Zakale za mbiriyakale
Chomwe timachitcha kuti matani lero, chinali chofunikira pa mwambo wobala zipatso panthawi ya chikunja ndipo adawonedwa mwachibadwa. Chitsimikizo cha izi ndi chiwerengero chachikulu cha midzi, midzi, mizinda ndi mitsinje yosiyana, yomwe idakalipo kuyambira nthawi imeneyo idachita chidwi, ndi miyezo yathu, maina. Komabe, ndi kufalikira kwa chikhristu ku Russia, mwambo wachikunja mawu unadutsa m'gulu la manyazi ndipo pang'onopang'ono anayamba kubwezeretsedwa ndi tchalitchi, chifukwa adatchedwa "osayera." Koma kulumbirira mawu kwa nthawi yaitali sikunatayike kutchuka pakati pa chikhulupiliro cha okhulupirira chakale. Ndipo movomerezeka iwo analetsedwa mu zolemba zolembedwa kokha m'zaka za zana la 18.
Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu achipongwe
Ndipo lero, monga zaka zambiri zapitazo, matemberero si mawu okha. Asayansi omwe amaphunzira chinenerochi, anapeza kuti mawu osokoneza bongo amachititsa ntchito zoposa 15. Kotero, mothandizidwa ndi kulumbirira, simungathe kukweza mkhalidwe wanu nokha, komanso kuwalimbikitsa zomwe ena akuchita. Nthaŵi zina mawu otukwana amalola munthu kuthetsa nkhawa ndikukhala ndi vuto lotere. Kotero, ngati chinthu cholemera, monga chitsulo, mwadzidzidzi kugwera phazi lanu, ndiye ngati mutangonena chinachake monga "o, zimapweteka ngati ...", mukhalabe ndikumverera kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo ngati Mphindi ino mumalumbirira bwino, mwamsanga mudzapeza mpumulo.
Mawu achipongwe amatanthauzanso mkwiyo ndi kukwiya kwa anthu osasangalala ndipo amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuopseza ndi kuopseza mdani. Mofanana ndi zinyama, nyama zimalira, zimamanga zowopsya komanso zimawombera tsitsi pamene mdani akuyandikira.
Ntchito ina ya chiyankhulo choyipa ndikutha kupirira mantha ndi mantha. Owonetsedwa ngati mawu "oipa", munthu monga momwe amakhalira mtundu wotetezera kuzungulira iyemwini ndikumverera wotsimikiza kwambiri.
Ngakhale kuti matemberero ndi chinthu chowoneka ngati chachilengedwe komanso chothandiza, tiyenera kudziwika kuti si onse omwe amawagwiritsa ntchito mofanana. Ngakhale pakalipano, pamene chikhalidwe cha anthu ambiri chimakhala ndi frivolity (timatha kumva mawu oipa pa wailesi, kuchokera pa TV, kuwerenga m'magazini), anthu ena alibe chizoloŵezi chodzifotokozera okha, koma pali ena omwe samangolumbira, koma chabe nthawi zonse kulankhula momasuka.
Zimadalira, choyamba, choyamba pa maphunziro. Ngati makolo apanga chikhalidwe choyenera kuyambira ali mwana, ndiye kuti atakula, munthu adzawatsatira mtsogolomu. Chosafunika kwenikweni ndi mtundu wa khalidwe ndi dongosolo la manjenje la munthu. Anthu owopsya - mofulumizitsa-bwino komanso mosavuta, amawagwiritsa ntchito mobwerezabwereza kuposa odwala omwe ali ndi maganizo abwino. Komabe, zimakhalanso kuti munthu amene anakulira m'banja lodziwika bwino komanso osagwirizana ndi fano la amayi ojambula maukwati ndi mawu opweteka. Msungwana wodekha, wokoma, wokongola, wovala mosasamala komanso wochepetsetsa pamaso pake mwadzidzidzi amapereka kuti makutu ake alowe mu chubu. N'zosatheka kukhulupirira kuti iye amadziwa bwino mawu amenewa! Koma n'zotheka kuti adaziphunzira mwachindunji, kuti athe kukhala otsimikiza komanso omasuka m'madera ena. Kapena zikuchitika kuti wogwira ntchitoyo wagwira ntchito moyo wake wonse mu timu yovuta, komwe popanda mawu amphamvu, palibe ntchito kapena polojekiti yomwe idzachitike nthawi. Gululo lasintha pakapita nthawi, ndipo chizoloŵezi cholankhula mosayenera chikusungidwa.
Poyerekeza ndi amuna, amai nthawi zambiri amalankhula mosayenera. Ndipo osati chifukwa chakuti thupi lachikazi mahomoni a testosterone sali opangidwa pang'ono, omwe amachititsa chiwawa, komanso chifukwa chakuti amavomerezedwa ndi makampani a amuna okhaokha. Ngati mnyamata wachinyamatayo sakudziwa matemberero osayera, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti alowe nawo kampaniyo. Mwamuna wamkulu yemwe sangathe kufotokozera zakuya kwa zokambirana zonse m'mawu ochepa amphamvu, mwinamwake sangathe kukhala mtsogoleri. Mwachidziwikire, mtundu wonse wa anthu ndi wolakwika ponena za kugwiritsa ntchito nkhondo. Ndipo ngati mau otukwana akuyankhidwa, amawonedwa kuti ndi opanda pake ndipo amaonedwa kuti ndi opanda ulemu.
Mmene mungachotsere zizoloŵezi zoipa
Palinso ngozi imodzi: zimatsimikiziridwa kuti zolankhula zathu ndi luso lathu laluso zimagwirizana kwambiri. Ngati tili ndi chizoloŵezi choyankhula mofanana ndi machitidwe a template (ndi masamu ndizo zitsanzo izi), ndiye izi sizilola ubongo wathu kukula.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo a ku Britain asanthula mawu a amayi mazana angapo ndipo adapeza kuti mtsikanayo amalankhula momveka bwino, ndiye kuti ali ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri payekha komanso pantchito yake. Ngakhale maphunziro apadera pa chitukuko ndikulinganiza, komwe machitidwe osiyanasiyana amaperekedwa kuti athetse mawu a parasitic, kuphatikizapo osasinthika. Kotero, mmalo mwa mawu "oipa" muyenera kunena kuti mulibe nzeru, osagwirizana ndi mawu, mwachitsanzo "gypsumff", mmalo mwa "e-klmn", "mdierekezi" kapena "pancake". Munthu, polemba m'malo mwake, amamvetsa kuti mawuwo amamveka osalankhula ndi oseketsa, monganso momwe matembererowo amalankhulira. Njira yina yochotsera kuchotsa lexicon ndi chete. Pambuyo poyankhula chinenero chamanyazi, anthu nthawi zambiri amaphimba kulephera kwawo kulankhula molankhulidwe, kumangoyankhula komanso kupuma. Kuonjezera apo, ataphunzira kukhala chete, anthu amaphunzira kumvetsera wokambirana nawo, zomwe mumavomereza, ndi khalidwe lofunikira kwambiri.
Zina zowonjezera zokhuza zabwino ndi zoipa za nkhanza.
Zotsatira zabwino
- Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu amphamvu kumapititsa patsogolo moyo. Zomwezo zinapangidwa ndi madokotala a ku America ndi akatswiri a zachikhalidwe cha anthu. Ataphunzira za moyo wa anthu 230, adapeza kuti: kuyankhula momveka bwino ndi kofunika pa thanzi. Amene amachita, ali ndi kortisol ("hormone ya stress") komanso high endorphin ("hormone ya chimwemwe").
- Kulankhula kosayenerera kumalimbitsa mzimu umodzi. Akatswiri a yunivesite ya East Anglia adapeza kuti kunyansa kumathandiza antchito kulankhulana, kumapanga mpweya wapadera womvetsetsa ndi kudalira. Ndipo sikumangoganizira za amuna okha, komanso magulu osakaniza.
- Zotembereredwa zimachepetsa kukongola kwa munthu. Akatswiri a zamaganizo a anthu asonyeza kuti kuchitiridwa nkhanza pamalankhula mwachiwerewere kumakhudza momwe akuyendera ndi amuna. Azimayi onse omwe adalandira mwapamwamba kwambiri pogwiritsa ntchito kujambula anagwera pamaso pa amuna atatha kuwonetsera (mu mavidiyo) kuti angathe kudzifotokoza momveka bwino.
- Kutembereredwa kumapweteka maganizo. Zimatipatsa maulendo asanu kuti tizimva mawu osayenerera pa TV, momwe zimagwera - pali alamu, kumverera "chinachake chalakwika." Akatswiri a maganizo a ana ochokera ku United States amakhulupirira kuti ntchito yosungirako makolo. Tonsefe taphunzira kuyambira ali mwana kuti ndizolakwika kulumbira.