Izi ndi nkhani zachidule zokha zomwe zimathera ndi mawu akuti: "Ndipo anakhala mosangalala nthawi zonse." Mu moyo, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti zosankha zomwe timapanga sizikhala zomaliza. Maukwati amatha - ichi ndi chokhumudwitsa. Koma kusudzulana sikuli chifukwa chodzibisira nokha, koma ndi nthawi yoti mutsegule. Koma muyenera kuchita izi pang'onopang'ono.
Lamulo loyamba: "Dzichitireni chifundo"
Ambiri anganene kuti njirayi ndi njira yeniyeni yodandaulira, koma tiyeni tizimvetsetsa. Atatha kusudzulana, amayi ambiri ali ndi nkhawa, ali ndi chitukuko chopsinjika, moyo umawoneka ngati wakuda. Inu mukhoza, ndithudi, kumvetsera kwa abwenzi ndi kumwetulira mu mano onse 32, koma tiyeni tiyang'ane nazo, amphaka sadzaima pa madzi awa. Musadzisungire chakukhosi, kutaya kunja, kulira, kufuula, kuswa utumiki wakale. Pemphani bwenzi lapamtima kuti mukachezere ndi kukambirana naye zomwe mbuzi yanu yakale ili.
Chotsani zinthu zomwe zatsala mnyumbamo. Ngati iwo amachititsa kuti vagrusity, ndiye iwo sakusowa inu nkomwe.
Kulakwitsa kwakukuru kwa abwenzi ndiko kukokera mtsikana, wosweka ndi kusudzulana, "kulowa mu kuwala." Adakali wamng'ono kuti musangalale. Inde, inde, ndiko kulondola. Pamene mulibe ubwino wanu kuchokera mu katundu wanu wamkati, chimwemwe chanu chimangopondereza pansi. Ndipo kugwedeza maganizo ndi nthawi ya bomba. Panthawiyi, muyenera kudzikondera nokha, nenani kuti zonse zidzakhala zabwino, zonse zidzatha. Ndipo kuyamba kuchita zokha pokhapokha mutachikhulupirira.
Lamulo lachiwiri: "Dzikondeni nokha"
Dziyang'ane nokha pagalasi: maso anu ayaka, nkhope yanu yatupa ndi misonzi. Ndi nthawi yowonetsera kwa chilombo ichi. Mukufunikira kuika mkati. Kupita pa sitepe ya kukhumudwa kwa sitepe ya "sitepe yoyamba kumoyo watsopano" ndilovuta kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, mutangoyamba kumvetsa chisoni, sivuta kusiya.
Kulandila pano kudzakuthandizira kuyambira ubwana. Bwererani pagalasi, taya zonse zomwe zili m'thumba lanu lopaka zodzoladzola ndikupita kumalo otetezedwa. Musapitirirepo, mugwiritseni ntchito mosamala, musanyalanyaze uphungu wa anzako, zomwe zingathenso kugwira ntchitoyi. Musaiwale za tsitsi, amafunikanso kukongoletsa. Ndipo tsopano yang'anani nokha kachiwiri. Chabwino, kodi si wokongola?
Kuti zitheke bwino, timalembera ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, kupita ku napa-njira, zoga ndi malo ena omwe angakuthandizeni kusintha. Amanena kuti atatha, msungwanayo amakhala wokongola kuposa poyamba. Ngati mutasintha, ndi nokha.
Ulamuliro wachitatu: "Kupumula, kupumula, kupumula!"
Anthu ena amalimbikitsa kupita kuntchito. Koma sikuti aliyense ali ndi mwayi woganizira zinthu, pamene mutu uli ndi maganizo osiyana. Ndibwino kuti mudziwe nokha kuti musakhale ndi mavuto komanso muzisangalala. Ndi zofunika kusankha malo oti mupulumuke panyumba panu. Ngati mungathe kupita kunja, pitani. Kuyenda kosawerengeka, kugula, kukondweretsa zokongola zakunja kumakulepheretsani kukumbukira kuti mwasudzulana.
Koma pali lamulo limodzi lokhazikika! Palibe malemba! Ubale wopanda pake iwe tsopano kwa chirichonse. Madyerero akugwedezeka sayenera kugogoda, osayang'ana malo m'malo mwake, osakhala bwino. Chinthu chachikulu chomwe mukufunikira kuyendetsa nokha ndi: "Sindi ndekha, ndine mfulu." Sangalalani ndikumverera kotero kuti mapikowa afalikire kumbuyo kwanu, monga kulemera kwa udindo wa membala yemweyo wa banja lanu kumagwa pamapewa anu. Khalani pang'ono kwa inu nokha, yesani nokha.
Lamulo lachinayi: "Apanso pankhondo!"
Koma tsopano mukhoza kulankhula za maubwenzi atsopano. Kawirikawiri atakwatirana, asungwana samayesetsa kugwirizanitsa zolemba zazikulu. Kuopa kuyendayenda pamodzimodzi kumapangitsa kuti azikhala ndi zibwenzi kapena ubale weniweni, zomwe zimadalira kugonana basi. Sitidzatsutsa njira zoterezi. Palinso akazi ena omwe sali kufunafuna anzawo amodzi ndi misonkhano, amadzibisa okha ndipo amawopa ngakhale kuyesa. Muzochitikazi, chipulumutso chiyenera kuyesedwa kachiwiri kwa abwenzi.
Ndi iwo omwe amafunika kuti aziwombera susek ndikukufunani woyenera. Sichiyenera kukhala mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wam'tsogolo. Musiyeni akhale munthu wabwino chabe. Cholinga chanu sikumanga ubale watsopano ndikuuponyera pabedi lake. Choyamba, muyenera kumverera ngati mkazi kachiwiri, kumbukirani zomwe mwamuna amamvetsera, zomwe zimawoneka mwachikondi. Maluso anu onse akhalabe ndi inu, koma simunawagwiritse ntchito nthawi yaitali.
Ngati misonkhano yotere ikukula ndikukhala buku latsopano, ndiye kuti tiyenera kukhala ndi mwayi. Koma zindikirani kuti uyu ndi mwamuna chabe: mwamuna wam'mbuyo sangakhale munthu wotheka. Pakali pano, lolani ndilo amene adzathetsa mtima wanu wosweka.
Lamulo lachisanu: "Kumvetsetsa ndi kukhululukira"
Posachedwa nthawi idzafika pamene kukumbukira kwanu kudzasiya kukupwetekani. Chifukwa chake, mtima wanu sungagwidwe, koma ngati muthamangira mwangozi m'sitolo, simudzatha kulankhula. Vyba apite patsogolo, ndipo simukusowa kukangana wina ndi mnzake, kudana wina ndi mzake ndikuyesera kutsimikizira wina ndi mnzake.
Ziribe kanthu yemwe anayambitsa phokoso, tsopano yokha yokha yomwe ikugwirizanitsa ikukumanga iwe. Palibe amene akunena kuti muyenera kukhala mabwenzi ndi mabanja ndikupita kwa anzanu. Dziwani kuti pakutha kwanu muli ndi mlandu, wina wochuluka, wina wocheperapo, musabwereze zolakwa izi mu moyo watsopano.