Kotero mwakachetechete mwachangu, sichoncho? Ndipo bata ndilofunika makamaka kwa mayi wapakati. Mu zochitika zochititsa chidwi, mkaziyo amakhala ndichinyengo kwambiri, ndipo kuyesera, monga momwe angathere kudziteteza yekha ndi mwana wamtsogolo, ali wokonzeka kutsatira zonse "osati", zomwe zimapereka zizindikiro ndi zikhulupiliro za anthu. Ndipo pali zambiri za iwo. Kotero izo sizingakhoze ndipo siziyenera kuchitika pa nthawi ya mimba, zozikidwa pa zikhulupiriro zakale ndi malingaliro a anthu.
Mayi wam'mbuyo sangathe kuveketsa, kusoka, kugwedezeka , mwanayo akhoza kubadwa ndi timadontho timeneti. Pogwiritsa ntchito nsalu, mayi akhoza kuvulazidwa: akhoza kuthyola singano kapena kudzidula ndi lumo, zomwe zimamuopseza, zomwe zimamukhudza mwanayo.
Mayi wamtsogolo sangakhale pansi pakhomo. Ankaganiza kuti chigawocho ndi mzere pakati pa nthaka ndi dziko lachilendo. Kuonjezera apo, kukhala pamtanda wa mayi wamtsogolo sikudalonjeza kanthu kabwino. Chizindikirochi chikuphatikizidwa ndi kuletsa kutsegula chipika kapena tsache. Inu mukhoza kulowa mu chisokonezo cha brownie amene amakhala kumeneko. Ndipo ngati mukuganiza, ndiye kuti mukudutsa zovutazo, mukhoza kukhumudwa ndi kugwa, zomwe ziri zoopsa kwambiri pa moyo wa mwanayo.
Mayi wam'tsogolo sangathe kudya zipatso zofiira - mwanayo adzabadwa wofiira, simungadye nsomba - adzabadwa wosayankhula. Apa chirichonse chiri chophweka, zipatso ndi nsomba ndi zowonjezera zowonjezera, momwe ntchito yomwe ili mu ndalama zopanda malire ikhoza kuyambitsa diathesis mwa mwanayo. Choncho, manyazi.
Mayi wam'tsogolo sayenera kukweza manja ake kuti chingwe cha umbilical chisakulungire mwana m'mimba. Akatswiri a zachipatala anatulutsa nthano imeneyi. Ngakhale zili zoyenera kuzindikira kuti kuyambira pakati pa mimba ndibwino kuti musapange zovala ndi kukwera, monga amniotic madzi amatha komanso kubadwa msanga.
Mtsogolo muno simungathe kudula tsitsi. Malingana ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, izi zimadzaza ndi kubadwa msanga, kuperewera kwa amayi kapena kubadwa kwa mwana wakufa, chifukwa nthawi zakale ankakhulupirira kuti mphamvu yonse ya tsitsi lawo imakhalapo. Tsitsi silinayambe lakhalapo, pokhapokha pa miliri yoopsya (mliri, kolera).
Mayi wamtsogolo sangathe kukhala pa mwendo wake. Mwanayo adzakhala bulu laminga, chikwama-phazi. Odwala azimayi samalimbikitsanso zofanana. Komabe, izi sizikugwirizana ndi clubfoot. Pachikhalidwe ichi, magazi amadzipweteka, omwe angayambitse mitsempha ya varicose.
Mayi wam'mbuyo sangathe kuyang'anitsitsa zoipa, zoopsa komanso zoipa. Mwanayo adzabadwa woipa. Ndipo chizindikiro ichi sichiri chopanda nzeru, monga zakhala zikuwonetseredwa kuti mwana, pokhala m'mimba mwa mayi, amatha kumverera chisoni chake chonse. Choncho, kulimbikitsidwa kwambiri kuti amayi omwe akuyembekezera nthawi zambiri amasangalala ndi nyimbo zabwino (nyimbo zamakono zili zoyenera), zithunzi zokongola ndi malo, ndikukhala ndi maganizo abwino. Zonsezi zidzakhala ndi zotsatira zabwino pa khalidwe la mwana wamtsogolo.
Mayi wam'mbuyo sangathe kulankhula za mimba "pasanapite nthawi" akhoza kukhala jinxed. Deta ya chiwerengero imanena kuti kumayambiriro kwa chiopsezo cha kupititsa padera kumaposa kuposa mmbuyo. Ndipo chodabwitsa ichi chakale chinkafotokozedwa ndi kusokoneza kwa mphamvu zakuda. Ndipo kotero, kuti alankhule mokweza za izo, iwo ankawopa mpaka mimba ya mayi wamtsogolo idzawoneke.
Mayi wamtsogolo sangadye mseri. Ankaganiza kuti mwanayo adzakhala wamanyazi. Si zachilendo nthawi ya mimba, kukonda kwa mkazi kumasintha pokhapokha monga momwe zakudya zimakhalira, komanso pakuwonjezeka kwa voliyumu. Mkaziyo amachita manyazi ndi izi ndipo "amabisala" ndi tidbit. Izi ziyenera kupeŵedwa, chifukwa ndi zakudya "mwamsanga" zakudya zimadetsedwa kwambiri.
Mayi wamtsogolo sangathe kujambulidwa. Zimakhulupirira kuti chipatso chidzasiya kukula.
Mayi wamtsogolo sangathe kugula zinthu kwa mwana wakhanda. Mwanayo adzabadwa ali wakufa. Chizindikirochi chimakhudzana ndi imfa ya ana obadwa m'masiku akale. Tsopano zikhulupiliro zimenezi zikungotaya kufunika kwake, ndipo am'mimba ndi zosangalatsa zambiri amasankha zovala za zinyenyeswazi zamtsogolo. Gwirizanani, mayi wamng'onoyo sangathe kubweretsa chimwemwe nthawi yomweyo atachoka kuchipatala kuti achoke mu shopuyo pofunafuna zinthu zinyenyeswazi.
Mayi wamtsogolo sangathe kulankhula dzina la mwana wamtsogolo. Ankaganiza kuti mphamvu zopanda ungwiro zingawononge mwanayo.
Mayi wam'mbuyo sangathe kukhudza amphaka. Mwanayo adzakhala ndi adani ambiri. Amphaka ndi othandizira za toxoplasmosis, ndipo pamene akumana ndi nyama, mayi wodwala akhoza kudzigwira yekha, ndipo kudzera m'mimbayi amamupatsira mwanayo. Toxoplasmosis ndi matenda omwe amakhudza dongosolo lamanjenje. Kuti musadziwonetse nokha ndi mwana wanu ngozi imeneyi, ndi bwino kupewa oyanjana ndi amphaka. Ngati mayi wam'tsogolo ali ndi bwenzi labwino, sizingakhale zodabwitsa kuyang'anira chiweto kuchokera kwa veterinarian kuti akhalepo wothandizira.
Mayi wamtsogolo sangathe kukangana ndi kulumbira. Mwanayo adzakhala woipa. Zimadziwika bwino kuti amayi oyembekezera ayenera kupeŵa mikwingwirima. Kuwakwiyitsa ndi mantha zimapangitsa kuti magazi azikwera kwambiri, zomwe zimakhudza thanzi la mwana wanu.
Mayi wamtsogolo sangathe kudutsa zipatso zomwe zikukula padziko lapansi kupita padera.
Mayi wam'mbuyo sangathe kudutsa pawindo, komanso kudutsa pazenera: kubadwa kovuta kumatheka.
Mayi wam'mbuyo sangathe kuponya mkanda wopanda kanthu. Kumatanthauza kuti mwanayo alibe malo mmenemo.
Ndipo ichi sichinali mndandanda womaliza wa "zoletsedwa za anthu". Pali zizindikiro zosadziwika kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo: kutenga mimba konse sikungakhudze nkhope yake - nkhope ya mwanayo idzakhala ndi zizindikiro zobereka. Pankhaniyi, nkhope zathu tonse tiyenera kuzikhala ndi zizindikiro zobadwa.
Nanga zimakhudzana bwanji ndi zizindikiro ndi zikhulupiliro zamakono, kukhulupirira zomwe zingatheke komanso zosatheka kuchita panthawi ya mimba? Aliyense amasankha yekha. Ndipotu, zizindikiro zimanyamula nzeru za dziko lonse, ndipo pali mbewu yeniyeni mwa iwo. Koma, ndikuwoneka kuti kwa amayi oyembekezera ndi koyenera kuti musamvere zamatsenga, koma kuti muzitsatira malangizo ndi ndondomeko za dokotala wanu.