire sakhala wosiyana ndi ena omwe amaimira akazi. Zoonadi, zingakhale zolephereka poyerekeza ndi anzanu, okhudzidwa kwambiri komanso okhudzidwa, odziwa zambiri, kuphatikizapo pakugona, ndipo, monga momwe anthu amanenera, zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri polankhulana. Wotsirizira, mwa njira, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi udindo waukulu pakusankha bwenzi la moyo. Atsikana amenewa mwachimvekere amayandikira moyo ndipo amadziwa bwino zomwe akufuna kuchokera kwa iye. Komabe, izi ndizokhazikitsa, ndipo muyenera kupeza chithunzi cha maganizo anu nokha.
Kotero, mumakonda bwanji msungwana wamkulu kuposa inu? Kawirikawiri, akazi nthawi zambiri amakonda amuna okhwima - mwachindunji cha mawu. Yesetsani kukhala odekha, kuchotsani chidwi chachinyamata (ngakhale atsikana ena amakonda chinthu ichi), mumuthandize msungwanayo kuti kumverera kwanu kumakhala kozama ndipo iye amatenga malo apadera mu mtima mwanu. Kumbukirani, mkazi aliyense, mosasamala za msinkhu wake, maloto a kukhala wapadera ndi apadera. Palibe zokambirana za anzako akale: mwakhala mukuiwalika kawirikawiri za iwo, komanso kuti musayang'ane ndi bwenzi lenileni kuti mukondweretse nkhani zawo. Yang'anirani kuti muyankhule za ntchito, kambiranani za kupambana kwanu, mapulani, mapindu - mtsikana ayenera kumvetsa kuti iye asanakhale mtsikana wamng'ono kumeneku, koma mnyamata wathanzi yemwe mungamudalire. Komabe, musapite patali kwambiri ndi odes odilesi ku adilesi yanu - "Pontees" ndizosavuta kuti azidzudzula kuposa momwe amachitira. Samalani maonekedwe anu - ziyenera kukhala zoyera komanso zoyenera. Sangalalani ndi mafuta onunkhira a abambo - amai ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa fungo losangalatsa. Mu mawu, yang'anani kuti mukufuna kukhudza. Pakukambirana musaiwale kulipira kwambiri mnzanu, kukhala ndi chidwi ndi moyo wake, zosangalatsa, ndondomeko, ndi zina. Mwa njira, chizoloŵezi chozoloŵera chimayandikira kwambiri. Ngati mtsikana wanu amakonda kuvina, mungathe kulembanso ku gulu lovina, kotero mutha kukhala ndi mwayi waukulu kuti mumuone ndikulankhulana mobwerezabwereza.
Ndiyeno_ngolankhulani ndi iye za malo omwe iye amatenga mu moyo wanu, monga mukumvetsetsa ... Musangowambalalitsidwa ndi malingaliro anu kwa nthawi yaitali. Ngati mtsikana wanu mwadzidzidzi ayamba kuyankhula, ndiye muime ndi kumvetsera. Muuzeni za chifundo chanu ndikupatseni kukumana. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, musadzizimitse. Zaka 2-3 sizimasiyana konse, makamaka kuyambira zaka zakale sizikumverera. Khalani olimbikira, koma osadziletsa, musati mukhale osasamala, khalani otsimikiza! Khalani ndi ulemu, muloleni adziwe kuti ndinu wanzeru ndipo muli ndi chiyembekezo!
Potsiriza, osadziŵa, mkazi aliyense ndi mayi, ndipo ayenera kukhala wotsimikiza kuti ali ndi chithandizo chenicheni m'moyo! Musayese kuoneka ngati ozizira! Khalani nokha! Akafunsa kuti: "Mukuchita chiyani?", Musayankhe "kanthu". Nthawi zonse muzinena kuti mwatanganidwa ndi chinachake. Izi zidzakupangitsani inu m'maso mwake chidwi choposa. Peŵani kupanga: "Nanga bwanji kundipatsa nambala yanu?". Yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu monga: "Ndikufuna ndikuyankhulaninso, kodi n'zotheka?". Chithandizo chotero nthawi zonse chimapereka zotsatira zabwino, chifukwa chimachepetsa kuthekera kwa kukuyankhani kwa kukana, chifukwa zidzamveka m'malo mopusa. Nthawi zonse mverani ndipo muwone chirichonse chimene chimawakonda mtsikana wanu. Maphunziro amenewa adzakuuzani nkhani yomwe mungasankhe pamene mukuyambitsa kukambirana ndi woimira gawo labwino la umunthu amene mumakonda. Ndi nthano yamba kuti kuti mupambane, muyenera kupita kwa mkazi mwamsanga mukangomuwona. Inde, pamene luso lanu loyankhulana limakula, mungathe kukhala ndi njira zosiyana zogonana pogwiritsira ntchito malingaliro. Koma pamene kuli bwino kusuntha mosamala ndi pang'onopang'ono, osati kuopseza kutali ndi kusasuntha chinthu chomwe mukufuna.
Ngati chirichonse chikuyenda bwino, ndipo potsiriza mutengerezako, musaiwale za zizindikiro zosangalatsa za chidwi - bouquets wa snowdrops kumayambiriro kwa masika, mphatso, mwakhama mtima.
Ubale ndi mkazi wina wachikulire uli ndi ubwino wake: ndi momwe udzakulire mofulumira ndi kukhala wovuta kwambiri, ndipo patsikuli mkaziyo ali ndi chiwerengero cha kugonana m'dera la zaka 30, chifukwa amuna amsinkhu umenewu amayamba kugonana pang'ono. Kuwonjezera apo, malinga ndi chiwerengero, akazi amakhala moyo wautali, kotero muli ndi mwayi wokufa pamodzi tsiku limodzi.