Kuti mwana azizoloŵera "potengera", ayenera kukhala thupi ndi maganizo okonzekera phazi (ndiko kumvetsetsa bwino zosowa za thupi lake). Kawirikawiri, kuyambira kwa kukonzekera koteroko kumachitika kwa zaka 1.5, pamene chitukuko cha mitsempha ndi minofu yomwe imayang'anira zofunikira zachilengedwe ikutha. Ngati phokoso layamba kukuwuzani kuti amafunika "pi-pi," kapena amabisala kuchokera kwa inu kupita ku chipinda china popanda chenjezo, kuti achite "pi-pi" yomweyo, ndiye nthawi yoti mum'phunzitse momwe angagwiritsire ntchito mphikawo. Musanyalanyaze zizindikiro za kukonzekera kwa mwana kuti adziwe mphikawo! Wina angaganize: chifukwa chiyani ayamba kuphunzira tsopano, ngati kuli kodikira kuyembekezera chaka china, pamene mwanayo aphunzira kufunsa munthu wamphongo ndikudzipatula yekha? Izi siziri zoona. Mwana wamwamuna wazaka ziwiri yemwe ali womasuka mu chikhodzodzo adzapeza zovuta kufotokoza chifukwa chake ayenera kusintha makhalidwe ake ndikupempha mphika. Kwa iye ndipotu ndi zabwino! Mwana wanzeru wazaka ziwiri wouma mtima amatha kutsutsa kuti apite ku mphika ndikungokhala pamenepo. Pano, makolo ayenera kuyesetsa kuti afotokozere kwa ana kufunikira kwa izi. Poyambirira, yesetsani kusiya anyani oyamwa ngati mwanayo:
• Atagona tulo, nthawi zambiri amadzuka ndi kanyumba kowuma;
• kukudziwitsani nthawi yomwe akuyenera kuphika;
♦ Iye mwiniyo amasonyeza chidwi chokhala wouma ndi woyera:
♦ amafunikanso kuti atengedwe ndi kanyumba akangolowera;
♦ amachititsa chidwi pa kusankha mphika;
♦ amafuna kuvala zovala.
Khwerero 1: kugula mphika
Mwana wanu samva njala, akugona komanso amakhala ndi maganizo abwino. Ino ndiyo nthawi yabwino yopita ku sitolo palimodzi! Yesetsani kufotokozera mwanayo zomwe mukupita, ndipo muloleni asankhe mphika yekha - izi zidzakhalanso mbali ya chitukuko chake. Inde, muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti katunduyo akuvomerezedwa, kukwaniritsa zofunikira zonse zapulasitiki ndikumakwanira mwanayo kukula. Njira yabwino ndi mphika wokhala ndi nsana. Zidzakhala zomasuka kwa mwana kuti akhale pamtunda. Komanso ziyenera kukhala zophweka (popanda nyimbo, etc.) Choncho, gula labwino linagulidwa ndipo munabweretsa nyumba yogula. Koma musamafulumize kuigwiritsa ntchito pa cholinga chomwe mwafuna ndikuphunzitseni mwanayo kuti ayende pamadzi. Poyamba, mphika uyenera kutsukidwa bwino - izi zikhoza kukhala chifukwa chabwino cholola zombo. Thirani madzi ofunda mu mphika ndi sitima! Apa chirichonse chidzadalira malingaliro anu - mukhoza kuyika gulu la Pupsik mu ngalawa kapena kuimba nyimbo ya woyendetsa sitima. Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti chikhale chosangalatsa komanso chosangalatsa - mwanayo amamva msanga. Ndi iye, ndipo muyenera kuyamba kuphunzitsa mwanayo kuti apite ku potty.
Ndiye, pamene ulendo unatha, ndipo mukupukuta mphika wouma, ndi nthawi yosonyeza momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito pa cholinga chomwe mukufuna. Apa ndizomveka kupitiriza masewerawa - kuika mphika womwe mumakonda kwambiri chidole. Analibe chikhumbo chokhala pamphika? Fufuzani ngati kuli kozizira kwambiri, konyowa kapena kotsekemera. Kuchokera pazochitika zoyamba za "kudziwana" zimadalira, chifukwa chizoloŵezi chopempha mphika sichidzawuka modzidzimutsa. Ngati mwana sakonda, akhoza kukana "chimbudzi" chake. Choncho, yesetsani kupanga mphika kukhala wabwino chabe! Makolo ena amagula miphika ya nyimbo. Akatswiri samalimbikitsa kuchita izi, chifukwa ndiye zosowa zachilengedwe zidzasanduka zosangalatsa, kukhala masewera, ndipo izi sizolondola.
Khwerero 2: Timaphunzira Sayansi
Musachedwe kuti mwanayo agwiritse ntchito poto nthawi yomweyo. Koma ngakhale mwanayo atakhala ndi chikhumbo chokhala pa icho, amutamande iye. Onetsetsani kuti mwanayo akukhala bwino - miyendo imakhala pansi, mwanayo saopa kugwa. Ngati mphika uli wamtali kwambiri, mukhoza kuika pansi pamapazi. Gwiritsani ntchito "misonkhano" yamakono yomwe mumasowa kangapo patsiku, pamene mukuganiza kuti mwanayo ayenera kupita kuchimbudzi (nthawi yomweyo atatha maloto kapena atatha kudya). Ndipo musamamukakamize kuti akhale pamphika motsutsana ndi chifuniro chake! Kuumirira kudzakuchititsani kusokoneza ndipo mudzakumana ndi zotsatira zosiyana. Musakhumudwe kapena kuchita mantha ngati mwanayo sakufuna kuphunzira "luso lachikulire". Tsopano cholinga chanu sikuti muphunzitse mwana wanu kuti ayende pamphika nthawi yochepa kwambiri, koma kuti amuthandize kukhala ndi maganizo abwino. Ngati mutapambana, ganizirani kuti gawo loyamba la maphunziro lapambidwa bwino!
Khwerero Lachitatu: Pansi ndi chikhomo!
Tsopano ndi nthawi yoperekera timapepala ndikuyamba kukhala ndi chizolowezi chopempha mphika, ndi gawo la chitukuko komanso kuti mwanayo amadziwa kale zofunikira zake zakuthupi. Pitirizani kuvala maulendo usiku, pa phwando ndi maulendo ataliatali. Koma ngati mupita ku bwalo kapena paki pafupi ndi nyumba, ingokuthandizani pang'ono. Njira yabwino kwambiri - yoperekera mapulogalamu a kugona usana. Kuti chirichonse chiziyenda bwino, yesetsani kumupatsa mwana pang'ono madzi asanakagone. Ngati phokoso likhoza kukhala louma, musaiwale kuyamika ndipo mwamsanga mukatha kugona mumphika. Yesetsani kupatsa mwanayo ali pansi pa mphika, kumwa madzi kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oyenera. Ndipo, ndithudi, ngati chirichonse chikugwira ntchito - musati muzitha kutamanda. Ndiye mwanayo ayesa kukondweretsa amayi ake nthawi yotsatira. Ndipo pachabe simukusowa manyazi mwanayo chifukwa cha "kuphwanya"! Iye sangathe kumvetsa chifukwa chake dzulo iye adalemba ndi chilango mwamasewera kapena chikhomo, koma lero akukankhidwa chifukwa cha chinthu chomwecho ... Kodi mwana wanu akuwuma kwambiri masana? Chabwino! Ndi nthawi yosiya mapulogalamu ndi kugona tulo usiku. Choyamba, poyamba, "ngozi" zidzachitika nthawi zambiri. Koma muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ntchito yanu yaikulu sikuti muphunzitse - mwana woti ayende pamphika adzikonda yekha. Pambuyo pake, phokosoli silikufuna kudzuka, limakula ndipo limatha kumvetsa chifukwa chake izi zikuchitika. Kotero patapita kanthawi (mu masabata angapo kapena mwezi) iye akhoza kudzuka usiku ndikupempha mphika. Kuphunzitsa bwino!