Kodi mungapeze bwanji zosangalatsa zodzikongoletsa? Nkhaniyi ikuonetsa njira ziwiri zofunira, zomwe sizili ndi ufulu wokha, komanso zidzakuthandizani kudziwa zambiri. Kuzigwiritsa ntchito, mungathe kudzidziwa nokha, kusintha mkhalidwe wanu komanso kukhala munthu wokondweretsa kwambiri pambuyo pake, yemwe ndi wokondweretsa kulankhulana naye ndikumagwiritsa ntchito. Ndipo izi zidzakupatsani zabwino zambiri m'moyo wanu, ntchito ndi zina.
- Sabata iliyonse yatsopano (mwezi) yambani kuyambanso kujambula. Sankhani mwachangu mwachangu - mwachitsanzo, poking pang'onopang'ono mu nyuzipepala ndi chala chanu. Ndikofunika kwambiri kutenga zochitika zoterezi, zomwe simungathe kuganiza kuti tsiku lina mudzakhala ngati mukuchita. Mwa ichi mumapanga malire anu ndipo mungapeze matalidwe osadziwika.
Tanthauzo la njirayi ndikuti mukuchita chinachake chatsopano kwa sabata (mwezi), osasiya zodzikongoletsa zakale. Pankhaniyi, sabata yonse, yesetsani kutengeka ndi bizinesiyi. Chinthu chochepa cha ntchitoyi ndi chakuti mungathe kukambirana pa mutu uwu. Pambuyo kudzifunsa nokha funso - kodi mukufuna kupitiriza kuchita izi? Ngati yankho liri "inde" pitirizani. Ngati "ayi" - yambani yatsopano.
Choncho, m'chaka mungayese zinthu zambiri zomwe mumakonda kuchita ndikupeza chinthu chamtengo wapatali. Mulimonsemo, nthawi yogwiritsira ntchito "chiyembekezo cholungama" sichingotayika nthawi. Ntchito yamkuntho yotereyi idzakuthandizani kwambiri kusintha kwanu komanso chidwi chanu chonse. Komanso, mungathe kuthandizira mosavuta zokambiranazo pamtanda uliwonse, kumene mungakambirane za zokondweretsa. Zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mudziwe bwino, komanso kuti mupeze chinenero chimodzi ndi anthu osiyanasiyana, chifukwa mutha kukhala ndi mitu yambiri yokambirana.
- Talingalirani mozama moyo wanu mu mawonekedwe a nyumba.
Maziko ake ndi makolo anu, achibale anu, mabwenzi achikulire ndi zakale zomwe zili kale ndi inu, chidziwitso chanu chonse, zosangalatsa zanu ndi maluso anu.
Makoma a nyumbayo ndi banja lanu (mwamuna, mkazi, ogwira nawo ntchito, abwenzi), izi ndi zowona komanso zolinga zanu zonse. Kwa wina, makoma sangakhale banja, koma ntchito, bizinesi kapena china. Ngakhale ngati mulibe banja kapena bizinesi, ganizirani.
Denga la nyumba ndi tsogolo lanu (ana, penshoni, bizinesi yokhazikika kapena akaunti ya banki). Ndiko, chomwe chingateteze ndi kuwunikira tsogolo lanu.
Kenaka, ganizirani mkati mwake kudzaza nyumba ndi kukongoletsa kunja.
Zomwe zili mkati mwa nyumba ndizodziko lanu la uzimu ndi katundu amene munaphunzira pa moyo wanu. Laibulale ya mabuku ndi mabuku omwe mukuwerenga, alumali ndi disks ndi mafilimu omwe munawona ndi zina zotero.
Kukongoletsa kunja kwa nyumba ndi luso lanu lonse, luso ndi zokondweretsa. Ichi ndi chinachake chimene mungasonyeze kapena kuuza anthu. Zofuna zanu zonse, zopindula, mphoto ndi luso, ndizo zonse zomwe mungakondwere nazo.
Pambuyo pake, ganizirani mozama zomwe zikusoweka m'nyumba ya maloto anu.
Kapena tiyerekeze kuti maloto anu ndi banja lamphamvu, okondwa, mwamuna (mkazi) ndi gulu la ana, ndipo tsopano muli ndi makolo okha. Pachifukwachi zimakhalapo - muli ndi maziko ndipo, mwinamwake, mkati ndi kunja, muli m'nyumba yopanda makoma ndi denga pabwalo lopanda kanthu. Pachifukwa ichi, mphamvu zanu ziyenera kuyendetsedwa ku ntchito ndi luso lomwe lidzakufikitsani pafupi ndi cholinga, nyumba ya maloto anu. Izi zidzakhala "zokonda" zanu, zomwe mumakonda kuchita.
Pambuyo pake, muvomerezana, ndi zopusa kuchita zinthu zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi zolinga zanu zokha, komanso zimasokoneza zomwe achita. Izi zimachitika mwanjira imeneyi, mumaganiza kuti nthawi yothetsera cholinga ikuchoka ndipo tikufunika kulimbitsa mphamvu zonse kuti tikwaniritse. Ndipo mmalo mwa kukwaniritsa cholinga chachikulu, inu mumakhutitsidwa ndi kugonjetsedwa kwake, mukusinthanitsa ndi zochepa. Amapereka moyo wonse pazinthu zochepa zochepetsera. Choncho, kuti musachoke ku zenizeni, zokondweretsa ziyenera kuyesedwa nthawi zonse kudzera mu ndondomeko ya malingaliro ake. Zosangalatsa siziyenera kusokoneza moyo wanu ndipo palibe chifukwa choti mulowe m'malo mwa makhalidwe abwino monga banja ndi zina zotero.
Kuzindikiritsa cholingachi tsopano ndi sitepe yayikulu kuchitapo kanthu. Zosangalatsa sizilizonse zomwe zimakhala pamakoma a nyumbayo. Chizoloŵezi chanu chimakhala samenti kapena njerwa, zomwe mudzamangire banja lanu, ndiko kuti, makoma a nyumbayo. Mwachitsanzo, mungatengedwe ndi psychology ya ubale wa banja, ndikuyamba kukonza luso la chibwenzi ndi kuyankhula ndi amuna kapena akazi. Ndikhulupirire, pa njira iyi muli zikwi zambiri zomwe muyenera kuzidziwa ndikuziganizira. Kuphunzira dera lino, mudzachita zonse zomwe zingatheke pa njira yolumikizana ndidzidzimwini, m'malo mopitirira ulendo wamoyo.
Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti amadziwa zonse zokhudza ubale ndi moyo wa banja. Iwo amaganiza choncho-pamene ndikumana ndi moyo wanga wokondedwa, chirichonse chidzayenda mwabwino koposa. Panthawiyi, maubwenzi a nthawi yaitali omwe amapanga maziko a moyo wa banja amafunika kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse ndikukhazikitsa luso lawo.
Mukapeza ntchito kapena zosangalatsa zomwe mukuganiza kuti zikulongosola mbali yaikulu ya moyo wanu, nthawi zambiri mumayandikira kuti mudziwe bwino luso lonse ndi luso. Moyo wa banja, komanso ubale wautali, umafunikanso chidwi. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kukhazikitsa banja lolimba, m'pofunika kuchitira izi ngati ntchito yovuta komanso yovuta. Ndikhulupirire, kuchokera ku ntchito yanu mu nkhaniyi, padzakhala zambiri zoti muzidalira. Musalole kuti zinthu zoterezi ziziyenda okha.
Njira ziwiri zofufuzirazi zingagwiritsidwe ntchito palimodzi. Njira yachiwiri imatithandiza kuchepetsa kukula kwa kufufuza, kuzipangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta komanso zowunikira. Njira yoyamba idzakuthandizani kuti mupeze malo odyera kudera lopatsidwa mwachangu, mwachangu, mwachidziwitso chodziŵika.