Choyamba tiyenera kukukumbutsani kuti zimakhala zovuta bwanji kuphunzitsa mwana momwe angadye bwino. Iye kwa nthawi yaitali amakana kutenga supuni ndi kukwera manja ake mu mbale. Komabe, izi siziyenera kulepheretsa makolo, ana onse adye okha. Nthawi zina mumafuna kuponyera chirichonse kuti muteteze kutsanulira phala kapena kutsanulira madzi, koma simungachite izi mwanjira iliyonse. Kodi chikuchitika chiani? Mwanayo safuna kudya yekha. Ndicho chifukwa chachikulu - chisamaliro chokwanira.
Chisamaliro cha makolo ndi chabwino, komabe, zambiri zimabweretsa zotsatira zosasangalatsa. M'banja lomwe nthawi zonse limasamalidwa ndi chikondi chochulukirapo, mwana wowonongeka amakula pang'ono pang'onopang'ono. Iye samamvera akulu, safuna kudya yekha ndipo nthawi zonse adzatsimikiza kuti amateteza makolo ake. Pa chifukwa ichi, iye sadzakula kukhala munthu weniweni. Simunganene kuti simukusowa kusamalira ana, zonsezi ziyenera kukhala zochepa. Apanso, mwanayo akana kudya yekha, muyenera kuchita bwino.
Zilango zimavomerezeka nthawi zambiri, komabe nthawi zina zimayenera kukumbukiridwa. Mwana aliyense adye, ndipo izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito kuunyamata (1 - 2 zaka). Pang'onopang'ono muyenera kubweretsa ana kumbali iyi - nthawi zambiri kuti apereke supuni m'manja mwake, akuwonetseni momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito. Pewani chakudya chodetsedwa komanso mazuti osapambana, koma mwanayo amakula bwino. Kawirikawiri zimatenga nthawi yaitali kuti zivutike, chifukwa kumayambiriro kwa chitukuko mwanayo mwiniwake amakhala ndi chidwi ndi dziko lozungulira. Iye amayesera kuphunzira ndi kuyesa chirichonse mu moyo wake, motero adzafunanso kudya yekha.
Zoona, musapange kulakwitsa kwakukulu kwina - kutembenuza supuni mu chidole. Chidwi cha zinthu zomwe mwanayo amayesa kuchita nthawi zonse, nthawi zina zakudya zimapezeka mu chipinda chake, kumene sizingatheke. Mavuto ngati amenewa ayenera kuimitsidwa, kuwafotokozera ana zomwe ziri zoyenera kuchita ndi izi kapena nkhaniyi. Si zophweka kuchita izi, makamaka akadakali aang'ono, ngati mwaphonya mphindi ino, makolo anu adzakumana ndi kusamvetsetsana, mwinamwake ngakhale kukwiya. Kuwonjezera pa chikondi chawo chokwanira, anthu apamtima adzatha kulera mwana molondola.
Ngati, pakapita nthawi, sizingatheke kuti ana azikhala okhaokha, moyo udzakhala wovuta kwambiri. Kudya mwanayo kumafuna nthawi zambiri, chifukwa amadziwa kuti makolo akamudyetsa chakudya amamupatsa chakudya. Sikofunika nthawi zonse kulanga, koma mungangonena kuti mutha kukhala okoma, mwachitsanzo, madzi a chilengedwe, ndi manja anu. Pochita izi, ndikwanira kukonzekera osati chakudya chokhacho chimene mwana adya, komanso chinthu chochititsa chidwi. Inde, adzafuna kulandira, ndipo panthawi imeneyo ndikofunikira kuyika "funso". Sikovuta kuchita izi, popeza mwanayo wayamba kale kudyetsedwa, ndipo kukana mbale sikumuvulaza. Kotero, pamene mwana akufuna kuti akhale "okoma", amadzipangira yekha. Pakapita nthawi, zidzakhala chizoloŵezi ndipo zidzakhudza zakudya zonse.
Mwinamwake izi ndi chipangizo chovuta, koma chimangokhala ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu mu maphunziro. Nthawi zonse muziyang'anitsitsa, kuti musalole kuti zinthu zitheke, zomwe zingakhudze khalidwe la ana. Si zophweka kuchita izi, chifukwa chikondi nthawi zonse chimayesetsa kupita kunja ndi kumulandira mwanayo. Dzichepetseni nokha, mwinamwake zotsatira zake zidzakhala zosasangalatsa.