Nchifukwa chiyani ana ena amadziwa bwino kwenikweni ntchentche, pamene ena amafunika kubwereza chinthu chomwecho nthawi zambiri? Nchiyani chimatsimikizira kulingalira kwanzeru ndi msinkhu wa luntha la mwanayo? Kuchokera pa liwiro la kulingalira, luso loganiza mwachidziwikire, kuthetsa mavuto m'madera osiyanasiyana, kuphunzira ndi kufufuza zatsopano. Monga lamulo, zopanga zoterezi zatsimikiziridwa kuti zamoyo. Asayansi amakhulupirira kuti pa msinkhu wokhala ndi umoyo, 70% mwa luso la mwanayo amapatsidwa pafupipafupi. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti sangathe kupangidwa. Ndiponsotu, otsala 30% otsalafe tili nawo! Ndiye mungatani kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro abwino kwa mwana?
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Mayi wotani sakufuna kuthetsa moyo wa sukulu wa mwanayo. Ndiye kodi tingachite chiyani kwa achinyamata achikulire? Choyamba, aphunzitseni kugwiritsa ntchito zosungirako zawo.
Chilengedwe chadalitsa anthu ndi mphatso yaikulu kwambiri - kuthekera kukumbukira. Pali mitundu inayi yokumbukira:
✓ zooneka (zimatsogolera kuloweza pamaso nkhope, mitundu, mawonekedwe, zithunzi zooneka);
✓ kumveka-kumveka (kumathandiza kuti agwirizane ndi kulimbikitsa uthenga womveka);
✓ magalimoto (kukumbukira kusuntha);
✓ maganizo (amakulolani kuti mutenge maganizo, zochitika ndi zochitika zofanana).
Kuti mukwaniritse zotsatira zabwino mukamaphunzira zinthu zatsopano kwa ana a sukulu zingakhale bwino kuti mugwiritse ntchito mitundu yonseyi ya kukumbukira nthawi yomweyo. Koma momwe mungakwaniritsire izi?
Chikumbukiro cha mawonekedwe ndicho chinthu chosadalirika kwambiri. Ngati simukumanga zolumikiza zomveka pamutu mwanu, mukhoza kubwereza mobwerezabwereza, koma tsiku lotsatira kuchokera kwa ophunzirira sipadzakhalanso tsatanetsatane. Kuti mukumbukire kanthu kalikonse, ndikofunikira kupeza tanthawuzo, kudzipatula chinthu chachikulu. Achinyamata ali kale ndi chidziwitso chabwino komanso zodziwa bwino, choncho sangavutike kufanana ndi mafano, zochitika, zenizeni zomwe zasungidwa pamutu, ndikuyang'ana mabwenzi. Komanso, alangizeni mwanayo kuti amvetsere mmene amamvera. Mufunseni kuti: "Kodi mumamva bwanji mutamva za izi?" Msonkhano umodzi wokhala ndi maganizo osiyanasiyana udzatha kuwathandiza. Tsiku lotsatira, mu sabata mwana adzakhala kosavuta kukumbukira ichi kapena chidziwitso.
Kuti "atsitsimutse" mafano, ndiwothandiza kuwamasulira. Chilendochi chimakhala chachilendo kwambiri, ndipo chinthucho chidzakumbukira kwambiri. Kumbukirani ma alfabeti oyambirira, malinga ndi zomwe ana adziŵa zilembozo. Ambiri mwa iwo, makalata amawonetsedwa ngati nyama ndi zinthu. Izi zimakuthandizani kumanga mayanjano ndikuyamikila kuti mulowe mwamsanga kalata. Njira yomweyi ingagwiritsidwe ntchito komanso anyamata achikulire. Mwachitsanzo, kwa quatrain iliyonse kapena ndime ya bukhuli mu bukhu, limasonyeza zolemba zochepa zojambula. Nsonga yotereyi ikhoza kukhala yothandiza kwambiri.
Sizovuta kwambiri kuphunzira kukumbukira masiku. Kuti tichite izi, manambala ofunika koma oumawo ayenera kukhala okhudzana ndi ziwerengero zomwe "zimatizinga" tsiku ndi tsiku: nambala ya nyumba, nyumba, tsiku la kubadwa kwa achibale, pansi, telefoni ndi zina zotero. Ndondomeko iliyonse yosayenerera nkhaniyi ikukumbukiridwa mosavuta kusiyana ndi zowuma. Mwachitsanzo, pafupifupi tonsefe tinachokera mu ubwana mawu oti "Wosaka aliyense akufuna kudziwa komwe pheasant akukhala" ndipo akuyang'anabe, akumbukira mitundu ya utawaleza. Ndipo pankhani yokhudza mavoti, aliyense amangokhalira kukumbukira malemba omwe aphunzitsi a Chirasha amawauza kuti: "Ivan anabala mtsikana, adalamulidwa kuti atenge chikwama", komwe Ivan ndilo dzina loti, ndi zina zotero.
Mfundo ina yofunika kwambiri. Mukapempha wophunzira kuti alowe pamtima chinachake, yesetsani kupanga zolinga zabwino kwa iye, mwachitsanzo: gome la kuchulukitsa lidzafunika tsiku lirilonse, chifukwa ndilokunyoza pamene mukunyozedwa m'sitolo. Kapena: Mtsikana aliyense angakonde mnyamata yemwe amadziwa tsitsi la Shakespeare. Ganizirani za zomwe zingasangalatse mwanayo, zidzamukondweretsa.
PADZIKO LANU PA ZINTHU ZANU
Kuti athandize mwanayo kukonzekera kuganiza bwino, akuluakulu ayenera kusamalira chitukuko chake chonse. Ndipotu kuthamanga n'kofunikanso! Kukula kwa thupi kumagwirizana mwachindunji ndi malingaliro. Ntchito yofunika kwambiri imasewera ndi zakudya. Kuperewera kwa mavitamini ndi kufufuza zinthu kumachepetsetsa IQ! Makhalidwe abwino mu banja, nyengo yachisangalalo mu sukulu imapangitsa kuti pakhale dongosolo la mitsempha ndi kukulitsa kuti mwana athe kuzindikira zatsopano. Pangani mwana wanu chilengedwe chachonde si chovuta kwambiri. Kuphatikiza pa maphunziro a sukulu, pali maphunziro ambiri othandiza ndi othandiza pa chitukuko cha nzeru. Mupatseni buku labwino kwa achinyamata, pemphani iye ku malo owonetsera masewero, pemphani kuti apite ku Golden Ring, mumupemphe kuti athandizidwe ndi uphungu muzovuta. Cholinga cha makolo ndikuwulula Munthuyo mwa munthu!
KUCHITA, KUYAMBA
Pali chiwerengero chosayerekezeka cha masewera omwe angapangitse kulingalira kwa mwana woganiza bwino. Posachedwa wamkazi wanga anapatsidwa mafunso aakulu a banja la tsiku lake lobadwa, lomwe lingathe kuseweredwe pa zaka zonse - kuyambira zaka 6 mpaka 99. Iwo ankasewera banja lonse masiku angapo motsatira ndipo anasangalala kwambiri! Aliyense wabweretsa chinachake chatsopano kwa iyemwini. Mungathe kukhala ndi masewera ambiri, ndipo popanda kugwiritsa ntchito zipangizo zina. Amakumbukira bwino kwambiri masewera ophweka "piggy banki." Pamene munthu akugwira nawo ntchito, ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kusewera. Wopewera woyamba amachitcha mawu aliwonse, mnansi wake akuwonjezera ake, ndi zina zotero. Mwachitsanzo: Ndikuyika ndalama mubokosi la ndalama. Ndipo ine ndikuyika ndalama ndi nyumba mu bokosi la ndalama. Ndipo ine ndinaika ndalama, nyumba ndi mphanda mu bokosi la ndalama. Amagwetsera amene adzakhale woyamba kugwetsa. Wopambana amapeza mphoto! Aliyense amadziwa masewera omwe amachitika ndi mibadwo yambiri m'mizinda. Kuphatikiza pa zopindulitsa zoonekeratu za kukula kwa kukumbukira ndi erudition, zimathandizanso kukhala ndi nthawi yayikulu. Zimathandizanso pa chitukuko ndi ntchito yosangalatsa, monga kuthetsa maphunzilo ndi mayesero.
KODI MWANA WANU WAKUKHALA NDI LOGICAL?
Perekani mwanayo papepala ndi pensi ndipo fotokozani kuti mukufuna kuona m'mene akukumbukira mawu awa: "Ndiyankhula, ndipo mwamsanga mutenge chithunzi pa mawu aliwonse." Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti chikufanana ndi mawu. Pogwiritsa ntchito pamtima, mawu ndi mawu 10-12 amaperekedwa: galimoto, katsamba, nkhalango yamdima, tsiku, masewera okondwerera, chisanu, mwana wonyansa, nyengo yabwino, munthu wamphamvu, chilango, nthano zosangalatsa. Mawu otsatirawa amalankhulidwa pamene chojambula choyamba chiri okonzeka. Fotokozani kuti mukusowa chithunzi chomwe chikufanana ndi mawu, osati chinthu chobwezeretsa. Mukamaliza ntchitoyi, tengani zithunzizo. Pambuyo pa ola limodzi ndi theka, ndikuwonetsani zojambulazo, funsani zomwe adanena. Ngati mwanayo sakumbukira bwino, funsani mafunso. Kusamvetsetsa tanthauzo la mayesero pakujambula kumaiwala mawu opatsidwa. Pa nthawi yomweyi, zithunzi ndi zazikulu komanso zowonjezereka. Kukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro kwa ana otere sikukwanika mokwanira. Ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, nthawizina mwana amakoka ndikukumbukira mawu, koma kenako sangathe kubereka. Mlingo woterewu ndi wovomerezeka ngati alipo osachepera miyezi isanu ndi umodzi asanapite kusukulu. Gwiritsani ntchito ntchito kuti mukhale ndi luso la wophunzira wam'tsogolo. Ngati pangokhala miyezi imodzi yokha kapena miyezi iŵiri yophunzira, angakhale ndi vuto kukumbukira nkhaniyo. Mwanayo ayenera kusiyanitsa mawu kuchokera ku chinthu chomwe chimaphatikizapo. Mufunseni kuti ayankhe funsoli: "Ndi mawu ati omwe ndi awa: pensulo - pensulo, mphutsi - njoka, masharubu, mphaka - ng'ombe?" Musanayambe ntchitoyo, onetsetsani kuti mukufotokoza kuti mawuwo si chinthu. Ikhoza kulembedwa, koma osati kudyedwa, kusunthidwa, kukhudza. Ngati mwanayo sasiyana pakati pa mawu ndi chinthucho, ndiye kuti adzasankha mogwirizana ndi maonekedwe (njoka ndi yaitali kuposa nyongolotsi). Mwana wamba yemwe amaphunzitsidwa nthawi zambiri amapereka yankho lolondola. Angathe kufotokoza kuti m'mawu akuti "makalata ambiri".