Maloto ndi dziko lapadera limene timawona zinthu zomwe sitingathe kuzidziwa kapena kuzidziwa. Tikamalota zinthu zina, nthawi zambiri amawongolera mavuto ena, njira zawo zothetsera mavuto, kulongosola zomwe zidzachitike komanso zambiri. Zizindikiro m'maloto ziyenera kulingalira molondola. Ndichifukwa chake anthu ambiri amapita kumabuku a maloto.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mudzifunsa nokha kuti wambwebwe ndi mapu akulota, mungapeze mayankho osiyanasiyana. Kotero, pansipa timatanthauzira kutanthauzira kwakukulu kwa malotowo, momwe wolosera ndi makadi ankalota.
Kutanthauzira tanthauzo la "wambwebwe ndi makadi"
Ngati munalota za munthu wodzaza malipiro ali ndi makadi kapena zinthu zina zomwe mumayankhula ndipo mwayamba kukambirana naye, ndiye kuti muli ndi mavuto okhudza ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu. Pankhani iyi, kuphatikizapo mwayi wokhazikika kungakuthandizeni kuti musataye chiyanjano.
Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti kutanthauzira kwa maloto, kumene kuli wolosera zamakhalidwe ndi makadi, ndi kosiyana kwambiri, malingana ngati malotowo akulota mwamuna kapena mkazi. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wolota wamaloto akulota mtsikana, ndiye kuti wina amamuseka.
Ngati simunalota wolosera zamakhalidwe ndi makadi, koma omwe akudabwa pa dzanja, ndiye mtsikana ali ndi abwenzi ambiri a amuna, koma ndi bwenzi lachikazi iye alibe mwayi. Mwa njira, ngati inu mulota za dzanja lanu mu loto, zikutanthauza kuti anthu omwe ali pafupi amayamikira nzeru zanu ndi luntha.
Komanso, wolemba zamalonda ndi makadi akhoza kusonyeza kuti wina akukonzekera munthu.
Anthu ena amalota kuti wolemba zamalonda akulosera chinachake choipa ndipo amawopa mu loto. Sikoyenera kutumiza mantha awa kumoyo weniweni, chifukwa ngati mukuwopa m'maloto, ndiye kuti mutha kuthana ndi zovuta zonse mosavuta ndi kuthetsa mavuto.
Kutanthauzira kwamalemba
Palinso kutanthauzira kwa malingaliro a maloto ndi wolosera zamatsenga. Mwachitsanzo, malinga ndi bukhu lopatulika la maloto, maloto amenewa amasonyeza kuti munthu mwiniyo amakonda kwambiri esotericism. Komanso, chizindikiro ichi chingatanthauze zinthu zosiyana, zonse zabwino ndi zoipa: chinyengo, kukayikira, kusagwirizana ndi wekha, mauthenga osadziwika, zochitika zabwino komanso mawu osiyana.
Wambwebwe wina akhoza kulota ndi kuti mukudikirira mwayi, womwe udzasintha kwathunthu.
Kuonjezera apo, wofalitsa wamakhalidwe abwino ndi makadi, omwe akulosera tsogolo lanu, angatanthauze kuti posachedwa mudzayambe kukondana.
Maloto amatsenga a kukayikira ndi zowawa zosiyanasiyana, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala popanda nthaka.
Mwa njira, ngati inu mukulota za wolosera zamumtima, samalani momwe iye akulingalira ndi zomwe zikugwa. Nkhaniyi ndi yakuti ingakhale yowonjezera zizindikiro zomwe zidzalongosole zomwe zidzafike, komwe zidzadikirire miseche, komanso kukuthandizani kusankha momwe mungagwirire ndi maganizo anu ndikupeza mayankho a mafunso anu.
Kutanthauzira kwachiwonetsero
Ndipo chinthu chomaliza kukumbukira ndiko kutanthauzira kwa maloto ndi wolemba zamatsenga molingana ndi mabuku olota maloto.
Wofotokozera zamalonda angatanthauze kuti munthu amakonda zokondweretsa zosiyana zogonana zomwe zimaonedwa kuti ndizoletsedwa. Kuonjezera apo, wouza ndalama zambiri ndi makadi a maloto a atsikana omwe ali ndi mafani awiri ndipo posachedwapa adzachita kusankha. Komanso, maloto angakufotokozereni kuti ndi zinthu zotani zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupewa kulakwitsa ndikukhala ndi munthu amene amakhala mnzanu weniweni.
Ngati maloto okhudzana ndi nyenyeziyo sakulota kwa msungwanayo, koma kwa mnyamata, maloto okhudzidwa amamasulira chizindikiro chotero ngati chidwi cha amayi. Posakhalitsa mnyamatayo adzakhala ndi mafanizidwe ambiri, chifukwa chake adzatha kudzikweza kwambiri ndi kusintha maganizo ake payekha.