Zotsutsana ndi nkhani yovuta kwa makolo ambiri. Kulephera kumatanthauza kusamvana - zoonekeratu kapena zobisika - zomwe nthawi zambiri zimathera misonzi, amatsenga, kusamvera ndi zovuta za mwana wokondedwayo. Amayi ndi abambo amayesetsa kuti agwirizane, chifukwa amamvetsetsa, amanyozedwa ndi kusamvetsetsa komanso amapita kuntchito - koma nthawi zambiri n'kopanda phindu. Nchiyani-kusiya chirichonse chomwe chiri? Akatswiri a maganizo a ana amaumirira kuti ndi koyenera kuti "ayi", koma ndibwino kuti tizichita bwino.
Khalani osasinthasintha. Kukhazikika ndi axiom yomwe ndivuta kukangana. Udindo wa kholo uyenera kukhala wolimba, ndiye mwanayo adzakambirane nawo. Atanena kuti "ayi" nthawi imodzi, musamusokoneze mwanayo - zimakhala zosavuta kuti avomere kukana kosatha kusiyana ndi zosankha zambiri zosasangalatsa.
Yang'anirani mkhalidwewo. Munthu wamkulu amakhala ndi chidaliro mwa iye mwini nthawi zonse komanso mwachindunji chake - ndicho chifukwa chake amamumvetsera modekha komanso mokoma mtima. Kuwonjezera mawu, kukwiya, zosafunikira, ukali, kukwiya - chizindikiro cha kufooka. Mukhoza kuwaopa, koma simungathe kuwalemekeza. Yesetsani kukhala ndi khalidwe loletsa, mwanayo amamvetsa kutsutsana kwabwino kuposa momwe akuwonekera akuluakulu.
Musakwiyitse. Zikuchitika kuti ziwombankhanza zaubwana - osati zokopa kapena kuyesa kukopa chidwi, koma kuwukira kwenikweni pachisalungamo. Ndondomeko yowononga komanso yopanda pake ndiyo njira yabwino yokweza mwana wosamvera. Kumbukirani: "Ndanena choncho" ndi "chifukwa ndine wamkulu" - zosatsutsika zotsutsa zokana. "Ndikumvetsa momwe mukufunira, koma ayi, chifukwa ..." zimakhala bwino.