Inde, atsikanawo ndi osiyana, mmodzi ndi wofooka kwambiri kuti ayandikire ndidziwana bwino, ndipo winayo sali ovuta, iwo alibe zovuta zambiri mu bizinesi ili. Amatha kukwanitsa kupita kwa munthu aliyense amene amamukonda ndikumudziŵa bwino. Nanga bwanji ngati simungathe kuchita izi? Pachifukwa ichi, njira yosavuta yodziwiratu ndiyo kuyendera malo ndi mabungwe komwe anyamata enieni amapanga choyamba. Pachifukwa ichi, pali zosiyana siyana, kumene mpweya mwiniwake umanena kuti chibwenzi sichingapewe. Kudziwa mu kampu kapena ku disco ndi chimodzi mwa zosavuta. Komabe, pali chimodzi chokha "koma". Asanayambe kumwetulira, adasankha zomwe mwabwera kuno. Kuti mupeze munthu wokhazikika kapena kuti musangalale. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira ndi kuzindikira kuti anyamata a m'badwo uno amafunikira kwenikweni, koma, ndithudi, osati aliyense ndikumangirira chizindikiro kwa woimira aliyense yemwe sitingathe. Mwachidule ichi ndi chikhalidwe cha mnyamata - makamaka pa msinkhu uno ndipo nthawi zonse chiyenera kuganiziridwa. Kotero khalani osamala kwambiri, posankha mnyamata ndipo phunzirani kusiyanitsa chomwe iye ali. Kufunafuna kukhudzidwa mtima - fufuzani mnyamata wodekha, wodekha, wochenjera, ngati mukufuna chinachake chikukulirakulira (monga akunena, ponagley), ndiye akadakali wosankha opulumutsidwa, wodzidalira. Ndipo basi gulu - ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu za anyamata a mtundu uwu. Inde, vuto lina likhoza kubwera patsogolo panu, chifukwa chakuti si makolo onse omwe adzamasula mwana wawo wamng'ono ku gululo. Koma musadandaule, pitani ku dokotala wina, ndikukhulupirire, zotsatira zake zidzakhala zofanana. Pogwiritsa ntchito njirayi, musaiwale kuti mubweretsetsedwe mokwanira. Onetsetsani kuti mupange tsitsi, maonekedwe (kutsindika maso - chomwe chimapangitsa munthu aliyense wamisala), kuvala mokongola momwe zingathere, zomwe zingayime kuchokera ku imvi ya atsikana ena. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, zotsatira ziyenera kuyembekezera nthawi yayitali. Anyamata pa msinkhu uwu, monga lamulo, akuchitidwa kwa atsikana, omwe ali osiyana kwambiri, mawonekedwe awo ndi khalidwe lawo onse. Kuphatikiza pa msinkhu wa chibwenzi angapezeke ndikungoyenda pakiyi. Mwachitsanzo, mwafika ku paki (mungathe ngakhale ndi mnzanu), ndi maso anu mumapeza mnyamata wabwino. Nthawi yomweyo anafika ndipo ananena kuti muli mu pakiyi nthawi yoyamba ndipo simukudziwa njira yomwe muyenera kupitako musanakumane ndi anzanu (funsani kuti mugwire). Ndizo zonsezi, musaiwale kusekerera pa iye, mu mkhalidwe uno, palibe munthu mmodzi sangakane inu. Yambani kukambirana naye, ndipo zonse zidzachitika palokha. Dziwani, munthu uyu sakusowa kuti agonjetsedwe. Pokhapokha patapita nthaŵi ndikulephera kuchita chinthu choyamba, ngati kuli kotheka: sikuti akalonga onse ali olimba komanso osamala. Nthawi zina iwo samasokoneza konse, mobwerezabwereza ndi osatumizira kutumiza ife "okondedwa". Mulimonsemo, nthawizonse pali chinachake chokamba ndi chidwi ndi mnyamata. Kuphatikizana ndi anyamata ozizira kuyambira zaka 15-17 ndibwino kuti uchitike m'madera otchuka komanso okhudzidwa kwambiri mumzindawu. Pa malo awa, njira yabwino ikhoza kukhala yonyamulira. "Kugwa pansi pamaso pa munthu" - nthawi zina ndiwothandiza kwambiri. Ndili pano kuti mutha kuyandikira munthu aliyense ndikumufunseni zomwe zingakuphunzitseni kuchita masewero (ndipo ziribe kanthu ngati mukudziwa momwe mungachitire). Khalani olimba mtima ndipo dzifunseni nokha dzina lake, ndiyeno, pongoganiza kuti mwaima pa ayezi moipa, mupereka ulendo ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndikuphunzitseni momwe mungachitire. Ngati iye akukanabe, ndiye bwerani mudzakumane ndi mnyamata wina, kuti anyamata ena, palibe okongola. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuwonetsa logic ya amayi ndipo zitseko zonse zidzatsegulidwa pamaso panu. Choncho zonse zimatheka ngakhale pazinthu zonyansa kwambiri.
Ponena za malo ena, pitani ndi chibwenzi kumudzi. Ndikuganiza mumzinda uliwonse muli malo omwe anyamata ndi atsikana ambiri amasonkhana madzulo. Kachiwiri, musaiwale kuti "mukhale okongola", ndikuwonetsanso kuti ndinu wochenjera. Dzigulire wekha "WINSTON" pang'ono ndipo ingoiwala mwangwiro kuunika. Ndiye kachiwiri, sikofunika kuti muzisuta - mulole kuti ikhale imodzi mwa masewera anu. Pezani maso opambana kwambiri, ndipo pitani kwa iye ndi kumwetulira kokoma ndi kumupempha kuti aunike. Pano, pafupifupi zonsezi - mwayi wopambana-kupambana.
Kotero inu mukhoza kumudziwa bamboyo pogwiritsa ntchito zozizwitsa zanu. Pitani ku konsati, gulu lina la okondedwa anu. Pogwira ntchito, nthawi zonse mungalankhule ndi munthu wapafupi pafupi ndi talente ya gulu limodzi, gulu. Kumbukirani kuti nayenso amakupizani, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti muli ndi chinthu chimodzi chofanana chomwe chidzagwira ntchito yofunika kwambiri kwa mnzanuyo. Mwa njira, apa ndi apo pa mutu wa zokambirana zomwe sizikufunikira kuganiza mozama. Zidzakonzedwa kale kuti zikachezere chochitika ichi. Ndipo pano pali mnyamata yemwe amamvetsera nyimbo zomwe mumakonda, nayenso. Zidzakhala zoyenera kuzindikira kuti ndi zophweka kwambiri pa zofuna zapadera ndi zokondweretsa kupeza munthu ndi kumudziwa. Ndipo, monga lamulo, anyamata a zaka 15-17, ali ndi zizolowezi khumi ndi ziwiri zokopa ndi zosangalatsa. Ndiye bwanji osalowa nawo ndikudziyesa nokha kapena bizinesi yomwe ingakuthandizeni ngati "kuwala kobiriwira" mukufunafuna mnyamata wabwino.
Ndipo dziperekeni nokha ku cholembera chomwe chinthu chofunika kwambiri kukhala chokhazikika, pa nthawi ino anyamata amalemekeza zolinga zawo ndipo amatha kupeza atsikana awo. Ndipo musaiwale kuti mudziwonetse nokha ngati msungwana wachiwerewere, yemwe sangavutike konse. Atsikana osangalala, omvera kwambiri pamsonkhano woyamba. Onetsani kuti ndinu munthu wokondweretsa komanso wodalirika amene mnyamata angakambirane mutu uliwonse. Kumbukirani, simunakhale ana kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo poyamba mukuyang'ana mnyamata kwa maubwenzi aatali komanso aakulu. Tsatirani malangizo awa - komanso chibwenzi ndi anyamata kuyambira zaka 15-17 komanso akuluakulu amatha kukhala vuto kwa inu!