Ana adakula kale, zidzukulu zikukula ... Tsiku ndi tsiku, mutu umayendera ndi malingaliro oipa omwe simunakumane nawo. Koma kuyambitsa moyo ndi slate woyera sichedwa kwambiri! Muyenera kumvetsera zothandiza zina ndikusintha moyo wanu.
Kodi mukuyembekeza kulandira chiyani?
- chitetezo;
- chithandizo ndi mwayi wogawana malingaliro anu, maganizo;
- chikhulupiriro;
- mgwirizano, kuzindikira kuti pakufunika kukhala munthu wokongola;
- kumvetsa ndi theka-mawu;
- kulemekezana.
Bwanji simungapeze mnzanu? Nchiyani chikukutsani inu?
- Mutha kutaya "ubwana wachinyamata," ndiko kuti, mukuganiza kuti zaka zanu ndizosavomerezeka ndipo sikutheka kuchita zinthu zopweteka. Ndipo mutenga ndi kuyesa, mwadzidzidzi mumakonda kuphunzira zipangizo zatsopano zamagetsi kapena kulumpha ndi parachute.
- Mwina, kukonda wina kudzakhala kosangalatsa, kotero mliri wa matenda ukuzunzidwa ndikuchotseratu mphamvu zonse zomwe zingathe kumanga ubale watsopano. Zoonadi, mukakhala woipa, simukufuna kuganizira za chikondi ... Dzisamalirani nokha: pitani kwa dokotala, mwinamwake mwakhala mukudzipangitsa nokha kapena mukudutsa nokha; Yambani kudya bwino ndikusuntha zambiri.
- Yerekezerani ndi zomwe mwaziwona kale: ndi wokonda, mwamuna wakale. Monga lamulo, akazi omwe ali amasiye amaganizira za izo. Mkazi amene watayikayo anali wangwiro, ndipo mumayamba kuganiza kuti palibe amene angakumane nanu bwino, ubale woterewu sudzabwerezedwa. Musayambe kugwedeza, dzipatseni nokha. Ndipatseni mwayi. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, ganizirani zomwe mwamuna wanu angakonde, kuti musamavutike, koma pitirizani kukhala ndi moyo, osati kukhala moyo, koma khalani okondwa. Gwirizani kuti mukhale osangalala ndi zochitika zina zochepa.
- Mwakhala nokha kwa zaka zambiri, kuti mwangowonongeka mwa ana ndi zidzukulu, simukudziwa momwe mungachitire izo mosiyana. Ichi ndi cholepheretsa moyo wanu wachimwemwe. Muyenera kukhala ndi gawo lanu, ndipo ziribe zaka 30 kapena 65. Simukufunikira kuti mutenge nthawi ndi zidzukulu zanu usana ndi usiku. Kumbukirani kuti zaka zisanu kapena khumi zofuna zawo zidzayamba kuonekera, abwenzi ndipo adzakupatsani nthawi yochepa. Ndipo iwe udzakhalabe pa malo osweka ...
- Inu mumagwiritsa ntchito chovala chimodzi, chakudya chimodzi, nyumba imodzi ndi ulamuliro wa tsiku, mumangokhala "otanganidwa" m'kupita kwanthawi. Kumbukirani, kuti moyo wa zagrilanova mitundu uchite chinachake mwa iwo okha ndi kusintha, chabwino?
- Dzidzudzula nokha: pambuyo pa zonse, makhalidwe anu ndi zizoloŵezi, mumangoyamba kukalamba, kuchotsa chidwi ndi kugonana. Izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ku manicure, ndi tsitsi, ndi kukhala pa benchi ndi mbewu za mpendadzuwa, ndi kukambirana nthawi zonse, nthawi ndi ndalama zotani zomwe amapatsidwa penshoni.
Tiyeni tikambirane zifukwa zitatu zofunikira kwambiri zomwe mkazi wazaka 50 akufuna kukwatira. Pambuyo pa zonse, m'dzina la nkhaniyo, chogogomezera chachikulu chiri pa msinkhu, chirichonse chomwe anganene, chirichonse chikuchitidwa mosiyana mu m'badwo uno. Chifukwa cha chikondi chachikulu, amakwatirana ali ndi zaka 18-22, kuti asatengedwe ngati msungwana wachikulire (ngakhale simunali mtsikana kwa nthawi yaitali) mu zaka 26-30. Azimayi omwe ali ndi zaka 35 amayesera kulumphira kuti akwatire mwana-mwayi wotsiriza, koma zaka 50 bwanji mukutero?
Gwiritsani ntchito zaka 50 kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino
M'dziko limene timakhala, malonda onse pa akaunti ya ntchito ali ndi zolemba zing'onozing'ono: "osati zaka zoposa 35", zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ngati muli ndi zaka 40 komanso zoposa 50, ndiye kuti ntchito ikutsutsidwa, chifukwa olemba ntchito amaganiza kuti mwakalamba kale. Ndipo izi zimachitika, ngakhale kuti chaka chilichonse mkazi wazaka zapuma pantchito akuwonjezeka ndipo akulonjeza kuti adzawonjezeranso zambiri, koma momwe angapezere ntchito ndi kukhala moyo asanatengere pantchito ngati zimenezi palibe amene angathe kufotokoza. kusonyeza malingaliro onse ndi zodabwitsa za malingaliro kuti apulumuke. Nthawi zina zimakhala zophweka kupeza mwamuna kusiyana ndi ntchito ndikumulola kuti azisamalira yekha. Komabe, kuti mupeze ndi kupangitsa mwamuna wanu kukhala munthu wabwino, muyenera kukhala wathanzi, wokonzekera bwino, wanzeru, wokongola, komanso wofunikira kwambiri. Chifukwa muli ndi mpikisano wamphamvu ngati azimayi akale a zaka makumi atatu ndi makumi atatu mphambu makumi asanu ndi awiri (30) omwe amatha kuwombera m'mipingo pafupi ndi amuna oterewa, koma kugwira ntchito ndi kukhala ndi ndalama zawo.
Zoonadi, uwu ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri - kupeza mwamuna wodzikonda yemwe adzakupatsani inu ndi ana anu. Muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa chithunzi chosowa, maonekedwe, nthawi zonse, osamvetsera zovuta ndi alembi achinyamata ndi chirichonse kuti mutengere mkaziyo.
Choncho, kuti mupeze mwamuna pambuyo pa zaka 50, simuyenera kungogonana, wanzeru, okongola, kukumana ndi mnzanu kuchokera kuntchito ndi chisangalalo pamilomo yanu, muyenera kukhala angwiro.
Koma kodi mungapeze kuti munthu wotere? Monga lamulo, iwo amakhala "m'magulu otsekedwa, malesitilanti okwera mtengo, miyala yawo yokha kapena maulendo, amalipira mabombe amwenye ena.
Ukwatirenso 50, osakhala ndekha
Ichi ndicho chifukwa chofala kwambiri chofunafuna mwamuna pa msinkhu uno. Ana adakula kale ndipo amakhala mwapadera, mwamunayo wapita kumkazi wina, kapena wamwalira, pali ntchito, ndi thanzi, ndi zachuma, koma palibe chizoloŵezi - palibe chochita. Ndimtima wokoma mtima, komanso wosangalatsa, choncho tsiku lina ndikuyang'ana zotsatizana za chikondi, munaganiza zokwatira. Ngati mukuganiza choncho, ndiye kuti munthu aliyense angakufikireni, chifukwa chinthu chachikulu ndi choti azikhala pafupi.Yeserani kudzipeza nokha mnyamata yemwe sanadziwike bwino kwambiri pazinthu zazing'ono za amayi kapena zosiyana siyana, mwamuna wokhwima maganizo amene, monga maloto okhudza nyumba ndi chitonthozo. Musayang'ane amuna a msinkhu wanu, chifukwa ali pafupi kwambiri ndi kugonana ndi atsikana aang'ono. Kumbukirani kuti chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kwa munthu ndi kudya mokoma komanso kuti zonse zomwe zimapanga zimakwaniritsidwa. Nthaŵi zina mumamupatse mphatso zamtengo wapatali ndikuyendetsa mowa. Ngati mukufuna kukwatira kuti muthawe kusungulumwa, ndiye kuti simusowa kugonana, nzeru ndi kukongola, muyenera kukhala ndi galimoto, nyumba, akaunti ya banki, kukonzekera zokoma komanso kukhala ndi chikhumbo chofuna kupondereza moyo wanu mukamasankha kupeza mwamuna.
Wokwatirana pambuyo pa 50 kukonda ndi kukondedwa
Inde, izi ndi zovuta kukhulupirira, ndipo amayi ambiri atatha zaka makumi anayi adataya malingaliro onse omwe angathe kugwidwa mwachikondi, komanso mofanana. Mkaziyo, makamaka pamene ali ndi chidziwitso komanso zodziwa zambiri, ndipo ngati atatha zaka 40 akhala yekha, ndiye kuti izi zimakhala zowawa kwambiri. Kusintha, misonkhano, kusakhulupirika, magawano, zoperewera zimaphunzitsa osati kuyang'ana dziko lapansi mosiyana, komanso kuyanjana ndi anthu. Komanso, poyamba mwinamwake mukuganiza kuti mukufuna kalonga kavalo woyera, koma tsopano mumadziwa kale kuti popanda iye mukhoza kukhala mwamtendere. Muzaka zachinyamata kukonda munthu mosavuta, chifukwa sitikufuna kuti munthu akhale wauzimu, ndipo m'zaka zambiri ayamba kukwiyitsa zinthu zambiri. Mayi woyamba amayamba kukondana, kenako amaganiza. Ndipo patatha zaka 50 mkazi amayamba kuganiza, amalemera zonse, kenako amalola kuti azikondana.
Kumbukirani kuti mibadwo yonse ikugonjera chikondi. Mulole kuti mukhale ndi moyo weniweni. Yang'anani filimuyo "Moscow sakukhulupirira misonzi," chifukwa kumeneko kokha mu heroine wazaka makumi anayi yemwe adayamba kukonda kwenikweni. Inde, munganene kuti iyi ndi kanema, koma simukukhulupirira zozizwa, sizidzakuchitikirani.
Musayang'ane pa msinkhu wanu, kumbukirani kuti panopa ndizo zopindulitsa. Okalamba mumakhala, kukhala ndi chidziwitso, kuleza mtima, ndi nzeru zomwe muli nazo.
Kodi ndi zenizeni kukwatira pambuyo pa 50?
Mwachibadwa, zimadalira momwe mumayang'anirako bwino komanso momwe muli ndi "manja" agolide. Ngati ndinu mkazi wokonzekera bwino, ndipo mu 60 ndi 50 simupereka, ndiye kuti muli ndi mwayi wokwanira.
Ngati simukudziwa anthu omwe ali ndi mbiriyi, werengani pa intaneti, akazi akwatirana pamene alibe ana, komanso zidzukulu. Pali ma forums ndi malo ambiri omwe ali ndi nkhani. Kukwatirana pambuyo pa 50 ndi weniweni, chinthu chachikulu sikutaya mtima koma osadandaula.