Kodi mungapeze bwanji golidi? Kodi mungaphunzitse bwanji ana anu kuti azitha kulangizidwa, kuti musapitirize kuwongolera? Nkhani yathu idzaperekedwa kwa izi. Choyamba, tiyeni tione chifukwa chake nkofunikira kuphunzitsa ana, ngakhale zilizonse? Pamapeto pake, palibe anthu omwe ali ofanana kwambiri, ali padziko lapansi ndipo amadzakhala madzulo, koma amakhala, monga, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala okhutira ndi okha. "Koma ayi!" - amatsutsana ndi sayansi ya maganizo.
Pali zifukwa zingapo zomwe zimafunikira kuphunzitsa mwambo komanso kulondola kwa ana. Choyamba, mwambo wa dongosolo ulikukula. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti maganizo a mwanayo ali ndi njira yomwe imakhazikika poyendetsa zonse zomwe zimangowoneka m'masomphenya. Panthawi yomwe amatha kuona bwinobwino matenda omwe amadzizungulira, ndiye kuti mapangidwe ake amachepetsa. Chachiwiri, munthu ayenera kuphunzira kukhala m'gulu lotukuka. Pa moyo wanu, mwana wanu adzafunika kukumana nthawi zambiri pamene kuli kofunika kukhala pambali ndi anthu ena. Nthawi zina, iye mwini adzakwiyitsidwa ndi chikhalidwe ndi chilango chomwe sichidaphunzitsidwe kuyambira ali mwana. Popeza munthu wamkulu amakhala kale pamtunda, ndipo zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti mwana wanu atenge luso lofunikira la kusunga dongosolo.
Kulera, makolo kuyambira zaka zing'onozing'ono akuyenera kupereka kwa ana chilango.
Malangizo a kulera kosavuta komanso kosavuta.
Mukamapereka chilolezo choti muchite chinachake, muyenera kupanga chiganizocho m'njira yomwe sichikuwoneka ngati ili. Mwachitsanzo: "Ndikufuna thandizo lanu. Khalani okoma mtima, chotsani nsapato zanu pakhomo, chonde. " Mfundo yaikulu muyikidwapo ndi pempho lothandizira.
Awuzeni anawo kuti ayenera kukonzekera ntchito yomwe akuwonetsa (mwachitsanzo, chakudya chamadzulo) maminiti asanu.
Apatseni ana chiwerengero chachikulu cha zosankha zomwe mungasankhe. Ngati sakupita kukadya chakudya, adziwe ana kuti ali ndi chisankho pamene abwera: pambuyo pa maminiti awiri kapena atatu. Ngati iwo akutsutsa mwadala ndi kuyesa kuleza mtima kwanu, musagwirizane kuti musinthe mwayi umenewu. Koma, ngati, anawo amapereka njira ina, yomwe ndi yoyenera, ndiye akafunsidwa ngati angadye chakudya ndiye kuti angatsutse bwanji zidole, onetsetsani kuti mukuvomereza.
Nthawi zonse, lolani anawo kumvetsa ndi kufotokoza momveka bwino chifukwa chake mukufunikira izi kapena ntchitoyo.
Apatseni ndondomeko imodzi yokha ya nthawi kuti asakhale osokonezeka ndipo asadandaule ndi ntchito zochulukirapo.
Lankhulani ndi mwana wanu.
Kulankhula ndi ana nthawi zonse kuyenera kulemekeza. Aloleni iwo pamodzi ndi inu kuyamikira ntchito zabwino ndi zabwino. Kulankhulana kwanu sikuyenera kutenga mawonekedwe a kukopa, mumangokakamiza mwanayo kuti aganizire kuti iye mwiniyo amalingalira. Komanso, yesetsani kuphunzitsa mwana wanu kusankha zochita pazochitika kapena zochitika zosiyanasiyana.
Mulimonsemo, musamanyoze anawo!
Kutsutsana kumalongosola kwa ana chifukwa chake pazomwe zimakhala zofunikira kuchita mwanjira inayake, osati ayi. Koma panthawi yomweyi, yang'anani zomwe mumanena, kufotokozera monga "chifukwa ndikufuna kwambiri" kapena "chifukwa ndizofunikira" zofooka, ndipo mwinamwake iwo sangamukakamize mwanayo. Ana ambiri samalekerera malamulo ndipo akhoza kungoyamba kusiya kulankhula ndi inu.
Zokambirana zachinsinsi, chikhulupiliro, zokambirana zomwe zili pamtunda wofanana, zidzakuthandizani kupeza mphamvu kuchokera kwa mwana.
Musagwiritse ntchito mau a decoy. Nthawi zonse musunge malonjezo anu.
Pokambirana ndi ana, kambiranani zomwe adzafunikire kubwezera chilango cha khalidwe lawo losasangalatsa. Mwachitsanzo, nenani: "Inu muli ndi njira yoponyera zinthu kuzungulira mnyumbamo, ndipo ine nthawizonse ndiyenera kuyendetsa pa iwo. Tidzachita chiyani ndi izi? Mwinamwake inu nokha mudzandipatsa ine yankho, ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati simukuyeretsa zinthu zanu? "Pokhala mutagwirizana, m'tsogolomu, popanda kutsata mfundo, pitirizani mgwirizano.
Musaphonye mphindi ndi kuzindikira pamene ana anu akuchita zabwino, musaiwale kuwayamikila poyankha zomwe mukuyembekeza. Mwachitsanzo. Mukhoza kunena "Ndine wokondwa kuti inu ..." kapena "Ndizobwino kuti inu ...".
Sungani vutoli.
Yesani kuyerekezera zomwezo kuti mwanayo abereke khalidwe loyenera: "Sasha, ndi bwino kuyenda mozungulira chipinda mumsewu. Ndiwonetseni, chonde, momwe mungachitire pa nkhaniyi. " Mwanayo amachotsa nsapato zake. "Zikomo, ndikudziwa kuti mungachite. Ndibwino. "
Timakulangizani kuti muime ndi ziwerengero zilizonse (mwachitsanzo, asterisks, mabwalo) kapena ndondomeko yomwe pamakhala zolemba za khalidwe loyenera la mwanayo panthawi yake. Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, muyenera kukhazikitsa kuti chiwerengero cha zolembazi zikuwonetsedwa, ana akhoza kulandira chilimbikitso chowonjezereka, mwachitsanzo, kuyenda, kuyenda kwinakwake, kapena kugula chidole chimene mwanayo akufuna kwa nthawi yaitali. Imeneyi ndi njira yabwino komanso yoyesedwa kalekale pa khalidwe.
Mulimonsemo, musataye mtima wanu kuti mupereke chilango kwa ana. Musabwezere mmbuyo, ngakhale mutakhala kuti mulibe mphamvu zokwanira kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zawo. Nthawi zina, ana amadziwa kuti sakufunikira kutsatira malamulo, chifukwa amasintha nthawi zonse.
Malangizo awa ndi othandiza ngati inu muli nokha, mukuwona dongosolo mu nyumba, ndikuwonetseratu kuti mumakhala mosamala komanso mwaukhondo. Malingaliro okhudza chilango angapangidwe ngakhale pa zinthu zing'onozing'ono: ngati chinachake chikutengedwa, chiyikeni mmalo mwake, kapena nthawizonse chitseka chirichonse chimene inu mwatsegula kale. Kungodziletsa nokha ndipo mwanayo athandizire kukwaniritsa zotsatira.