Zomwe ana athu akutipatsa

Timaganiza kuti tikuphunzitsa ana athu, koma nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosiyana ... Pamene mwana abwera m'banja, makolo amakhulupirira kuti ntchito yawo yaikulu ndi kuphunzitsa mwana zonse zomwe sangathe kuchita popanda moyo. Ndipo sikuti ndikuyenda, kudya, kuwerenga, ndizosangalatsa kufotokozera zabwino ndi zoipa, momwe mungakhalire abwenzi ndi zomwe muyenera kumvetsera ndi zomwe mukhulupirire ... Makolo enanso amakhala okondwa kwambiri, choncho ndikufuna kuphunzitsa ana anga mfundo zenizeni za moyo, kuti panthawiyi amalephera kuzindikira kuti mwanayo sali wodabwitsa ngati cholengedwa monga momwe angawonekere poyamba. Komanso , nthawi zina iwo ali anzeru kwambiri kuposa ife: Zonsezi, zomwe zimabisika kwa munthu wamkulu pamasewera osiyana siyana ndi makhalidwe abwino, pakuti mwanayo, ndithudi, akuwonekera! Maphunziro omwe ana athu amatipatsa ndi apadera kwambiri. Iwo ndi achifundo, anzeru, owona mtima. Sitiyenera kuopa kuphunzira kuchokera kwa ana athu omwe. Ndimasangalala ndi maphunziro omwe ana athu amatipatsa.

Kumbukirani chirichonse . Mwanayo adabwerera kusukulu, ndipo akufuula mofuula: sanalembere ntchito yake ya kunyumba, koma adalembera kalata m'ndandanda. Inu mu khitchini mwatsuka musambe mbale ndikuyesa kuti zonse ziri bwino. "Nanga bwanji," "mumati," ndizolakwa, tidzakhala osamala kwambiri ku maphunziro! "Nkhaniyi ndi maphunziro osabwerezedwa akubwerezedwa kwa chaka chachiwiri kale. Mumatopa ndi kumenyana ndi zipewa, zovala zolimbidwa ndi masewera, zotayika ndi zolembera. Mukuika zikumbutso ndi zikumbutso, iye analembera yekha - zonsezo n'zachabechabe. Kulira mu khola kumatembenuka kukhala kulira kopanda chiyembekezo, simungakhoze kuima ndikufunsa kuti: "Chabwino, ndiuzeni, ndingatani kuti ndikukonzekeretseni? Kodi ndingakuphunzitseni motani? "Kenako mwanayo akulankhula mawu omwe amakuchititsani manyazi" Amayi, musandiphunzitseni, ingondikumbatira ndi kundimvera chisoni! ".

Mwachiwonekere, pa nkhope yanu muli kulembedwa chinachake chomwe chimalola mwanayo kuti abwere ndikuyika mphuno zako. Mumagwidwa, mumagwedezeka pamutu, mvetserani momwe imatha ndipo mwadzidzidzi mumakumbukira: inu, aang'ono, imani pakati pa khola, mukulira ndikulonjeza kuti simudzatha konse, musataye mittens anu ... Ndipo aliyense akufuula ndi kunyoza aliyense pozungulira. Ndipo ndiwe wamantha kwambiri, wowawa komanso wosungulumwa, ngati kuti iwe uli yekha padziko lonse lapansi ... Tsiku lina mwana wamkazi adakuwuza iwe: "Mayi, ndimakhala pafupi ndikulira kuti mundimvere chisoni ndikuyamba kukondana." Izi ndi maphunziro omwe ana amapereka, sitidziwa.

Pasanapite nthawi yaitali . Kupita ku sitolo ya chidole siyeso kwa mtima wokomoka. Ziribe kanthu kuchuluka kwa magalimoto ndi asilikali omwe anali mnyumbamo, sikunali kokwanira! Mumapita ndi mwana wanu kukagula mphatso kwa msuweni wanu ndikuvomereza: palibe makina. Koma mu sitolo mumalowanso kuyesa, kupukuta ndi kukopa: ndipafupi kuponya ndalama kutali ndi toyese kusiyana ndi kumenyana pamaso pa ogulitsa ndi anthu. Chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri ndi chakuti mu maminiti khumi mwana wa chidole sakumbukiranso, ndipo mumadzikakamiza kuti muwonetsere zofooka komanso kuti mawu anu samatanthauza kanthu. Wodziwika? Ndipo kodi mwana wina ayenera kuyankhulana bwanji ndi mawu anu, ngati inu, ponena kuti simudzagula kanthu, mungachitebe kugula kopanda pake? Nthawi yotsatira chirichonse chidzabwereza ndendende, ndipo ndikukumbukirabe: nthawi yotsiriza yomwe ndagula izo? Choncho ana athu amatiphunzitsa. Ndipo mumayesetsa kukhala osasinthasintha: mwachitsanzo, ngati chokoleti sizingatheke, chifukwa ndi zovuta, sizingatheke, ngakhale pa maholide.

Kupatsa . Kodi mwamukwapula mwana? Ndiyeno inu muli ndi manyazi amanyazi, ingodzida nokha ndi misonzi, koma izo zachitidwa ^ Ndipo ana athu samakhumudwa. Amalira ndi kuyesa kutikumbatira, samakumbukira mtsogolo za mazunzo ochititsa manyazi ndi mawu achipongwe, amatikhululukira ndikutikonda mofanana ndi poyamba. O, ngati tikanakhoza kukhululukira okondedwa athu monga ana amatikhululukira! Ngati kholo lirilonse liri ndi nzeru komanso chikhumbo chozindikira maphunziro omwe ana athu akutipatsa, dziko likanakhala losiyana. Ana amatithandiza kukhala abwino, oyeretsa, okoma mtima, owona mtima.