Pamene mapulogalamuwa akuphwanyidwa tsiku ndi tsiku, pamene amapanga nyenyezi kuchokera kwa anyamata ndi atsikana omwe ali "wamba", anthu ochepa sangaziganizire kuti ndi okongola komanso aluso. "Chifukwa chiyani Masha-Sasha-Dasha angathe, ndipo ine, ndi chiyani, choipa?" - mwana wakhala pawindo akudzifunsa yekha. Ndipo simunganene kuti akulakwitsa, koma ngati ali wolondola, munthu angamufotokozere bwanji kuti aliyense sangakhale nyenyezi pambuyo pake?
Limbikitsani kapena musalimbikitse
Nthawi zina makolo amadzikakamiza ana awo kuti azitha kuwonjezera luso lawo. Kuyambira ali aang'ono, iwo amavala chovala ndi "kusamba" akuwomba phokoso pambuyo polemba zolemba zosavuta kumva: "Ndiwe chozizwitsa, msungwana wanzeru, wojambula yekha akukula!" Wojambula wotero pano zaka khumi adzasankha kulowa mu zisudzo, ngati simukupita kumadzi. Ana ali ovuta kwambiri kuunika kwa akuluakulu, ndipo apa chinthu chachikulu sichivulaza. Ngati mumamukakamiza mwanayo kuti ali ndi korona zitatu ndipo ndi mwana wotsutsana ndi mpikisano wake wa Rachmaninov, zikutheka kuti kusokonezeka koteroko kudzakhala naye nthawi yaitali m'mitu yonse itatu. Musatamande luso lodziwika ndi luso lopangidwa ndi luso lake laling'ono - iye ali kumbali.
Njira yabwino yothandizira kukhala ndi luso komanso maluso omwe alipo ndi kufotokoza kwa mwanayo kuti popanda ntchito, zopweteka komanso zovuta, palibe chodabwitsa. Mastery sizochitika zachilengedwe, koma zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku kwa maola ambiri. Kaya ndi masewera kapena zojambulajambula. Zingakhale zabwino kupereka zolemba zambiri kapena zofunsidwa za mafano ake - palibe olemekezeka omwe amauza momwe iye aliri ndi ulemerero mosavuta. Choyamba, chifukwa chakuti izi siziri choncho.
Chenjezo likhale loyenera
Pamene anzanu akudandaula za chozizwitsa chanu, amati, adzatsegula mawindo, kutulutsa oyankhula ndi kuyimba nyimbo zomveka kwa bwalo lonse, musathamangitse amplifiers kuchokera pansi pachisanu ndi chitatu. N'zotheka kuti mwana wanu akufuna basi kukopa chidwi. Kawirikawiri malotowa amatchuka kwambiri chifukwa chakuti kusamalidwa mokwanira kuyambira ali mwana kumabweretsa chikhumbo chofuna kuchoka kwa mafani. Kumbukirani, ndi liti pamene simunakonde chidwi, koma mumasewera otsiriza a timu ya mpira wake wokondedwa? Nthawi zambiri ana samakambirana zokhazokha ndi makolo awo, osati chifukwa sakufuna, koma chifukwa sawakonda.
Ngati mwanayo sagwirizana kwambiri, sangathe kuuza mayi ake "munda wa zozizwitsa" zomwe gulu lake amalikonda kale, potsiriza anamasula album yake yoyamba kapena adagonjetsa mndandanda woyamba m'makalata apamwamba. Zinthu zing'onozing'ono zoterezi zingathe kukhalapo mu khoma lamdima, lomwe silingakhoze kupyozedwa ndi kunyozedwa: "Ndinakuberekani, sindinagone usiku, ndinakana chirichonse mwa ine ndekha, koma tsopano ndikudziwa zonse zatha, ngati kuti si amayi anu, koma ena." Choncho, ngati simukumbukira mwana wanu kulemekeza dzina lake, yesetsani kukuthokozani, osati woyang'anira ndi wogwira ntchito, pamene mukulandira Oscar ndi misonzi pamaso pake.
Thefilosofi ya karoti popanda karoti
Zimadziwika kuti ndizovuta kuti achinyamata adziwe chinthu china, amadzikakamiza komanso amadzikuza. Musalumbire nkhanza, werengani musamawerenge makhalidwe - ndi zopanda phindu, kusiyana pakati pa inu kungangowonjezera. Yesani kumunyengerera mwana wanu pang'ono. Akufuna kuti awerenge Tolstoy, Chekhov, Dostoevsky. Ndiye musanene kuti izi zimupangitsa iye kuphunzitsidwa, koma kunena mosiyana: "Zoona, kuweruza ndi mabuku anu ofotokozera, simumamvetsa" Master ", apa mukufunikira katundu wambiri, ndipo, kuwerengera Harry Potter yekha, sungapulumutsidwe ". Mwana wamkazi adakakhala wojambula, choncho nkhaniyo inasiyidwa? Ndi zopanda phindu kumufotokozera kuti sayansi yamuyaya iyi idzabwera bwino m'tsogolomu. Ndibwino kuti ndikhale wosangalala: "Ndikulingalira kuti ndiwe wotchuka bwanji, mumapereka mafunso kwa ofunsa mafunso ndi funso:" Kodi mungakonde kusewera mu tepi ya mbiriyakale, mwachitsanzo, ku Odyssey kapena Iliad? "Mudzayankha kuti:" Ndidzakondwera kwambiri ndi talente komanso Odyssey, ndi udindo wa Iliad. " Ndipo chitsanzo chamtsogolo cham'tsogolo, chimene chataya masamu, ndibwino kutsutsana ndi zenizeni za sayansi yeniyeni motere: "Pamene mudzalandira madola mamiliyoni ambiri pochita nawo malonda okha, ndi ndani amene angatsogolere deta yanu, ngati mutayika ziwerengero zanu zazikulu m'malo mwanu? "Chinthu chachikulu sichimangopitirira ndipo musapitirize kuchitapo kanthu.
Kukumana ndi nkhani yosakhwima
Makolo ayenera kuyang'anira zonse zomwe ana awo amawonera, mvetserani ndi kuziwerenga. Koma kungoletsa chinachake kulibe phindu, muyenera kuikapo "zosalongosoka" kuti mukhale ndi chidziwitso chodziwika bwino. Zoopsa lero ndi TV. Zikuonekeratu kuti wophunzirayo, atabwerako kuchokera kumaphunziro, akhoza kusintha njira iliyonse, kotero kubisala kutali kwake ndizopusa. Koma nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti amayi amawonera mndandanda pamodzi ndi ana awo, ndipo akadali aang'ono kwambiri - zaka ziwiri kapena zitatu. Ndipo izi ndizo nthawi yomwe mwanayo akukula mofulumira - mwanayo amatenga chirichonse monga chinkhupule. N'zosadabwitsa kuti kenako amauza makolo ake zonse zokhudza momwe ana amachitira dziko lapansi.
Kukulitsa mwana wanu - dzipangeni nokha. Pitani naye kumalo owonetserako, mawonetsero, masewera, tiyeni tiwerenge mabuku abwino kwambiri. Lembani mwana m'mitundu yonse ndi maphunziro. Ana akamakhala ndi nthawi yochepa, nthawi zambiri amawawonera pa TV. Zimakhala zovuta kufotokozera udindo wa kupanga ndi luso mu kukula kwa mwana wopatsidwa kwa iye mwachibadwa, koma popanda chidwi ndi khama, iwo amangogulitsa pachabe. Ndiyeno mwana wanu, atakulira, adzakuuzani zodandaula zake za matalente osapangidwira ndi mwayi wophonyezedwa.