Ndi chimbalangondo chotani cha anthu osiyanasiyana
Mtsikana wamng'ono amene adawona izi m'maloto ake, mwinamwake, posachedwapa adzakwatirana. Ndipo wosankhidwa wake adzakhala chitsanzo cha kulimba mtima.
Mwamuna amatha kuona chimbalangondo m'maloto. Koma muzochitika izi zikutanthawuza kuti nkhondo yabwino ndi yoipa mkati mwake. Mbali yomwe adzalandira imadalira pa kusankha yekha ndipo maganizo a ena sangamukhudze.
Mkazi wokwatira ayenera kusamala ndi malotowo. Mwinamwake samusamalira kwambiri mwamuna wake ndipo posachedwapa amadziwa za kukhalapo kwa mpikisano. Koma ngati nthawi yatengedwa, zochitika zosasangalatsa sizidzachitika.
Kuthawa chimbalangondo mu loto kumatanthauza kuti muyenera kusamala ndi zoipitsa za adani. Mwinamwake, mudzapatsidwa mwayi wochita nawo ntchito inayake ndi mbiri yosautsa. Khalani tcheru ndi kusanthula mkhalidwe kuti musagwere mumsampha.
Ngati mtsikana wamng'ono alota kuti akubisala chimbalangondo, ndiye kuti sakonda mphunzitsi, ndipo akufuna kubisala pachibwenzi chake chosasangalatsa komanso chosasangalatsa.
Bulu loopsya limapatsa mdani woopsa, zomwe zingakhale zovuta kugonjetsa. Chopweteka kwambiri, ngati wodwalayo amatha kukugwira. Pachifukwa ichi, dikirani zokhumudwitsa zosapeŵeka ndi kuwonongeka kwachuma, zomwe zidzakhala zovuta kuziphimba.
Ngati zimbalangondo zomwe mukudyetsa zikulota, ndiye kuti ndizomwe mumakonda. Adani anu adzakumbukira malo awo ndipo pang'onopang'ono adzakhala anzanu.
Kutanthauzira kwa maloto kuchokera ku mabuku osiyanasiyana otota
Miller amakhulupirira kuti maloto oterewa akutanthauza kuti mukuyesera kutsimikizira kwa aliyense kuti ndinu mtsogoleri. Mwa njira, chipiliro chanu ndi malingaliro achilengedwe zingathandize kuwatsimikizira ena mu izi.
Vanga ali ndi maganizo osiyana kwambiri. Mu bukhu lake la loto, chimbalangondo chikuwoneka ngati chizindikiro cha nkhanza ndichinyengo. Pambuyo pa maloto oterowo, yesetsani kupeŵa zochitika zamasewera, chifukwa simungathe kupeŵa mikangano ndipo chifukwa chake mkhalidwe wanu umangowonjezereka.
Freud amakhulupirira kuti chimbalangondo mumaloto chimaimira kubwereranso pa chinthu chomwe chimamveka chifundo. Komabe, kukakamiza ndi kunyalanyaza sikuli koyenera, chifukwa mchitidwewu umangowonjezera mkhalidwewo. Yesetsani kuchita zinthu mofulumira ndipo mwamsanga mudzapambana.
Loff amakhulupirira kuti maloto ndi chimbalangondo amasonyeza kuti ndinu olakwika kwa iwo omwe ali ofooka kuposa inu mu chikhalidwe kapena malo. Muyenera kuchepetsa kudzikuza kwanu pang'ono, pakuti izi zimawopsya kuwonongeka kwa malo a anzako ndi anzanu. Komanso, bukhu loto la Lofa limafotokoza maloto ngati kusayera kwa anthu omwe ali ndi zilema. Yang'anani munthu uyu kuchokera kumbali ina, chifukwa zolepheretsa kunja sizikutanthauza maganizo kapena makhalidwe oipa.
Zimbalangondo zambiri kuzungulira zikhoza kulota zovuta zotsutsana pamoyo. Muyenera kupanga chisankho chovuta ndipo kamodzi nonse mudziwe chomwe chiri chofunikira kwambiri: ndalama, maubwenzi apabanja kapena mphamvu. Pokhapokha mutha kukwanitsa kupambana, ndipo m'kupita kwanthawi - ndikukhazikitsa mbali zina za moyo, zomwe sizinali zofunika kwambiri pakalipano.