Posankha mphatso kwa wokondedwa ndi ntchito yovuta, koma kwa amayi ena osavuta. Ngati mkazi amadziwa zofuna za wokondedwa wake, ndiye kuti sachita zolakwika posankha mphatso. Iye akufunadi kuti izo siziri kwa iye mophweka, banal. Koma siyeneranso kutengedwa ndi chiyambi kapena mtengo wapatali. Ndi bwino kusankha mphatso yomwe imamukumbutsa iye ndi chikondi chake.
Ndiyenera kupereka chiyani kwa mwamuna? Popanda chimene sangachoke panyumba, kupita kuntchito, kumsonkhano? Chabwino, ndithudi, opanda mawotchi. Mlonda ndi mphatso yomwe imamukumbutsa iye. Mlonda amawonedwa ngati mphatso yoyenera kwa munthu aliyense. Posankha ndikofunikira kulingalira osati kukoma kokha kwa wokondedwa, koma kalembedwe, khalidwe ndi zokondweretsa.
Ngati munthu amasuta, ndiye kuti akhoza kupereka kuwala kwake. Akamazigwira m'manja mwake, nthawi zambiri amakumbukira. Koma mukhoza kuperekanso chinyezi chopangidwa ndi matabwa kapena zikopa.
Ngati mwamunayo ali ndi nthawi yambiri pambuyo pa gudumu, akhoza kupereka ngongole yokongoletsedwa yopangidwa ndi chikopa, chikwama cha khadi kapena chivundikiro cha pasipoti.
Koma imodzi mwa mphatso zamtengo wapatali kwa iye idzakhala gizmo, yomwe iye amasonkhanitsa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mutolera zida, mungapereke lupanga, utawaleza kapena nsonga. Koma mphatso ngati imeneyi idzakondweretsa osati wosonkhanitsa, koma komanso yemwe sakonda.
Mukhozanso kupereka masewera a patebulo, mwachitsanzo, chess ndi zolemba za nkhondo zamakedzana zomwe zimatchulidwa ngati ankhondo.
Ndipo ndithudi muyenera kukulunga bwino mphatso.