Mukhoza kuchita pamsonkhano m'njira zosiyanasiyana, zimadalira kwambiri, kuti ndi mtundu wotani womwe mumasankha nokha. Mwinamwake mu moyo mulibe kulimba mtima ndi zozizwitsa, kotero pa intaneti munaganiza kuti mukhale mkazi wokondwa - mwa njira, izi zimakambidwa m "malowa. Kapena mwatopa kukhala mkazi wachitsulo, choncho mumasankha fano losavuta komanso losavuta, ndipo mumasokonezeka ... Ndipo mwinamwake inu munangokhala nokha, kugawana zinsinsi zanu, nthabwala, nthawi zina-kukhala opanda nzeru, mwachidziwikire, kuti musakhale mkazi wabwino.
Koma malowa ndi malo, ndi chikondi ndi chisangalalo chomwe amapereka mowolowa manja, komabe sipangakhale mikangano ngakhale. Ndipo zonse chifukwa ndife osiyana, ndipo timadziwa zonse mwa njira zosiyanasiyana, ndipo kuchokera pamenepo zimakhala mikangano ndi zibwenzi, ngakhale pa maziko a mawu omwe amasiyidwa. Sitikunenedwa kuti kukambirana nanu pamsonkhanowu ndi nkhani yomwe ikukhudzana ndi kutsutsa ndi kutsutsa. Mwinamwake munangopatsa zidziwitso zambiri za zifukwa zoganiza - ndipo mwamsanga anazigwiritsa ntchito, anakumba moyo wanu ndipo anayamba kuziyang'ana pansi pa microscope? Zomwe zinali chifukwa cha zokambiranazo, funsoli likutseguka: momwe mungakhalire, ngati mukukambirana pa gulu ndi gulu la anthu omwe nthawizonse adakuthandizani ndikukulimbikitsani, koma lero adadzidzidzimutsa kuti siwe munthu amene mumadzifunira nokha nkhani?
Poyankha funso lokhudza momwe mungakhalire, ngati mukukambirana mosangalala komanso osabisala, muyenera kuganizira mozama za khalidwe lanu pamsonkhano. Ndipotu, kukambitsirana kwa munthu wina kuli ndi cholinga, nthawi, kukambirana, pamapeto pake.
Poyambira - fotokozani bwalo la "abwenzi" omwe amadziwika bwino omwe akukonzekera kuti muwonongeke. Kumbukirani: Kodi muli ndi ubale wanji pamsonkhano? Mwinamwake mu nkhani yoyaka yomwe munakangana, ndipo pamapeto pake pakati panu mumakhala ozizira? Zoonadi, chidziwitso cha mazenera ndikuti zokambirana za phunziro lililonse zimagawidwa m'misasa iwiri: "chifukwa" ndi "motsutsa" (ngati zingatheke mkati mwa zokambirana, ndithudi). Funso lokhalo ndilo: Kodi makampuwa amatuluka bwanji? Mwinamwake, simungathe kugwirizana mwamtendere, ndipo mikanganoyo inasamutsidwa kuchoka ku mutu umodzi mpaka kuyankhulana. Anayambitsa podkoly, kunyoza, kuseka - zonsezi sizili ndi njira yolankhulana bwino. Sichikutchulidwa kuti mukufuna kungopulumuka kuchokera ku msonkhano - kenaka konzekerani kuteteza mzere wodzitetezera. Akazi amadziwa kulimbana, ngakhale pafupifupi.
Koma ngati mkhalidwewu uli ndi mgwirizano wosasinthika uli wamba ndipo sichidalira inu nokha komanso otsutsa anu, pali zina zomwe mungachite, chifukwa cha zomwe mungakambirane kuchokera kumbali yolakwika. Mwinamwake, mwazindikira mbiri ya mkazi wodzikweza? Pambuyo pake, nthawi zambiri timafuna kuoneka ngati abwino, ochenjera, ochenjera, okhwima, makamaka ngati tikuzungulira mu timu yazimayi - ngakhale zilizonse. Makamaka, nthawizina timaphiphiritsira mkhalidwe wathu wamtundu wapamwamba, umene ungakwiyidwe. Ndipo, zitsimikizirani, mumakhala ndi nsanje, komanso pali anthu omwe sakusangalatsani kitsch. Ndipo atsikanawa amatha kukambirana nanu pamaso pa aliyense kuti atsimikizire kuti mumadziika nokha pamwamba pa ena. Ndipo pa maulendo sakukondwera - pamisonkhano yonse ndi yofanana (moyenera, ayenera kukhala ofanana, ngakhale izi zimachitika kawirikawiri).
Inde, mungathe kukambirana ndi kuwona bwino - ndipo izi, pamodzi, ndi zodabwitsa! Ngakhale kuti izi zingayambitse mkazi kusokonezeka. Pambuyo pa zonse, mwinamwake mumatamandidwa ndi mphamvu komanso zazikulu za matalente omwe munauza anthu omwe ali nawo pamsonkhanowo, komanso zomwe iwo eni eni alibe. Mwamangiriza thukuta labwino kwa mwamuna wanu, bwino kuposa sitolo, kuphika mikaka yokoma m'maapulo, kuphunzira kupirira maganizo a ana, mumadziwa zonse za njira ... zikhoza kukhala zifukwa zambiri! Ndipo omwe amawadziŵa, akhoza kugaŵana nawo ena nkhaniyi, osaganiza ngakhale kuti msonkhano woterewu ungakhale wosasangalatsa kwa inu.
Kuchita zonsezi ndizofunikira m'njira zosiyanasiyana.
Ngati zokambiranazo zili zoipa, ndiye kuti muyenera kudziwa chifukwa chake. Pezani anthu omwe akukuvutitsani kwambiri, ndipo afunseni funso lokhazikika "pamphumi": "Chifukwa chiyani? ". Yembekezani yankho lomveka bwino, ndipo ngati mumvetsetsa kuti mwakhala mukulakwitsa, mwinamwake muyenera kupepesa chifukwa cha zonsezi? Zikakhala kuti dothi likupitirirabe (makamaka kudzera m'mauthenga aumwini) - mukhoza kulembera za izi kwa wotsogolera, ndipo adzakakamizidwa kutenga njira zothetsera vutoli. Olakwawo ayenera kumenyana ndi njira zawo.
Ngakhale, mwinamwake, msonkhano wokhawo ulibe ntchito yolimbana nayo? Mwinamwake ndibwino kuchoka ndi mutu wonyada, ndikupeza kuti muli dziko losavuta kwambiri?
Ngati chifukwa chake chili mwa inu, ndipo mukudziwa - yesetsani kukonza khalidwe laling'ono. Ndipotu, pa intaneti n'zosavuta! Uku si moyo weniweni pomwe palibe kubwerera ku mawu omwewo ndipo palibe nthawi yoganizira za mayankho ena. Pamsonkhano, muli ndi nthawi yopanda malire kuti mufanizire yankho lanu, chotsani cholakwikacho, mutenge kumwetulira. Pambuyo pake, ngakhale mu mkangano ndi wotsutsa muyenera kukhala wokhoza kudzichita bwino ndi mwaulemu.
Chabwino, ndiye, mukakambirana za ulemu wanu, mwinamwake mukufunikira kudzipweteka nokha? Pambuyo pake, luso lanu ndi luso lanu linayamikila anthu ochuluka kwambiri omwe simudziwa kwenikweni - ndipo kuzindikira izi kokha kumakupatsani chidaliro mu luso lanu! Koma ngati sikusangalatsa kwambiri kwa inu - mwinamwake ndizomveka bwino kulembera kwa "antchito anu ogulitsa" omwe simukuzoloŵera kukhala nawo? Anthu okwanira okwanira adzamvetsera mawu anu ndikusiya kukulengeza pa nthawi iliyonse.