Mu moyo, pafupifupi chirichonse chingachitike, koma zinthu zingapo zimamenya kwambiri kuposa kuperekedwa kwa wokondedwa. Kukankhira munthu payekha kungakhumudwitse mnzanuyo, ukwati, ndi zina. Kawirikawiri zimanenedwa pazochitika zotere kuti munthu sangathe kutetezedwa kwathunthu ku izi. Komabe, kusakhulupirika kwaukwati kungapewe.
Motani? Kwa funso ili, mwatsoka, palibe malangizo amodzi ndi oona omwe amatsimikiziridwa kuti athandize kupulumutsa ukwati ndikuletsa kusintha. Komabe, pali malangizo angapo omwe mungachepetse chiopsezo kuti musachepe.
Choyamba, chotsani magalasi otsekemera m'maso mwanu. Kondani wokondedwa wanu, lingaliro la iye. Kondani chomwe chiri chenicheni, sichoncho, mwinamwake tsiku lina malingaliro anu okongola pa izo akhoza kuwonongeka mosayembekezereka. Musaganize kuti moyo wokhudzana nawo nthawizonse udzakhala wosavuta komanso wosasamala, popanda kusagwirizana ndi mikangano, kapena mungakhumudwe kwambiri.
Gawani pakati, ndi chimwemwe, ndi chisoni pakati pawo. Yesetsani kuchita zimenezi kuti mukhale limodzi ndi mnzanuyo limodzi, yang'anani dziko kuchokera kumalo amodzi, kuti zolinga zanu zigwirizane - ndipo mutha kuthana ndi mavuto ndi zovuta zonse mosavuta. Musagwirizane ndi "Ine" ndi "HE", yesani kuganiza "WE".
Zimadziwika kuti munthu sayenera kulowa m'banja popanda kuvomereza chisankho ichi mosamala komanso osakonzekera bwino momwe angathere. Izi ndi zoona, chifukwa ukwati ndi ntchito yolimbikira tsiku ndi tsiku kuti asunge banja. Musalole kuti malingaliro ndi chikondi zisokonezeke mutu wanu - ndizofunikiradi, komabe, kusankha kwakukulu pa kukwatirana kapena ayi, ndibwino kuti muziganiza molimba mtima ndi mwamtendere. Kumbukirani kuti ngati muthamangira ndi chisankho, ndiye kuti udindo umene simunakonzekere, udzakuphwanya.
Mikangano ndi kusagwirizana ndi mbali ya moyo wa banja. Komabe, samalani, zowopsya ndi anyamata a theka lachiwiri siziphatikizidwa mu gawo lino. Mkwatibwi, ndiletsedwa kutemberera mnzanuyo, mochulukira kuti yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito zochita mwamphamvu ku adiresi yake. Ngati mukufunadi kuika chilembo chosasangalatsa kapena chilankhulo choipa kwa mnzanu, lolani lilime lanu ngati mukufuna kupulumutsa ukwati wanu! Ngakhale mutapepesa kenakake - komabe phokoso limakhalabe ndipo pang'onopang'ono lidzasungunuka, kenako limayamba kusintha ndi kusokonezeka. Ngati simukugwirizana ndi mnzanuyo - muuzeni momasuka za izo. Ganizirani ngati mnzanuyo angayesetse kubwerera mwamsanga mwamsanga, ngati akudziwa kuti mukamabwera kunyumba mumamenyana naye ndi zolakwitsa ndi zolakwika.
Chivomerezo ndi mgwirizano - ndicho chomwe chiyenera kukhala cholinga chachikulu cha ubale wanu, wokondana komanso wokonzeka. Ngati izi siziri choncho, zingatheke kuti mnzanuyo asankhe kupeza zomwe akusowa, kwinakwake pambali ndi wachikunja. Kuti mutseguka komanso kukhulupirirana, ubwenzi wanu ndi wofunikira.
Khalani womasuka. Ndipo mwamtheradi mu chirichonse. Ngati vuto likubwera, tchulani kusagwirizana kwanu nthawi yomweyo, musadzipulumutse nokha. Apanso, izi zimagwira ntchito pazochitika zonse za moyo, ngakhale kugonana. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mwalepheretsa vuto - izi sizinali choncho, mukuziwonjezera. Ngati mukufuna kukhala wokondedwa wanu wokondedwa wanu, muyenera kuphunzira kumudalira kwathunthu ndikumukhulupirira.
Musaiwale kuti muzidziyang'anira nokha, nthawi zonse mukulitsa ndi kusintha, zonse kunja ndi mwauzimu. Mobwerezabwereza kupambana mnzanuyo - izi zidzakuthandizani kuti muzikondana komanso kukondana wina ndi mzake.
Ndipo, potsiriza, chinthu chachikulu. Zonsezi ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zonse, osati pokhapokha panthawi yomwe mukuganiza kale za kusudzulana, mwinamwake simungathe kukhala ndi nthawi yosunga ubale!