Kufunika kokakamiza
Ana ayenera kulingalira. Chifukwa cha malingaliro, mwanayo amayamba kuganiza ndi kuphunzitsa tudole ubongo, womwe umayambitsa zogwiritsa ntchito. Ngati izi sizikuchitika, munthuyo amakula mokwanira, sangathe kupanga china chatsopano. Izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kuzinthu zonse zolemba, ndi sayansi, sayansi. Ngati mwanayo adakali mwana, sangathe kupitirira zomwe amadziwa, zomwe amadziwa kale. Ndichifukwa chake malingaliro ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa ana. Ndipo popanda chikhulupiriro mu zozizwitsa, sitingathe kulingalira. Pamene aganiza chinachake, ayenera kutsimikizira. Ngati sakhulupirira, ndiye kuti chidwi cha mwanayo chidzatha. Ndicho chifukwa chake ana ayenera kukhulupirira zozizwitsa.
Mwana sangathe kukhumudwa ndi zomwe anyamata ake amatha kuchita, kuti Chaka Chatsopano, Santa Claus abweretse mphatso. Pamene mwanayo amasewera, amaimira momwe ana ake amachitira zinthu, amagwira ntchito. Saganizira za kuchita zonse m'malo mwa iwo. M'malo mwake, mwanayo amakhulupirira kuti zimathandiza, chifukwa matsenga sangathe kuwonedwa nthawi zonse. Ngati makolo sagwirizana kwambiri ndi ana kuti zozizwitsa zilipo, ana sangathe kuchita chidwi ndi masewera. Ndipotu, m'mayesero mwanayo adawona abwenzi ake, ndipo pakadakhala kuti, abwenzi palibe, kotero safuna kuwonanso nthawi yowonjezera pa iwo. Zozizwitsa ndi zozizwitsa ndizofunikira kuti mwanayo akule bwino, komanso akugwirizana.
Makolo ena amakhulupirira molakwika kuti ana ayenera kukonzekera zenizeni za moyo, kotero kuti pambuyo pake adzasokonezeka. Koma ngati mutachotsa mwanayo chikhulupiliro cha zozizwitsa, ndiye kuti pamodzi ndi ziwanda mumutenga kuchokera kwa iye ndi chidwi ndi zinthu zambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mwana wamng'ono nthawi zonse amawerengedwa mwatsatanetsatane. Amalowa mudziko lawo lamatsenga ndipo ali ndi chidwi. Vitoga mwanayo akufunabe kuphunzira kuwerenga, kukhala m'dziko la zodabwitsa popanda makolo. Ngati mwanayo samakhulupirira zozizwitsa, ndiye kuti sakuwona tanthauzo la kuwerenga. Akuluakuluwa amawerenga kuti amasangalale ndi syllable yabwino, kuwonetsa kalembedwe katsopano, kungosangalala, kuseka ndi zina zotero. Ana amawerengedwa kuti akhale m'dziko la zamatsenga, kuti apeze zomwe zozizwitsa zina zikhoza kuchitika. Ngati zozizwitsa izi sizikuwakonda, ana samatenga zaknigi ndi zojambulajambula, koma zojambulajambulazi zimathandiza ana kukula mozama, kuphunzitsa mfundo zoyenera ndi zina zotero. Ngati mwanayo sakufuna kuyang'ana katoto, chifukwa zonse siziri zenizeni ndipo chifukwa chomwecho sichiwerenga bukuli, ndiye kuti amakana pafupifupi mitundu yonse ya maphunziro akadali wamng'ono. Mfundo yakuti makolo adzamuphunzitsa kuwerengera ndi kulemba sizotsutsana ndi chitukuko chomwe ana amalandira mwaulere, kugwera m'magulu amatsenga.
Chifukwa cha chikhulupiliro cha matsenga, mwanayo amakula kwambiri, amayesa kudziyimira kuti adziwe kukula kwake, kuti apeze matsenga m'moyo. Ena amakulira mu kuya kwa moyo ndikukhulupiliranso kuti matsenga alipo. Ndipo mwa ichi palibe chowopsya ndi chowopsya, mosiyana, chifukwa cha chikhulupiriro mu chozizwitsa, munthu ali ndi chiyembekezo chochuluka pa chirichonse chomwe chimachitika ndipo sasiya, chifukwa amadziwa: pamapeto pake zonse zidzakhala bwino.
Ndi chiyani iye, dziko lopanda zodabwitsa kwa ana?
Makolo omwe ali ofunitsitsa kuti ana awo akule mudziko lenileni saganizira kuti ndi nkhanza kwa mwana wamng'ono. Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zimachokera mmenemo, zomwe zimakhala zovuta kuti mwana wachinyamata wamaphunziro akale azivutika. Ndipo ngati chinachake choopsa chikuchitika, yang'anani wogwiritsa ntchito yemwe amakhulupirira zozizwitsa, ndiye adzatha kupereka zozizwitsa zodabwitsa za chitukuko cha zochitika, zomwe zidzalongosola kuti zenizeni, sizinthu zonse zovuta monga zikuwonekera. Koma kwa ana omwe sakhulupirira zozizwitsa, njira imeneyi siilinso.
Makolo ena pazifukwa zina amakhulupirira kuti kukhulupirira zamatsenga ngati mwana, munthu amakhala kosatha m'dziko lopanda nzeru ndipo sangathe kuvomereza chenicheni. Ndipotu, ndi maphunziro abwino, kudziwa zambiri, munthuyo amayamba kumvetsa kuti palibe dziko lozizwitsa, dziko lofulumira. Koma akukula, amasiyira moyo wake gawo laling'ono la chiyembekezo cha zozizwitsa, zomwe zimamuthandiza kuona kuti zenizeni zedi zedi kusiyana ndi omwe akukhalitsa okha. Choncho, palibe chowopsya komanso chowopsya chifukwa chakuti mwanayo amakhulupirira vchudo. M'malo mwake, chikhulupiriro ichi chimateteza ana ku zovuta zambiri. Akakhala m'dziko lamatsenga, zoopsa zonse zimawoneka ngati zoopsa kwambiri, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti zimakhala zophweka kuti mwana apulumuke.
M'nthano ndi nthano, zimanenedwa kuti munthu ayenera kukhala wolimba mtima, wamphamvu ndi wanzeru, ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala wolungama kwa anthu abwino. Choncho kuyandikira dziko lamatsenga, ana, mmalo mosiyana, phunzirani malamulo ndi mfundo zomwe zingathandize nthawi zonse pamoyo. Koma ngati izi sizikuchitika, mwanayo akhoza kukhumudwa ndi zenizeni, kukula kwake kutsekedwa, safuna kuyandikira kwa anthu, mwankhanza. Anthu ena amavutika kuti akhulupirire, koma nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti khalidwe lotero limakhala chifukwa cha kusakhala kwa matsenga kuyambira ali mwana. Zakale ife timalowa mu zenizeni, zimakhala zovuta kuti ife tizindikire izo. Dziko lathu liri kutali kwambiri kuposa momwe ife tikufunira. Ndicho chifukwa chake sizingakhale bwino kuti ana athe kuthana ndi zenizeni za moyo posachedwa. Kufika pa msinkhu wina, iwo amafunikira kuti awone zonse zenizeni ndi zamatsenga. Mofananamo, n'zosavuta kuti ana ang'onoang'ono afotokoze chinachake kuchokera kumatsenga.
Mphamvu ya maphunziro ya matsenga
Ngati mwana amakhulupirira zozizwitsa ndi zamatsenga, zimakhala zosavuta kubweretsa. Mwachitsanzo, ana sangamvere makolo awo, chifukwa amadziwa kuti amakhululukidwabe ngakhale atayambanso. Koma mwanayo angaganizire za khalidwe lake akamamuuza kuti Santa Claus samabweretsa mphatso kwa ana oipa. Ana samakhala ndi nkhawa zambiri zokhudza zidole zawo, amawang'amba ndi kuwatsitsa, koma khalidwe lawo limasintha kwathunthu, pamene makolo akunena kuti tizilombo tili amoyo ndipo zimatipweteka akamatichitira zimenezi. Kumbukirani kuti ana ang'onoang'ono sadziwa malingaliro a zachuma, mavuto ndi kotero, koma iwo amatha kale kumva chifundo kwa amoyo. Ndicho chifukwa chake, kumayambiriro kwa zaka, mumakonda kugwiritsa ntchito matsenga, kuti muyamwitse mwana kuchita choipa.
Choncho, ngati mukuyankhabe funsoli: kodi ndi bwino kuti mwanayo akhulupirire zozizwitsa, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kunena "inde", chifukwa ana amafunika kuti aganizire nthawi zonse kuti akhalenso ndikutha kuganiza kunja kwa bokosi.