Ndikofunikira kuti mutenge njira zina zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuchita maphunziro, ngakhale kutali, komanso kuti mukhalebe ndi chikhulupiliro ndi mwana wanu. Malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo adzakuthandizani pa izi.
Choyamba, muyenera kuganizira mozama zomwe mungachite ndi mwana mukakhala mulibe ngati mulibe nthawi yokwanira. Ana, makamaka achinyamata, amalephera kulekerera kusungulumwa ndi kukhumudwa - choncho pafupi ndi kampani yoipa, zinthu zoipa. Popanda sukulu kapena sukulu ndikuchita homuweki, mwanayo akhoza kuyendera makapu kapena magawo a masewero. Kodi muli ndi nthawi yoyenda naye kumeneko? Choncho aloleni achibalewo kuthandizeni! Agogo, agogo, amalume, abambo kapena ana akuluakulu sayenera kusiya makolo awo popanda thandizo. Ngati muli panyumba, koma ntchito zapakhomo sizingakupatseni mpata wosewera kapena kuyankhula ndi mwanayo, ndi bwino kupempha thandizo. Mulole iye achite ntchito yopepuka kwambiri - chofunika koposa, pafupi ndi iwe. Palibe chomwe chimabweretsa pamodzi monga bizinesi yodzigwirizanitsa. Komanso, zimakhala zosavuta kulankhula kuntchito.
Chachiwiri, musamupweteke mwanayo. Makolo ambiri amene amadziimba mlandu chifukwa chopereka nthawi yochepa kwa ana amayamba "kupereka" ndi mphatso zamtengo wapatali. Ichi si chinthu chovulaza - ngakhale choopsa! Kuzoloŵera pa nkhaniyi, mwanayo adzapeza kukwaniritsidwa kwa zilakolako zake zonse monga ntchito yanu yeniyeni ndipo adzazitenga mopepuka. Tsopano ganizirani zomwe ziti zichitike ngati mwadzidzidzi simungathe kukwaniritsa zinazake? Moona, kukula kwa tsoka ndi kovuta kuunika! Mu kuya kwa moyo, mwana aliyense amamvetsetsa: osati zonse zomwe akufunayo, amafunikira komanso zothandiza. Zowonjezera - chiyeso chosamvetsetseka cha makolo chifukwa cha kusagwirizana.
Chachitatu, musapange malonjezo osatheka. "Lero sindingathe kusewera tekkey ndi iwe, koma ndikuchitadi mawa," nthawi zambiri mawu amenewa amachokera ku malirime awo. Koma pakubwera mawa ndipo iwe watachedwa kuntchito, iwe uli ndi nthawi yochepa kwa ana, ndiye, ukafika kunyumba, iwe umapeza zinthu zambiri zofunikira, ndipo zinathamanga ... Ndiyeno usiku umabwera mwakachetechete. Ndipo mwanayo anadikirira. Ngati izi zikubwereza kangapo, mwana wanu amangotaya chikhulupiriro osati makolo okha, komanso moona mtima komanso mwachilungamo.
Mfundo ina: musagwirizane kwambiri ndi mawu a mwana monga "Ndimadana nawe." Ana sakutanthawuza zomwe nthawi zambiri amatanthauza ndi mawu awa. Akungofuna kukuchititsani kumva chisoni chifukwa cha ntchitoyi.
Nthawi zonse mupeze nthawi, nswala ngati mulibe zochepa, komanso kulimbika mtima kuti muyankhe mafunso osayenerera. Kumbukirani kuti ngati mutayesetsa kupeŵa kukambirana kotero, mwanayo adzalandirabe zomwe akufunikira, mwachitsanzo, pamsewu kapena pa intaneti. Sizovuta kuganiza kuti malingaliro opotoka a zinthu zambiri zovuta zingapange bwanji!
Musaganize kuti zingakhale zosangalatsa kwambiri kuti mwanayo azikhala osamala nthawi zonse. Amafunanso kukhala wodziimira yekha. Fotokozani kufunika kwa maluso omwe mwanayo adapeza pokhudzana ndi kufunika kokhala pakhomo pawokha - inde, kugwiritsa ntchito microwave kapena mpweya wa gasi nthawi zonse zothandiza.
Chinthu chachikulu si nthawi imene mumagwiritsira ntchito mwana, koma momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito. Muphatikizana palimodzi, khalani ndi zabwino. Lolani kukhala kuyankhula kwa mtima-kapena-masewera afupipafupi, kuyang'ana filimu yokondweretsa kapena kuyenda mu malo apafupi. Kodi linali tsiku? Yambani kuyenda! Mundikhulupirire, kukumbukira mbatata zophika kapena shish kofi zophikidwa ndi kudyedwa mu chikhalidwe pamodzi ndi makolo zidzakhalabe mukumakumbukira mwanayo, pamodzi ndi kuyamikira nthawi yochuluka! Pa tsiku lachisanu, konzekerani kusuntha kapena kusewera, kusewera mpira wa snowball kapena kuwombera nsanja yachisanu - ndipo ndiwothandiza pa thanzi, ndi kulimbikitsa ubwenzi wa banja!
Ndipo, potsirizira pake, musadziteteze nokha chifukwa chosathera nthawi yochuluka ndi mwana wanu. Muloleni iye amve chikondi chanu, amasonyeza ulemu pa zomwe akumverera ndi zomwe amamuchitikira. Kusamala, chifundo, chiyanjano, kukonda, kumvetsera ndi kuthandizira pa nthawi yovuta ziyenera kukhala anzanu okhulupirika mu nkhani yokweza munthu yemwe akukula.
Tikuyembekeza kuti mutenga malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo kwa makolo omwe alibe nthawi yokwanira ya ana, koma omwe akufuna kutenga nawo mbali pophunzitsa mwana wawo.