Ndipo kokha, pazifukwa zina, chiwonetserocho chinalengedwa kuti zonse ziribe kanthu, mdima wolimba, wopanda umunthu. Ngakhale kuphatikiza kwa zinthu zokongola sizinapange chithunzi chojambula. Kenaka ndinaganizira za momwe angaphunzitsire mwana kuvala mwaluso komanso mwamasewera.
Choyamba, ndinafunika kudziwa zomwe ndikufuna. Ndipotu kukongola ndi kalembedwe sizomwezo. Pamasamba a magazini a mafashoni ndi maulendo a m'madera akuluakulu a mafashoni, pali zitsanzo zabwino kwambiri. Koma kalembedwe kamangowoneka, kapena sichiwoneka, pamene zovala kuchokera pa siteji zimatsogolera kumoyo. Choncho, kalembedwe imatanthauzidwa ndi mawonekedwe a maonekedwe mokwanira, otchulidwa mwachindunji.
Kukwanitsa kuvala mwaluso komanso mwakongoletsera ndi luso lomwe likufunika kuti liphunzire. Chilengedwe chingakupatseni kukoma kokoma, kuthekera kusiyanitsa pakati pa zokongola, koma kukhoza kusankha kuchokera kokongola ndi nokha, kumapanga kuchokera ku osankhidwa omwe, omwe angagwirizane nanu - nkhani yodziwa, kuchita ndi chikhumbo chosatha. Izi zikufotokozera kuti ndikosavuta kukumana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wovala bwino pakati pa anthu akuluakulu kuposa achinyamata. Kwa zaka zambiri, kudzidalira kumabwera, munthuyo amadziwa yemwe iye ali, zomwe akufuna, ndi zomwe zasinthidwa ndi chizindikiro cha fano lake.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti sizingatheke kuti muphunzitse mwanayo mwachidwi. Ndipo kuphunzira sikuli kosiyana kwambiri ndi zina.
Kumveka kwa kukongola, kalembedwe ndi maonekedwe abwino, popanda kukongola kulikonse komwe kumafalikira, kukulumikizana m'banja. Kuyambira ali wamng'ono, mwanayo ayenera kukhala waukhondo, woyera, zovala ziyenera kugwirizana ndi mtundu, nsalu zomangira, kupanga chiphatikizidwe. Ngati mwanayo amavala zovala zomwe zimakhala pa chipinda chochokera pamwamba, osasamala kwambiri thukutayo kapena ayi, kuti atsimikizire kuti mwanayo sangakwanitse kuvala monga choncho, sizikhala zosavuta. Monga mwazonse, mukhoza kubwereza chiphunzitso cha chikhalidwe nthawi zikwi zambiri, koma ngati simutsatira mfundo zodziwika nokha, sipadzakhalanso nzeru kuchokera kumangidwe oterowo. Ana amaphunzira chirichonse mwazochitikira ngakhale mosasamala za zochitika za makolo awo omwe. Choncho, phunziro labwino kwambiri la momwe mungaphunzitsire mwana wanu kuvala bwino komanso mwaluso, zomwe mungamuphunzitse - kukhala chitsanzo. Vomerezani, phunziro losangalatsa kwambiri.
Paunyamata, ana amakhala "osasamala." Amayesetsa kutsutsana ndi akuluakulu, kutsimikizira ufulu wawo komanso ufulu wawo. Pofuna kukwaniritsa zolingazi, njira zonse, kuphatikizapo maonekedwe, zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mosasamala. Odziwika ndi kuvala chinthu chosaganizirika ndi chophweka kusiyana ndi zochita ndi luso lapadera, nthawi zambiri ana amasankha mwambo wapadera. Makolo ena samaona mozama maonekedwe a ana, ena, omwe amawongolera, amatsutsa mwakhama kuyesa kudziwonetsera okha. Njira zonsezi sizipereka zotsatira zabwino. Kusayanjanitsa sikudzaphunzitsa chirichonse, ndipo kukanidwa kumangowonjezera chikhumbo chokaniza.
Njira yabwino ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa achinyamata. Inde, zitsanzo zambiri za achinyamata ndizokongola, zachilendo komanso zosavuta. Atatha kusewera ali mwana, atadziyesera yekha m'machitidwe ndi machitidwe osiyanasiyana, mpaka ku machitidwe osiyana kwambiri a achinyamata (emo, punks, metalheads, goths), zimakhala zosavuta kuti mwanayo alowe pakati pa golide. Ndipo mungathenso kumvetsetsa bwanji, chinthu chanu kapena ayi, popanda kuyesera, osayesa komanso osadzimva nokha.
Fotokozerani kwa mnyamatayo kuti, kutsanzira ndi kufunafuna chinthu, monga wina aliyense, iye amakhala gawo la anthu, amatayika umunthu wake. Koma musamaumirire nokha, ngati mwanayo akutsutsanabe. Pa msinkhu uno, pokhala gawo la khamulo kuli kozizira. Khalani bwino limodzi, khalani ndi chidwi ndi zatsopano za mafashoni a achinyamata, muzikambirana nawo, mutenge maulendo ogula limodzi, mupatseni mwanayo ufulu wosankha, koma fotokozani momwe mungasankhire bwino kapena bwino. Pambuyo pake, amatsanzira makolo, ngakhale kuti sangavomereze iwo okha pa chilichonse.
Sizowonjezereka kuti mutenge nawo chikhalidwe. Zosangalatsa, nyimbo, zisudzo zimapanga dziko lonse lapansi ndi kulawa. Pitani ku museums ndi mawonetsero, pitani ku cinema, kambiranani zomwe mwawona.
Nkhani zamakono, intaneti, televizioni zimakhala ndi zambiri zokhudzana ndi mafashoni komanso kuvala bwino. Gulani magazini a achinyamata. Atsikana ndi atsikana onse amawawerengera mokwatulidwa ndikutsatira malangizo. Lembani ubongo wachinyamata kuti mudziwe zambiri. Ngati simunena kapena kuphunzitsa kanthu kena ka chikhalidwe cha zovala, mwanayo adakali ndi lingaliro. Kupanga kokha kudzakhala msewu, ndipo sizitsanzo zowoneka bwino kwambiri.
Ndipo komabe, kalembedwe kamapangidwa ndi zomveka, trivia ndi Chalk. Makolo, omwe ubwana wawo unatuluka mu nthawi yunifolomu yeniyeni ya sukulu, amatchula zovala zovala zokongoletsera. Ndizofunika kwambiri komanso zothandiza. Zimakuvutani kumvetsetsa kufunika koti mitundu yonse ya mabasiketi, mabakiketi, zikwama zazing'ono ndi zokongoletsera zamakono. Koma yesetsani kumvetsetsa. Sikoyenera kuchita chilichonse, koma mwana aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi "mfumukazi".
Moni, ngati muwona kuti mwanayo akuchita chinachake. Mlimbikitseni, musati muzindikire mawonekedwe ena atsopano. Musafuule kuti: "Chotsani nthawi yomweyo!" Yesetsani kufotokoza chifukwa chake ndizo zomwe mwana wanu akufuna kuti aziwonetsera. Mu mkangano (osati mu mkangano!) Choonadi chabadwa. Pambuyo pokambirana ndi inu zenizeni za mawonekedwe anu, mutamvetsera malingaliro anu anzeru, ndizotheka kuti maganizo a mwana wokhudzana ndi mawonekedwe ake odabwitsa adzasintha. Ndipo nthawi yotsatira iye adzavala mosiyana.
Kusamala ndi kuleza mtima. Monga mukuonera, zofanana ndi sayansi zina zonse.