Bwanji ngati mwamuna wanu ali ndi dyera?

Palibe choipa kuposa kukhala ndi munthu wadyera. Kuchokera izi simungathe kutenga chilichonse. Izi zimakhala zosangalatsa kuziganizira monga egoists ndikutanthauza anthu. Sikuti mkazi aliyense ali wokonzeka kumanga ubale ndi munthu wotere. Koma musanamange ubale, muyenera kuzindikira. Ndipo momwe angachitire aliyense ayenera kudziwa, kuti asagwere mu "msampha".

Zizindikiro zikuluzikulu za avarice zingadziŵike ndi chuma chake chochulukirapo. Angasangalale kudya kunyumba, m'malo mopita nawe ku lesitilanti kuti mudye chakudya chamakono. M'malo mobweretsa kwanu pagalimoto, angakonde kuyenda. Idzakupatsani inu chitsulo kapena ketulo mmalo mwa mphatso zachikondi, kudziyesa nokha kuti zinthu izi ndi zothandiza kwambiri kuposa maluwa kapena makadidi. Ndipo pali zinthu zotere zomwe iye sapereka mphatso kwa inu nonse ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri samvetsera zosangalatsa zabwino.

Tsopano tikufotokozera umbombo wa munthu pazifukwa zina.

Pali amuna omwe ali ndi dyera mwachibadwa, mwachitsanzo, Amakonda kudya chakudya chamtengo wapatali ndi chokoma okha, kusiyana ndi wina, kapena amavala kawirikawiri, koma samawononga ndalama kwa mnzake. Ndi munthu wotere mungavomereze ngati amakukondani komanso adzikonda yekha.

Palinso amuna omwe sakhala wonyada chabe, koma amatanthauzanso. Iwo amamva chisoni chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito ndalama iliyonse komanso iwowo. Amasankha kuyenda mu mathalauza akale m'malo mogula yatsopano. Ndi munthu wotero akhoza kukhala ndi mkazi yemwe amakhalanso ndi mphamvu. Ngakhale palibe chikondi sichikhoza kupulumutsa ukwati ndi munthu wotere.

Palinso amuna oterowo amene ali ndi malipiro aang'ono ndipo amafunika kuthandizira banja, makolo. Kotero akuyamba kupulumutsa kuti apulumuke. Ndi amuna oterewa mukhoza kukhala mwamtendere, chifukwa chakuti zoterezi sizingatheke. Kupirira kokha kungapulumutse ukwati ndi iye.

Mwamuna amene amakuchitirani kokha mayi wokophika kapena wina wochokera ku chakudya chanu cha banja, pamene sakufuna kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama kugula chinthu china, amalingalira kuti sakukwanira. Iye amakhalanso ndi chisoni pogawira chakudya ndi wina, ndithudi kupatula iwe. Ndi munthu wotere ndizosatheka kukhala ndi moyo, ndi bwino kukhala kutali ndi anthu oterewa.

Alipo amuna omwe amasunga pa zoyendetsa, nyumba, nyumba, kuyesa kusunga ndalama zina. Kwa ndalama iliyonse yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito, mudzayenera kumuuza. Ndipo ndithudi, iye sadzakhutira ndi izi. Ndi munthu wotere mungakhale ndi moyo, koma zonse zimadalira mkaziyo, kodi ndi wokonzeka.

Amuna amenewa ndi osatheka kusintha. Ngati mkazi ali wokonzeka kutenga udindo wawo wonse, ndiye akhale naye pansi pa denga limodzi. Zonse zimadalira pa inu, kodi mwakonzeka kulandira iwo motere ndi osakwanira.