Tsitsi labwino ndi lokongola ndilo loto lofunika kwambiri la kugonana kulikonse. Mukhoza kukhala ndi khungu loyera komanso chifaniziro chabwino. Komabe, ngati tsitsi liri ndi zovuta zoonekeratu, kuyang'ana koyamba kwa ife kumakhala kosangalatsa ndi kosakumbukika ndi chizindikiro chowonjezera-chokhumudwitsa pang'ono, ndi chizindikiro chochepa.
Ndipo mosiyana. Mukhoza kuyang'ana atsikana ndi atsikana ndi tsitsi lokongola, lokonzekera bwino, komanso lowala, koma osakhala ndi maonekedwe. Ndipo maganizowa ndi abwino, okongola komanso okongola.
Chikhalidwe chilichonse chili ndi zinsinsi za kukongola ndi thanzi. Chinachake chikhoza kubwera, chinachake sichingakhoze. Komabe, kuti mupeze maphikidwe osiyana ndi njira yabwino yopezeramo mwayi watsopano posamalira kukongola kwanu ndikukonzekera nokha, pulogalamu yothandiza yomwe mukuyenerera.
Chikhalidwe cha azitsamba chimakhala ndi zaka chikwi m'madera osiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo kusamalira kukongola ndi thanzi la thupi la munthu. Tsitsi limathandiza kwambiri pano. Ndiwo omwe amathandizira mphamvu zowonetsera zamaganizo m'moyo wa munthu ndikuwonetsa mphamvu zowonongeka komanso zowonongeka. Mothandizidwa ndi chithandizo choyenera cha tsitsi, mutha kukhala ndi zotsatira zabwino kwa munthu woyandikana ndi wokondedwa, kuteteza m'moyo wake mavuto ambiri ndi matenda.
Ngati mukuvutika maganizo kapena kungomva chisoni, njira yabwino ndiyo kusamba tsitsi lanu. Pambuyo pake, tsitsi pamsinkhu wa mphamvu limatengera zonse zomwe zimatichitikira patsiku, ndipo ndithudi, zolakwika, zosautsa komanso mawu osakoma.
Ngati muli ndi kupweteka kwa mutu komanso kusokonezeka maganizo, yesetsani kusamba pamutu, sambani tsitsi lanu ndikuyang'ana pa galasi lanu - chifukwa dziko lapansi lakhudzidwa kwambiri, ndipo maganizo odandaula atha kwina kwinakwake, sichoncho?
Tsitsi lili ndi zamatsenga. Ndipotu, amadzipangira okha zambiri zokhudza munthuyo ndi moyo wake kuyambira kubadwa. Tsitsi lanu, kulikonse kumene kuli, nthawi zonse limagwirizanitsidwa ndi inu ndi ulusi wosagwirizana. Choncho, simungakhoze kuponyera tsitsi lanu muzitha zonyansa, kuzikankhira mu chimbudzi komanso kumusiya wovala tsitsi. Inu simungakhoze kukhala nawo iwo akukumana ndi dothi ndi zinyalala. Aliyense amene ali ndi thumba laling'ono la tsitsi lanu, akhoza kuchita nanu zinthu zambiri zosasangalatsa: kuchokera ku matenda kuti awonongeke.
Chinthu chopanda phindu chimene chimachitika pamene tsitsi lanu silitenthe, koma kumalo kwinakwake pakati pa zitsamba kapena zisa za mbalame, ndiko kuchepa kwa moyo, kukhumudwa, kupwetekedwa mutu, ndi mavuto ndi zochitika zosautsa moyo. Sungani tsitsi lanu mu thumba lapadera ndipo nthawi zonse muwotche. Kotero inu mukhoza kudziziteteza nokha pa mphamvu ya mphamvu kuchokera ku mavuto ambiri osafunikira kwa aliyense.
Mu chikhalidwe cha Vedic amakhulupirira kuti tsitsi liyenera kukhala lalitali. Kutalika kwazitali kumakhala pakati pa masamba. Pakati pa tsitsi lazimayi, mbuye wawo amatha kukhala ndi mphamvu zokhudzana ndi dziko lonse lapansi, pokhala ogwirizana kwambiri ndi mphamvu zapadziko lapansi, kupereka chikondi ndi kukhudzidwa mtima kwa onse omwe ali pafupi ndi pafupi ndi anthu.
Akatswiri mu Vedic chikhalidwe amakhulupirira kuti kudandaula za woonda, wofooka tsitsi ndi zopanda pake ndi zopanda pake. Mkazi aliyense amafunika kukhala ndi tsitsi lalitali. Pa izi zimadalira khalidwe la moyo wake.
Tsitsi lalitali kuti liyambe kugonana ndibwino. Ndikofunika kusankha tsitsi loyenera. Sikoyenera kuti tsitsi lonse ndilofanana. Ndikofunika kuti ena afike pamapewa. Ndipo panjira, tsitsi labwino ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yochitira mphamvu. Choncho njira yabwino kwambiri ndi yaitali, yoonda, yowala.
N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti zokongola zamakono zimavala tsitsi. Izi zimaonedwa kuti ndizolakwika mu chikhalidwe cha Vedic, chifukwa mphamvu yamtengo wapatali imadetsedwa ndi kuwonongeka. Pukutani tsitsili liyenera kutsogolo kwa munthu wokondedwa kapena pamene mukufuna kuti mukhale wolimba, wosaiwalika.
Chimodzi mwa zinsinsi za kugwiritsa ntchito tsitsi - ngati muli ndi bizinesi yofunikira, kapena mumadziwana bwino ndi munthu wokondweretsa, yesetsani kuthetsa tsitsi lomwe limatulutsidwa pokhapokha panthawi yofunika kwambiri komanso yofunika kwambiri. Mphamvu zowonjezera zidzakubweretserani mwayi komanso zotsatira zabwino zokhudzana ndi bizinesi ndi zachikondi.
Imodzi mwazithunzithunzi zopambana ndi zoyenera kwambiri ndiko kuluka - kuluka. Zimapindulitsa tsitsi ndipo zimathandiza kukula mofulumira komanso mofulumira.
Ndikofunika kwambiri pamene mukupangira mutu wanu. Zachikhalidwe - gawo lolunjika. Ngati mwatopa ndi kumverera pamwambamwamba kwambiri, pangani kugawa molunjika ndi kumangirira tsitsi kumbuyo. Kukongoletsa tsitsi, komwe kwapangidwa kwa kanthawi, kudzakuthandizani kuti muchire, kusintha maganizo anu, kuwonjezera mphamvu ndi mphamvu. Ngati mukufuna kupatukana kumbali, ndiye kuti ziyenera kukhala zoyenera, ndipo tsitsi lonse limadulidwa kumanzere.
Kukongola ndi thanzi kwa inu ndi tsitsi lanu.