Miyambo ikhoza "kumanga" moyo wathu weniweni pa njerwa: chifukwa cha kadzutsa nthawi zonse timadyera phala, phwando la phwando silingaganizidwe popanda kulebyaki, timatsuka nyumba pa Loweruka, ndipo timakhala nthawi yopuma panyanja ... Ndipo bwanji, sitikuganiza. Komabe, yankho n'zosatheka kupeza - chifukwa chakuti linapangidwa poyamba ...
Mwambo kapena chiphunzitso?
Palinso ntchito ina ya miyambo yabwino ya banja, ngakhale kuti poyamba pakuwoneka ngati yachiwiri: amazindikira kukula kwa "thupi" lomwe likuwathandiza.
Pano pali "madzi" pakati pa miyambo ya amoyo ndi akufa. Chotsatirachi chimatanthauza kutsatira mwakachetechete dongosolo lomwe linaikidwa ndi winawake tsiku lina. Kawirikawiri, amakhala pamodzi ndi anthu omwe ali aulesi kapena otanganidwa kwambiri kuti asatengepo kanthu, kuti apange zinthu zawo zokha, chifukwa kuti zonse zatsopano ziyenera kukhala ndi udindo.
Miyambo yamoyo, m'malo mwake, imapangitsa moyo kukhala wosangalatsa, kumapangitsa kuganiza ndi kulimbitsa mgwirizano pakati pa anthu.
Ndi lolemba lake ...
Banja lirilonse liri ndi miyambo yawo. Amakhudza chirichonse: momwe angamangire nyumba, kugawa ntchito, kuphunzitsa ana, choti aziphika chifukwa cha phwando la phwando, komwe angapume ... Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti mwa njira ina sizingatheke. Ife tazolowera izi - ndizo zonse.
Izi zikuwonekera makamaka pachiyambi cha moyo wa banja, pamene okwatirana achichepere amangozoloŵana. Mu "banja lawo" omwe amachokera kwa kholo, kumene malamulo ena adakhazikitsidwa. Ndipo mwamuna wake amapeza zovuta kumvetsa zomwe mkaziyo akufuna: chifukwa chiyani ayenera kutsatira malamulo ena, osati zomwe iye amazoloŵera. Ngati simugwirizana pa nthawi, musasinthe, musapeze chiyanjano, kukwiya ndi kukhumudwa sikungapeweke. Ngati banja lanu silinayambe kukhala ndi miyambo, musawagwedeze onse pamulu. Yesetsani kukhala ndi inu nokha, mukuganizira zofuna za mwamuna wake.
Zakale
Zophweka, miyambo yabwino ya banja "kumangiriza" kumaholide ndi mapeto a sabata, chifukwa masiku ano amaganiza kuti banja lonse liri pamsonkhano komanso mumzimu (mawu amodzi ndi opumula). Sankhani limodzi la maholide omwe mukufuna kuti musinthe, mwachitsanzo, tsiku la ukwati. Gwirizanitsani ndi anzanu kuti mutha kupanga masiku awa "dziko": wina adzakonza phwando mu Chingerezi, wina m'Chijeremani, wachitatu ku Japan. Sankhani nyimbo, zovala, kukongoletsa nyumba, kukonzekera mbale yabwino, pewani masewera "owerengeka".
M'banja, pangani miyambo ya tsiku ndi tsiku. Ganizirani njira yapadera yolankhulira hello ndikuuza mwamuna wanu.
Kwa mwanayo, mwambo wopita kukagona ndi wabwino: ana amamang'ung'udza ndi amayi awo, mvetserani nthano kapena losavuta lullaby.
Mwambo wa Loweruka ukhoza kukhala banja "kupita kunja": excursion, cinema, masewera, bowling ... Chofunika kwambiri: kubwereza momveka bwino ndi ... chinthu chodabwitsa. Ndipo komabe: ziyenera kusangalatsa aliyense!
Pa maholide a May, mukhoza kupita ku nkhalango - moto, barbecue, masewera akunja. Chikondi ndi zosangalatsa - zomwe zingakhale bwino!
Nthawi zosaiŵalika
Album ya banja. Mwatsoka, ambiri a ife sitikudziwa pang'ono za achibale awo kupitirira fuko lachitatu. Sungani zithunzi za agogo ndi agogo anu, kuwafotokozerani mwachidule mfundo zochepa - ana anu, ndiyeno zidzukulu zikumbukire banja lawo.
Kusuntha kwamakono. Sakanijambula zithunzi zakale zachikasu ndipo pangani kabukhu kochokera kwa iwo. Onetsetsani kuti mukuphatikiza ana mu ndondomekoyi - iwo adzakhudzidwa ndi bizinesi, panthawi imodzimodziyo akumva gawo la banja lalikulu.
Makalata ochokera m'mbuyomu
Ngati muli ndi makalata achikondi pakati pa agogo anu, amayi ndi abambo, musafulumize kutaya mauthenga awa. Ayikeni m'mawindo opanga mafayilo kuti asasokoneze mapepala, sindikizani masiku. Ndikhulupirire: zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwa ana anu a "makompyuta" kuti adziŵe mtundu wa makolo awo - ichi si ntchito yongopeka yolemba, koma buku lenileni.