Choncho, sikuti pamapeto pake mumagonjetsa mtima wake, komanso mumasokoneza kugonana kwanu, kuwonjezera mwa iwo kukhudzidwa kwa chikondi chachikondi ndi chinsinsi.
Choncho, mungatani kuti muyambe kukonda mtsikana?
Inde, ndi zophweka - mumangofunika kuganiza mozama, kupanga zofunikira, komanso chofunika kwambiri, ndi zithunzithunzi za moyo wanu mulole mumve mtsikanayo, kuchuluka kwake komwe amakukondani ndipo akukufunirani. Kukonzekera kwa chikondi kumathandiza kuchepetsa nyimbo zomasuka (kuvina nyimbo zosayenera), chakudya chokoma (makamaka kuwala kuti musakulole kuti mugone), maluwa ndi makandulo ambiri: mungagwiritse ntchito makandulo onunkhira, tsopano akugulitsidwa kwambiri pafupifupi pamsika wina uliwonse. Zingakhale bwino kukongoletsa chipinda ndi mipira, zibiso kapena mitima. Kawirikawiri, monga mumakonda. Makandulo angasinthidwe ndi mdima wonyezimira kapena nyali zapansi. Tangoganizani mthunzi wong'onongeka wa matupi anu ovekedwa, owonetsedwa pa khoma. Zoona, zili zokondweretsa kale? Kuonjezera apo, ndi kuwala kochepa, msungwana wanu amamva bwino kwambiri, ndipo mumapeza wokondedwa ndi wachikondi. Ndi cholinga chomwecho mungagule vinyo kapena champagne. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mumadziwa kale zokongola zanu? Musamamwe mowa mwauchidakwa, izi sizinapangitse munthu kukhala wabwino.
Mwa njira, za chakudya. Zingakhale zabwino kugula zipatso ndikupanga saladi zochepa. Chofunika kwa chikondi chakudya - strawberries, yamatcheri kapena raspberries. Amatha kudyetsa wina ndi mzake, kupusitsa, kumakhudza zipatso za thupi lake wokondedwa, kenako amanyambita madzi. Chikondi chokwanira ndi chokoleti chachikale, makamaka akazi amachikonda kwambiri.
Mitundu yabwino kwambiri ya usiku wokondana ndi ya pinki ndi yofiira. Wachiwiriwa amakhala ndi zotsatira zosangalatsa pa maganizo a munthu, ndipo chiyambi chimakhazikitsa chikondi. Ngati inu mulibe iwo mu chokongoletsera cha chipinda - ziribe kanthu, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti muli ndi chikondi chokwanira ndi kukhudzidwa kwa munthu wapafupi. Pambuyo pake, palibe gulu lomwe lingathetsetu khalidwe lachidziwitso komanso mawu osokoneza maganizo. Kulankhulana zokha zokondweretsa, osakhudza ntchito, mitu ya tsiku ndi tsiku, odziwa bwino, ndi zina. Ndibwino kuvomerezana wina ndi mzake mwa chikondi, kukambirana za momwe mumamvera, kumbukirani msonkhano woyamba, chidziwitso choyamba. Kumbukirani, madzulo ano ndi anu okha, chifukwa chiyani mkati mwake mulibe aliyense wachitatu? Komanso, zokambirana zoterezi zimasonkhanitsa pamodzi, zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri ubale wake mumoyo wapamtima. Pokonzekera chikondi chamadzulo, musachigonjetseni pogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanu. Apo ayi, pamphindi wokondweretsa kwambiri, mukhoza kumva wotopa komanso mwamakhalidwe, komanso mwakuthupi. Ndipo ndi chikondi chotani chomwe chiripo?
Musayese kupanga chikondi cha "chikondi", chidzafanana ndi kuponyera agologolo pamagudumu. Bwino kuganiza zamtsogolo ndi kukonzekera.
Pamene usiku wamakono wapita usiku umodzi wokondana - yambani masewera achikondi, musaiwale kusuta mtsikanayo, kumufotokozera chifundo chake, kuthokoza ndi kusonyeza chisangalalo kuchokera pachibwenzi. Palibe chomwe chingathe kutsutsa manyazi a mtsikanayo, chidzasokoneza chirichonse. Pepani pang'ono, khulupirirani ine, patapita nthawi, zovuta zake zimakhala zoopsa monga zanu. Pochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kupaka minofu kwa thupi kumakhala kosavuta, komwe kungasinthe n'kukhala masewera olimbitsa thupi. Choncho samalani mavitamini ndi mafuta. Chabwino, pitirizani kufotokoza mutu wa kunyengerera mtsikanayo. Ndikuganiza kuti inunso mukudziwa zomwe mungachite. Kuwonjezera apo, phindu la zogonana tsopano - ndiloza khumi ndi awiri.
Ndibwino kukumbutseni kuti chikondi si chiyanjano chokha, ndi manja okongola, ntchito, insanities zoperekedwa m'dzina ndi chikondi. Madzulo amatha kukonzedwa osati panyumba kapena nyumba, komanso m'munda wamtendere, m'mphepete mwa nyanja, kumene mpweya umakhala pafupi ndi kukondana. Chikondi sichiyenera kutha ndi kama. Mukhoza kungoyitana wokondedwa wanu kuti muyende m'nkhalango yozizira, kuti muyamikire malo okongola pamodzi, kuti mupsompsone mpweya watsopano, kuti muzimva kukongola ndi chithumwa cha amai, ndikudziwotcha musanayambe moto. Momwe mungadziwire, mwinamwake iyi ndi ulendo womwe adzakumbukire kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi? Kapena mutayendayenda m'dzinja la autumn, ndikuponyera masamba amodzi ndi kusonkhanitsa mabokosi. Kapena kupusitsidwa ndi mipira yambiri ya dandelion, yomwe imakhala yovuta kwambiri komanso yokhudzidwa kwambiri ndi tsitsi .... Pali njira zambiri. Ndipotu, chikondi chimatanthauza kukweza maganizo, pamene moyo umawoneka ngati ukugwedezeka thupi, ndikumverera kwambiri mpaka kumapeto, pamene umasungunuka mwa wokondedwa wako, pamene mawu ochokera ku nyimbo ya Zemfira akubwera m'maganizo: "Ndikugwira dzanja, ndi chirichonse kufalikira ".
Musaiwale kuti mumakondana ndi maulamuliro abwino, yesani kukumbatirana ndi kumakhudza wokondedwa wanu kachiwiri, yodziwa zovuta zatsopano, kufufuza zochitika za mnzanuyo, kuyimbirapo, kukambirana tsiku lapitalo, kugawana zomwe mukukumana nazo, kuchepetsa nthawi yopuma pamodzi pakati pa nthawi zonse kuyankhulana, kupanga zozizwitsa zazing'ono ndi zokondweretsa - mwa kaphatikizidwe izi zidzakuthandizani kumanga maubwenzi abwino ogwirizana ndi chikondi ndi ulemu. Ndipo mulowe mu moyo wanu nthawizonse muli malo okondana ndi odwala adventurism, omwe amadzaza dziko lapansi ndi mitundu yatsopano ndi maonekedwe omveka.
Ndikukhulupirira, ndinayankha funsoli momveka bwino: momwe ndingakhalire chibwenzi ndi mtsikanayo? Kukonda iwe ndi chikondi!