Ngati mukufuna kukonzekera ukwati Lolemba , zindikirani kuti tsiku lino liri pansi pa mphamvu ya mwezi. Ali ndi kugwirizana kwapabanja pakati pa okwatirana, "amayang'anira" banja lathu lonse, mgwirizano wapamtima. Wokondedwa wanu adzakhala mthandizi ndi chithandizo chanu, osakwatirana sadzakhala wina ndi mzake.
Lachiwiri liri pansi pa mphamvu ya Mars wankhondo. Masiku ano okhulupirira nyenyezi samaganiza kuti tsiku labwino kwambiri la ukwati ndi tsiku. Pakati pa okwatirana kumeneko padzakhala mikangano, ndewu, ndikuyanjananso komanso mobwerezabwereza. Chilengedwe chomwe chimakhudzidwa ndi Mercury chimapanga mgwirizano, wozizira m'banja. Aliyense amadziwa kusintha kwa Mercury: lero ali wokondwa kwambiri, ndipo mawa sakudziwika kumene angamuyang'anire. Osati tsiku labwino kwambiri la ukwati. Lachinayi likulamulidwa ndi dziko lapansi Jupiter, yemwe amatsogolera makhalidwe a utsogoleri, banjali lidzapeza nthawi zonse yemwe ali woyang'anira banja? Nkhondo ya utsogoleri. Lero, komanso Lachisanu, akuwoneka kuti siwothandiza ku ukwati. Lachisanu limakhudzidwa ndi Venus, dziko lapansi labwino ndi zakondwerero zakuthupi. Zimabweretsa moyo mgwirizano wachinyamata, kumvetsetsa. Tsiku losangalatsa laukwati. Saturn imayang'aniridwa ndi Sabata - dziko lachangu, zomwe zimakhalapo nthawi zonse, kuleza mtima, zowona. Motsogozedwa ndi Saturn, banja lanu lidzakhala lodalirika, lokhazikika. Maukwati ambiri amasewera tsiku lino. Lamlungu imakhudzidwa ndi dzuwa. Tsiku lofunika kwambiri la ukwati. Dzuŵa limabweretsa tchuthi lowala ku moyo wa banja, ana odabwitsa, chimwemwe. Zikuonedwa kuti ndizolakwika kuti azisewera ukwati m'masiku a kadamsana wa dzuwa kapena mwezi. Tchalitchi chimanena kuti tsiku loipa la ukwati ndi Lachiwiri, Lachinayi, masiku ano sakuveka korona. Masiku ano, chifukwa cha ukwati, kutha kwa sabata ndikosankhidwa kawirikawiri. Koma pamasiku a masabata olembera pali ocheperapo ndi osakwatiwa. Ogwira ntchito, omwe amatumikira ku ukwatiwo, ndi osavuta kugwira ntchito masiku otere kusiyana ndi kumapeto kwa sabata. Komanso masiku ano n'zosavuta kupeza malo ochitira phwando. Koma oitanidwa sadzatha kusangalala kuchokera pansi pamtima, chifukwa ambiri a iwo akugwira ntchito tsiku lotsatira. Izi ndiyeneranso kulingalira posankha tsiku la sabata la ukwati. Zimakhulupirira kuti moyo wa banja ukhoza kupambana ngati mutakwatirana pa miyezi 4, 5, 7, 10 kapena 11 kuchokera tsiku lanu lobadwa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati munabadwa mu June, ndiye kuti mwezi wokondwerera ukwati udzakhala wa September . Kwa nthawi yaitali akhala akukhulupilira kuti maanja omwe adziphatikizana mu September amatsagana ndi chuma ndi chimwemwe. Kawirikawiri, banjali linkaonedwa kuti ndibwino nthawi zina paukwati. Zokolola zasonkhanitsidwa, ntchito ya kumunda yadutsa. Gome akhoza kukhala ndi mitundu yonse ya ndiwo zamasamba, zipatso. Malingana ndi zizindikiro za anthu, October adzabweretsa chikondi chochuluka kwa achinyamata, koma osati chuma. Ukwati mu November - ku chuma. Mapeto a autumn, nyengo yozizira, chiyambi cha masika si nthawi yotchuka kwambiri yaukwati, monga nyengo imakhala yozizira, ndipo m'nyengo yozizira pali maholide ambiri. Panthawiyi pali malo ambiri omwe sali okondwerera kukondwerera ukwati.Mwezi wa Khirisimasi: November 28 mpaka Januwale 7, February 14 - madzulo a Kuwonetsera kwa Ambuye (ngakhale kuti ndilo tchuthi la Katolika - tsiku la okondedwa), Shrovetide (sabata lisanayambe Lenti Lalikulu) sankasewera maukwati. Koma ngati nonse mutasankha kukondwerera ukwati wanu m'nyengo yozizira, dziwani kuti ngati ukwati wanu uli mu December , chikondi chanu chidzakhalapo kwamuyaya, ndipo chaka chilichonse mutha kukondana kwambiri.
Ukwati mu Januwale - Achinyamata amayembekezera moyo wachimwemwe m'banja mwachikondi ndi kukhulupirika. Simuyenera kuopa chiwonongeko, ngati mukondwerera ukwati mu February, moyo wa banja udzakhala wogwirizana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Chiwerengero chazing'ono kwambiri chaukwati chimagwa m'chaka. Ichi ndi chifukwa cha kusala kudya kwakukulu, chikondwerero cha Isitala.Malingana ndi zizindikiro za anthu, ukwati, womaliza mu March - mkwatibwi adzakhala kumbali ya mlendo. April - ukwati mu mwezi uno udzabweretsa chisangalalo chosasunthika. Mwezi wosakondweretsa kwambiri wa ukwati ndi Meyi : "Mu Meyi, okwatirana, gwiritsani moyo wanu wonse". Chizindikiro ichi chawoneka kwa nthawi yaitali, m'midzi ya May ndi mwezi wa ntchito zaulimi, panalibe nthawi yotsala ya zovuta, chakudya cha chaka chatha chikutha, amene akusewera pa nthawiyi?
Nthawi yabwino kwambiri yowukwati ndi chilimwe. Mukhoza kusangalala panja, zakudya zosiyanasiyana. Miyambo yamakono: Pambuyo paukwati kupita pakhomo lachimwemwe, ndibwino kuti muzitsatira mu chilimwe. Malingana ndi zizindikiro za anthu, mwezi wangwiro waukwati ndi June - chisangalalo chidzapitirira moyo wonse wa banja. Ukwati mu Julayi - banja laling'ono likuyembekezera ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku, padzakhala mphindi makumi asanu ndi zisanu ndi makumi asanu zokondweretsa ndi zowawa. August ndi mwezi wabwino waukwati, mgwirizano wamphamvu ukuyembekezera, koma simungakhoze kusewera maukwati pa Lent Assumption: August 14-27. Zonsezi, zizindikiro ndizowona, koma musaiwale kuti tikukhala nthawi zina, kotero musamakhulupirire zizindikiro za anthu. Inu nokha mukhoza kupanga tsiku ndi mwezi uliwonse zabwino kwambiri pa ukwati wanu.Banja losangalala ndi chiyanjano pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, kumvetsetsa pamodzi ndi mgwirizano m'mbali zonse: zauzimu, nzeru, kugonana. Kodi mungasankhe bwanji tsiku ndi mwezi paukwati? Ili ndilo kusankha kwanu ndi theka lanu lachiwiri.