Malamulo a kunyenga kwa munthu aliyense

Nthawi zambiri mmoyo wathu, tikawona mkazi wokongola kwambiri pafupi ndi munthu wabwino kwambiri, anthu amakhumudwa, akudzifunsa okha ndi ena: "Kodi amapeza chiyani mwa iye?" Ndipo ngati mwamuna uyu ndi mkazi wake, komanso amakhala mosangalala nthawi zonse, sichidziwika bwinobwino chimene iye anayamba kunyengerera, kenako amatha kukhala pafupi, kupanga banja lolimba ndi logwirizana, ngakhale kuti pali atsikana ndi atsikana okongola kwambiri komanso azungu.

Mwinamwake, mkazi uyu ankadziwa malamulo a kunyenga kwa munthu aliyense yemwe anakhalako kalekale. Kuyenera kukumbukira chilumba cha Sirens kuchokera m'buku lakuti "Odyssey", omwe akazi awo adakopeka ndi nyimbo yoyimba ya Odysseus ndi anzake, ndipo atatha kunyengerera, adasungidwa kwa nthawi yaitali pachilumbachi. Chitsanzo china chiri mu filimuyi "Memoirs of Geisha", kumene olemba amasonyeza njira yayitali ndi yovuta yophunzitsa atsikana ang'onoang'ono omwe, atakula, amakhala geisha weniweni. Podziwa malamulo a kunyenga kwa munthu aliyense, izi zimatha kuwonetsa kapena kuimitsa munthu aliyense. Sindikulankhula za abambo, omwe akhoza kunyengerera ngakhale mafumu ndikukhala okondedwa awo. Kotero, chinyengo cha munthu ndi mutu wamuyaya, nthawi zonse ndi m'mayiko onse a dziko lapansi mutuwu ndiwongopeka komanso wosangalatsa kwa amayi onse. Mayi aliyense amafuna kudziwa malamulo amenewa kuti munthu aliyense amvetsere. Kunyenga munthu sikumunyengerera iye. Amuna mwa makhalidwe achilengedwe ndi amuna, motero amapita kumalo amodzi, osagwirizana ndi kugonana. Koma kuti azikumbukira, kumukumbukira, kuti akhale loto lake salipatsidwa kwa mkazi aliyense.

Mndandanda wa Malamulo a chinyengo cha munthu aliyense:

  1. Phunzirani kusamalira thupi lanu: tsiku lililonse tsitsi lanu liyenera kukhala loyera, nkhope yatsopano, yosatopa, ndi kupanga pang'ono potsindika ulemu wake, manja opangidwa ndi manicure, miyendo ndi zidendene zofewa ndi pedicure. Onjezerani kununkhira kofiira kwa mafuta onunkhira kapena madzi onunkhira, ndi bambo pamapazi anu.
  2. Zovala, sungani kalembedwe. Msungwana wa msuzi wachikale (kuvala masiketi nthawi zambiri, izi ndi zokongola kwa amuna) ndi nsapato za masewera ndi mawonekedwe a munthu osokonezeka. Zovala ziyenera kukhala zoyera komanso zotsalira. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, mu zovala zirizonse, yang'anani mkhalidwe wanu, musati muzimva.
  3. Yesani kukhala okonda amuna. Izi zikutanthawuza kuti tisamachitire zoipa, osati kutseka zonse zomwe zingatheke komanso zosatheka. Mwamuna amakonda kukhala ndi chinsinsi mwa mkazi yemwe mkazi ayenera kukhala chinsinsi kwa iye, ndipo pansi pa zovala za zipsyinjo zake iwo amangoganiza pang'ono kuti achoke mu malo oganiza ndi malingaliro. Nthawizonse zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri kulota kuposa kupha maloto ndi zenizeni. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mukhale mgwirizano wofewa, ndikuyenda bwino, nthawi zonse ndikumwetulira mwamuna.
  4. Mayi ayenera kukumbukira kuti ndi mkazi mu zovala ndi khalidwe, komanso wosiyana ndi mwamuna. Ndichidziwitso ichi chomwe chimakopa munthu. Zovala, masiketi, masitomala, zidendene zapamwamba; kuyang'anitsitsa, kutsika pang'ono, kutengera khalidwe, kulera, luso lotsogolera kapena kulimbikitsa zokambirana - ili ndi mndandanda wosakwanira umene anthu akhala akuyamikira, ndipo timaphatikizanso pazinthu za ulemu.
  5. Lemekezani mwamuna mwa mwamuna, nthawi zonse mumupatse mpata woti asonyeze, musamangoganizira zomwe munthuyo ayenera kukuchitirani inu ndi inu: kulipira ngongole, gwirani dzanja pamene mukuchoka, muthandize kuchotsa ndi kuvala zovala zakunja, ndipo makamaka - iye amatenga zisankho ndipo amachititsa udindo kwa iwo.
  6. Palibe mkazi mmodzi amene sanavulazidwe ndi kukonda zachiwerewere. Kugonana ndi masewera. Amuna amakonda kusewera, apatseni mwayi uwu: phunzirani kumvetsera mwamuna wokondweretsedwa, kuthandizira kukambirana, ndipo pamene akuyang'ana m'maso mwake ndikuyang'anitsitsa kwa nthawi yayitali, kumwetulira, khulupirirani, izi ndizovuta kwambiri. Chitanipo choyamba: mwa kumkhudza kokha, thandizani munthu kuti apange sitepe kwa inu. Zizindikiro zonsezi zachangu zimalankhula momveka bwino ponena kuti mukuyembekezera kupitiriza chiyanjano, chifukwa mwamuna samakonda ndipo sakufuna kuganiza zofuna zazimayi.

Akazi okondeka, malamulowa ndi osavuta, kuti molimba mtima mungathe kunena kuti mudzakhala bwino.