1. Kuponda
Amuna onse ozoloŵera amazoloŵera kuika masokosi pambali pa bedi, kumasiya mbale zosasamba, kuponyera zovala kuzungulira nyumba ndi zina zotero. Ndipo sitidzakondwera bwanji ndi inu, atsikana okondedwa, ife tikutsutsana ndi izo zopanda mphamvu. Komabe, palinso omwe amapanga chirichonse mosiyana. Amasamalira zinthu zonse mosamala, amatsatira dongosololi ndikusamba bwinobwino masentimita atatu pansi. Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti ichi ndi khalidwe labwino. Koma taganizirani izi, osankhidwa anu, osamvetsetseka komanso opambana, pakati pa chilakolako amayamba kuchotsa mosamala zovala zake ndi kumumangirira, m'malo momuponyera pansi ndikupitiriza kukumana ndi inu. Pomwe vuto lake lidzangokuvutitsani. Amuna achizungu akukwiyitsa kwambiri akazi. Zili zodziwika, sizichita zopusa, ndipo chifukwa chake, zimangotopa. Kotero, atsikana, samalani bwino ndi amuna oterewa.
2. Waulesi
Munthu aliyense nthawi zina amakhala waulesi. Izi ndi zachilendo, makamaka kwa amuna. Koma oimira amuna ena ndi aulesi ndi chikhalidwe chawo. Iwo amabwera nthawi zonse kuchokera kuntchito ndikuyesa kuti ali otopa kwambiri ndipo alibe mphamvu iliyonse. Zotsatira zake, zimangogwera pa sofa, yambani TV ndikudikirira kuti mtsikana abweretse chakudya, kuyeretsa, kutsuka nsapato, kutsuka ndi kutsitsa malaya. Amuna amenewa samadandaula chifukwa chakuti iwo adatuluka kunja akugwira ntchito, adayima pamzere ku sitolo, adatengera mwanayo ku sukulu ya sukulu, adayima pa chitofu ndipo sadakhalenso ndi nthawi yokhala pansi tsiku limodzi. Anyamatawa angakufunseni kuti mufunse chifukwa chake mwaiwala kugula kusunga mchere, ngakhale kuti anapeza mapaketi atatu a chakudya. Ndipo ngati chinachake chikuphwanyidwa m'nyumba, sizingatheke kuti chikonzedwa. Anthu oterewa angatchedwe "tizilombo". Kotero, atsikana, mulimonsemo, musagwirizanitse moyo wanu ndi amuna achikulire.
3. Zovuta
Pamene mwamuna amapereka banja lake, amabweretsa ndalama kunyumba, ndizodabwitsa komanso mwachibadwa. Koma pamene munthu amapereka nthawi yake yonse kugwira ntchito, amaika poyamba ndikuiwala za banja lake - izi ndi zachilendo. Kawirikawiri, pamene mayi ayamba kukamba za munthu uyu, amadzipangitsa kuti amutonthoza ndi malonjezo: izi ndizokhalitsa, izi zimakhala zothandizira tchuthi, mpaka ndikubwezera ngongole mpaka ndisonkhanitsa ndalama ndi zina zotero. Izi ziyenera kukuchenjezani nthawi yomweyo, atsikana. Chifukwa zidzakhala zoipitsitsa. Wokondedwa wanu adzalandira bar kupitirira komanso apatsanso nthawi yambiri yogwira ntchito. Kotero, musanakwatire bizinesi, munthu wofuna kutchuka ndi dzanja labwino, taganizirani mozama, ndipo kodi mudzakhala okondwa m'banja lino? Ndipotu, mofulumira kwambiri, simudzakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira.
4. Wopandukira
Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mitala ndizochitika mwachibadwa. Koma ngakhale izi, ena a iwo amayang'ana maso athu kufunika kwathu ndikupita ku ofesi yolembera. Amadzipereka okha kugawana chimwemwe ndi chisoni pa moyo wawo wonse. Koma malonjezano, monga lamulo, samaphedwa pambuyo pa ukwati. Kwa amuna ena, zimakhala zovuta kutaya ufulu wawo, choncho amatha kuthamangira wina kumbali. Mukapeza izi, amayamba kuganiza kuti ndi kulakwitsa, kuti izi sizidzachitikanso, kuti ndiwe wonyada chabe. Koma monga momwe amasonyezera, zonse zimadzibwereza zokha. Choncho, pozindikira kuti mwasintha wokondedwa wanu, popanda kukayikira, chokani kwa iye. Kumayambiriro kapena mochedwa adzasintha.
5. Wonyenga
Anthu onse akunyenga. Koma kwa ena ndi matenda enieni, mania. Munthu wonyenga amatha kuthera maola ambiri akukuuzani luso lofotokozera nkhani, zomwe sanachitepo. Kapena kuti amagwira ntchito yophunzira kwakukulu ndi zina zotero. Posakhalitsa, chomaliza, simungathe kumvetsa chinyengo, koma patapita nthawi zingakhale kuti kabati wamkulu ndi komorka, ndipo kuyenda ndi tawuni yapafupi. Choncho, mutangotchula kuti mukunyengedwa, ndi bwino kusiya munthu woteroyo.
6. Amuna aakazi
Amayi ambiri, atakumana ndi munthu wotere, amakhulupirira kuti iyi ndi mphatso yeniyeni ya chiwonongeko. Koma musafulumire kuganiza choncho. Maluwa, maphokoso, zizindikiro-madzimayi obadwira amadziŵa momwe angapangire mkazi kugwidwa ndi chikondi payekha. Koma ma buku ndi anthu oterewa ndi ochepa kwambiri. Amuna awa akhoza kukhala okha ndi wina aliyense. N'zosatheka kuchepetsa thupi. Adzachoka mosayembekezereka pamene adawonekera. Kotero, samalani, atsikana aakazi a "akazi".
7. Wodzikuza
Tonsefe nthawi zina timadzitukumula. Ndipo akazi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kudzikuza kwa amuna ndi chigoba komwe amabisa moyo wawo wovutikira. Koma nthawi zambiri zinthu siziri choncho. Ndipotu, iwo amaoneka ngati amuna. Mnyamata wodzikuza sangakuganizire kuti ndinu ofanana. Nthawi zonse adzakuwonetsani zomwe ziri zabwino kuposa inu komanso ena. Ndi anthu oterewa ndi ovuta kwambiri. Pambuyo pa zonse, uyenera kudziyika pa dongosolo lachiwiri, ngati mukufuna kumusunga. Koma ife ndife atsikana, amuna ayenera kutiyamikira ife ndikutipatsa ife mayamiko, osati mosiyana.
8. "Mnyamata Woipa"
Nyumba zokongola, madzulo otonthoza, nthawi zonse - zonsezi siziri za "anyamata oipa". Iwo adzakondwera kupita ku kampu, adzalandira mowa mu kampani yopuma. Iwo amasangalala ndi zosangalatsa zosadziletsa. Poyamba zimakhala zosangalatsa ndi munthu wotero, koma simuyenera kudalira ubale wolimba ndi iye.
9. Manyazi
Amuna a mtundu uwu amatchedwa ana aamuna kapena asaka. Pambuyo pake, akakhala ndi mkazi, amakhala odwala. Mapeto kumbali imodzi ndi abwino, pamene munthu akwaniritsa zofuna zathu zonse. Koma, atsikana, ganizirani ngati kuli koyenera kuyambitsa chiyanjano ndi anyamata osayamika, otsika komanso osakakamizika. Ndipotu, anyamata osiyana nawo ayenera kuti moyo wathu ukhale wosavuta, wowala, wosangalatsa. Ndipo muzochitika izi muyenera kuchita izo zokwanira, ndipo zosankha pawiri nthawi zonse zimatengedwa mofulumira kapena mochedwa.
10. Zosangalatsa
Amayi ambiri omwe ali ngati anyamata achiwerewere. Iwo ndi osavuta kuyankhulana nawo, nthawizonse amadziwa momwe angasunge zokambiranazo ndipo sachita mantha. Anthu amakopeka nawo. Koma, mwatsoka, chilakolako chofuna kuseka nthawi zonse chimatha kubisa maganizo. Monga lamulo, anthu osangalala akhoza kukhala osakayikira. Chifukwa choyamba chiyanjano ndi munthu wotero, mudzakumana ndi mavuto ambiri. Kodi mumawafuna?
M'nkhaniyi ndinakuuzani za mitundu yambiri ya amuna omwe mukufunikira kupewa maubwenzi aakulu. Koma mulimonsemo, chisankho chidzakhala chanu nthawi zonse. Kotero, ndikukhumba kuti mupeze munthu wotero amene adzakukondani, ndipo ndani adzakonzerani inu ntchito iliyonse chifukwa cha inu.