Izi ndi mafunso osatha, mayankho a konkire omwe sapeza. Kwa munthu aliyense pali tanthauzo la chikondi ndi malingaliro omwe amafunikira.
M'chikondi mulibe ma templates. Mawu ndi malingaliro onse ayenera kubwera kuchokera mumtima. Chikondi ndi kudzipereka, zomwe siziyenera kukhala zochepa pa chirichonse.
Chikondi chimagwirizanitsa moyo wauzimu, thupi, chikhalidwe ndi anthu. Chikondi chimakulolani kuti musinthe, komanso kuti mupite kwa munthu wina.
Chikondi chili ndi dziko lolemera ndi lalikulu. Aliyense amakonda m'njira zawo. Munthu aliyense wakhala ndikumverera koteroko kapena chinachake monga chikondi kamodzi. Chikondi ndi zomwe timakumana nazo. Pokumana nazo zochitika izi, timaphatikizapo chidziwitso, kukhala anzeru ndi amphamvu.
Nchifukwa chiyani munthu amafunikira chikondi? Kukana kukhudzidwa uku, kukana mwayi wokhala ndikumverera, choncho ndikukhala. Popanda chikondi, moyo udzakhala wopanda pake komanso wopanda malire.
Chikondi chimapatsa munthu aliyense mphamvu yamkati, chimachepetsa kusungulumwa komanso kusamvana.
Chikondi chimakupangitsani kumva kuti mukusowa ena kuti apeze ndi kumvetsetsa tanthauzo la moyo. Maganizo osangalatsa amenewa amasonyeza bwino makhalidwe onse a munthu.
Chikondi ndi njira yokhayo komanso njira yeniyeni yomvetsetsera munthu wina. Gwirizaninso naye mu ubale ndi uzimu.
Mukakhala ndi chikondi cha munthu wina, ndizachilendo kufuna kupereka zonse zomwe muli nazo. Ndichikhumbo ichi chomwe chimapangitsa munthu kukhala munthu! Choncho, munthu wokonda chikondi amavumbulutsa cholinga chake chonse, chomwe popanda chikondi sichitha kuwonetseredwa.
Chikondi m'banja - chomwe chimatchedwa simenti pakati pa mamembala onse a banja, chomwe chimawathandiza kukhala pamodzi pamoyo uliwonse. Chikondi sichidzakulolani kudutsa ndi winawake amene akusowa thandizo komanso thandizo lanu.
Munthu aliyense ndi wapadera kufunafuna ndi kukhumba chikondi. Aliyense wa ife akufuna kukwaniritsa theka lake, yemwe adzakondwera naye m'moyo wake wonse. Pa nthawi yomweyi munthu ali wokonzeka kupanga zosamalidwa ndi kudzimana chifukwa cha mwayi wokonda.
Popanda chikondi, tanthawuzo la kukhalapo likusowa, moyo umataya mtundu wake. Chikondi ndi chimbudzi chimene chimatipatsa ludzu la moyo. Popanda izo, kukongola kwa maso kumasoweka, magawo onse a ntchito za anthu amavutika.
Nchifukwa chiyani munthu amafunikira chikondi? Zoonadi, pamene munkakonda, simunamve ngati wamkulu? Panali kumverera kuti chirichonse mu dziko chimakukhudzani inu, kuti m'dziko lonse mulibe kanthu kapena ntchito imene simungathe kupirira nayo.
Anthu okonda okha amatha kulenga. Ndi chikondi chomwe chinatipatsa ife nzeru za nthawi yathu, zomwe ntchito zawo zaluso ndi zozizwitsa ife timanyada ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito mpaka lero.
Ngati muyankha funsoli: "Chifukwa chiyani mwamuna adzikonda?" Ndi zophweka - ndiye chikondi chimapereka lingaliro lachimwemwe. Ndipotu, aliyense amalota za chimwemwe.
Musati mulole, kugona ndi kudzuka mmikono ya munthu yemwe inu mwakonzeka kupereka moyo wanu. Yang'anani mu maso okondwa a wokondedwa wanu, pamene wogwira ntchito ku ofesi ya registry akuyamikira. Onani kumwetulira kwa wokondedwa ndi wokondedwa yemwe akukumana nawe ndi mwana wanu woyamba kuchokera kuchipatala chakumayi. Khalani ndi moyo tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo mudziwe kuti mukabwerera kunyumba, okondedwa anu adzamukumbatira ndikumuimbira, ndipo nthawi yomweyo mavuto ndi mavuto onse adzapita kumbuyo. Pambuyo pake, m'dziko lino - m'dziko lanu - muli malo okha awiri.
Chikondi ndi malingaliro okongola kwambiri omwe munthu angawone. Zambiri ndi zosadziwika. Koma nthawi zonse amangochita zabwino zokha. Choncho musachite mantha kuti mutsegule mtima wanu. Dzipatseni nokha chimwemwe ndi kumverera kuti mukukhala moyo wathunthu.
Chikondi ndi kukondedwa!