Inu, mwinamwake, mwakhala mukugwedezeka ndi makutu a abwenzi anu onse omwe, monga inu, muli ndi ana ang'ono - simungathe kupita kulikonse, amati, kuyambira pakhomopo, kuchokera ku tchire ndi ma diapers, ngakhale m'nyumba yomwe mukusowa ukhondo nthawi zonse Musamayiwale za mwamuna wanu. Mufupikitsa nthawi yomwe mwanayo akugona, mumayesetsa kuphika chinachake, kutuluka pang'ono. Ndipo nthawi zambiri nthawi yake siimakhala.
Inde, ndi ana aang'ono ndizovuta - ndikuganiza kuti mudadziwa kale izi ndipo mwinanso mumayesedwa kuti mukhale ndi makhalidwe abwino. Ana - amakhala osangalala nthawi zonse, koma muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungachitire bwino mavuto omwe akugwirizana ndi maonekedwe a mwanayo mnyumbamo. Muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuti moyo wanu ufike pang'onopang'ono, udzasokoneza moyo wa zinyenyeswazi, zomwe sungakhoze kuchita chilichonse payekha.
Mkhalidwe m'banja uli wosiyana, ena mwa iwo amachititsa kuti mayi athe kuyamwitsa kuchokera kwa mwana kwa kanthawi, pamene ena samalola amayi kukhala ndi ufulu wotere. Monga mudatha kumvetsetsa, ndikukamba za amene amakhala ndi inu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wanu sagwira ntchito kapena kugwira ntchito pakhomo - mukhoza kusintha mosavuta ku mapewa ake ntchito yophunzitsa. Choncho, mumamasula nthawi yanu nokha. Ndipotu, nthawi ikafika ndipo mutha kuthawa kwinakwake ndi abambo anu abwenzi, muyenera kuyang'ana mozizwitsa, osati ngati mkazi wokalamba wopanda tsitsi ndi kudzipangira, akuwonetsa zikopa pamisomali yake ndi kuvulaza kwakukulu pansi pa maso ake.
Choncho, ngati mukukhala ndi agogo anu, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zophweka kwa inu pankhaniyi. Inde, pamene mwana akadakali wamng'ono kwambiri ndipo mutha kusamalidwa opanda zilonda, ndiye kuti simungathe kusiya mwana wanu kwa nthawi yaitali ndi agogo anu. Kugwedezeka ali wamng'ono, monga chinthu china chirichonse, kumafunikira kutentha kwa amayi ndi chisamaliro. Choncho, kuleza mtima pang'ono - kudzafika nthawi pamene, poika malyavka kugona usiku, mukhoza kuvala mwabwino ndi kumacheza ndi anzanu mu gululo kapena ndi mwamuna wanu kuti mukhale naye pachibwenzi m'mahotela ena. Inde, kumeneko, ngakhale kungoyendayenda mumzinda wa usiku pansi pa cholembera ndi wopembedza - iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yogwiritsira ntchito nthawi! Ziri bwino kuposa kupita kwina kulikonse ndi kuziwawa m'mabotolo mumapiri ndi mbale ndi miphika.
Ngati mwamuna wanu amachita ntchito yabwino ndi mwana ndipo ali wokonzeka kuti azikhala naye limodzi - ndiye mutha kusiya mwamuna wanu wokondedwa, bwanji, makamaka ngati kumubweretsa chimwemwe chachikulu? Kawirikawiri aliyense amanena kuti kusiya ana kwa amuna n'koopsa kwambiri - sindimakhulupirira chiphunzitso ichi. Inde, pali amuna osasamala komanso obalalika, ndibwino kuti musakhale ndi ana ang'onoang'ono, koma ngati mukudziwa kuti mwamuna wanu ndi munthu wodalirika yemwe sangamuchotse maso ake, bwanji osapindula nawo? Azisiyeni okha kwa maola angapo ndikupita ndi anzanu mu cafe kapena kugula. Ndilo tchuthi!
Pazifukwa zina, aliyense amakhulupirira kuti pakubadwa kwa mwana, mayi wamng'onoyo ayenera kukhala robot yachitsulo, yemwe alibe chidwi ndi china chilichonse kupatula amathawa ndi raspashonok. Inde, ngati tilankhula zapadera, ndiye kuti thanzi ndi chitonthozo cha mwanayo kuyambira pano zidzakhalabe pomwepo, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kudziiwala nokha. Kutopa kuli ndi chuma chokwanira ndikutsanulira ena mwaukali. Choyamba, munthu yemwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi inu-ndiko kuti, kwa mwamuna wanu-nthawi zambiri amakufikirani. Ndipo, monga momwe mumadziwira nokha, izi sizimalimbitsa ukwati wanu. Choncho, muyenera kuyang'ana njira zopumula ndi kutaya mkwiyo mkati mwa chilakolako.
Ngati muli ndi abwenzi ndi ana aang'ono - bwino kwambiri! Ana akamakula pang'ono, mukhoza kupanga misonkhano yabwino. Pamene zinyenyesedwe zidzakondana kwambiri, inu, mummies, mungathe kukambirana momasuka ndi kupumula! Zidzakhala zofunikira kuonetsetsa kuti ana asakhumudwitse wina ndi mzake, chifukwa akadakali wamng'ono sakudziwa momwe ayenera kuyanjana, ndi masewera ati omwe angakhale nawo.
Ndithudi mumzinda mwanu pali malo osangalatsa a ana. Iyi ndi paki yaing'ono yokondweretsa ana aang'ono, komwe kuli malo oti makolo awo azikhalamo. Pamene ana adzakakamizika kukumba mipira ndi masewera, mukhoza kumwa khofi ndi keke, kudziwana ndi amayi ena, dziwonetseni nokha, pamapeto pake.
Eya, ngati nyengo ndi nyengo yofunda, ndiye bwanji osakonza phwandolo limodzi ndi amayi ena omwe ali ndi ana aang'ono? Tengani mahema a ana angapo, chakudya chaching'ono kwa iwo okha ndi ana, zidole. Chofunika - kirimu cha udzudzu umene sufulumira kuthamangira kunyumba wofiira ndi kutupa. Mutha kutenga bambo anu ndikuwotcha nyama ndikupanga shish-kebab!
Monga mukuonera, pali njira zambiri zochepetsera ndikukhala ndi maganizo abwino, ngakhale muli ndi mwana wamng'ono. Pa kubadwa kwa zinyenyeswazi, moyo si chinthu chomwe sichimatha - chimangoyamba, mumangofunikira kupeza nthawi ndi mphamvu zosiyana. Zosangalatsa - ndi mbali yofunikira pamoyo wathu, mosasamala kanthu za moyo, muyenera kumvetsa kuti gulu lake liyenera kuthana ndi inu nokha.
Choncho, palibe zovuta pamene mwana sangathe kuthawa (ngakhale, mwina, ngati inu kapena mwanayo akudwala kwambiri ndikumangiriza ku nyumba - ndiye, ndithudi, zinthu zikusintha, koma apa mungapeze njira yotulukira, muyenera kukaonana ndi dokotala ). Nthawi zambiri timakhala ndi ulesi komanso kuti mayi wamng'onoyo amadziwonetsera okha - amati, ndili ndi mwana wamng'ono, ndilibe nthawi yanga, moyo umapita pansi pa mtunda, achinyamata amatha. Moyo wathu, komanso ubwana wathu, uli m'manja mwathu. Choncho tengani ndi kuyisamalira.