Kotero, timapereka kwa yani? Anzawo angapereke chinachake chosakwera mtengo komanso choletsa, koma ndithudi chothandiza: mugugu, ofesi yabwino, njira yosamalira nsapato (ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi ntchito), tikiti yopita kumsonkhano wa gulu lanu lomwe mumawakonda, ngati mutaya ndi anzanu, buku latsopano, mukuwerenga mwachangu wolemba. Mutu ndi bwino kupereka mphatsoyo mofulumira komanso vsykladchinu ndi anzako, zomwe sizikanachitika kwa wina aliyense kuti akutsutseni za sycophancy. Ikhoza kukhala ofesi yapamwamba, mowa wokwera mtengo ndi fodya, kukonzekera kofunikira kwa magalimoto (amuna omwe amagwira naye ntchito akuyendetsa).
Anzanu angathe kupereka chirichonse, chirichonse, chinthu chofunika kudziwa pambuyo pa zonse zomwe mzanu akufuna ngati mphatso. Ndipo bwino, m'malo mwake, perekani chinachake chimene sakuyembekeza. Mwachitsanzo, ndi bwino kwa munthu wokhala ndi zokometsera zonunkhira kuti apereke tsiku ku skatepark ndi lendi yotetezera, bolodi ndi wophunzitsi kapena tsiku la snowboard. Mwinamwake, ndi izi zomwe zidzatalikitsa, ndipo, motero, iye adzatengedwera kutali. Ngati mnzanu akulota galimoto, koma mwanjira inayake simukukonzekera kuti mumupatse, mum'patse maphunziro oyendetsa galimoto, mumuthandize kuchita khama, ndikuwongolera kuyendetsa galimoto yake, ndipo n'zosatheka pambuyo pake kuti athamangitse kuti apange ngongole ya galimoto. Ngati ndalama zikuyenderedwa ndi chikondwerero cha zokondana, sungani masokosi kwa mnzanu, konzekerani dzina lanu, chitani chivundikiro pa foni yanu.
Kwa amuna osadziwika, mwachitsanzo, chibwenzi chatsopano cha bwenzi lapamtima, amene mukubadwa nawo tsiku lina lobadwa, chirichonse chomwe chiri chabwino ndi chinthu chomwe chatsekedwa, chilengedwe chonse komanso chosakwera mtengo: zipangizo zovekedwa, chikwama, khadi la bizinesi, khwekhwe yabwino, chitoliro chosuta, ambulera kapena magolovesi. Ngakhale chinthu choterocho chiripo kale ndi chanu posachedwa padzakhala pulogalamu, chifukwa zonsezi zagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti zitayika kapena kutha. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti tisapereke chilichonse chapadera.
Njira yosamala kwambiri ndi kusankha mphatso kwa munthu wokondedwa. Kuchokera ku mphatso zamtundu uliwonse, ndi bwino kukana pomwepo - izi ndi zomwe amupatsa kuntchito. Koma malingaliro anu, mu nkhani iyi, ali basi, komwe angachotse. Chabwino, choyamba, muzhchinku yotsika mtengo kwambiri ikhoza kumagula ndi kumugula iye, ayi, osati nyumba ku Croatia, ndithudi, koma kamera yamtengo wapatali, zotengera zophika nsomba, zipangizo zamatabwa kapena masewera othamanga ndi zotheka. Ngati mumadziwa kukoma kwake, ndiye kuti n'zotheka kusankha mafuta onunkhira, zovala, thumba, nsapato, nsalu. Sichiletsedwa kudzifunsa yekha zomwe akufuna kuti alandire ngati mphatso, osati anthu onse monga zodabwitsa, kapena zina zowonjezera, zopatsa mphatso zofunikira kwambiri. Mwinamwake wosankhidwa wanu sakusowa kulembetsa ku kampu yolimbitsa thupi, monga mukufunira, koma zina zofunika kwambiri pa kompyuta. Musakhale wamanyazi, funsani kuti ndi zinthu ziti, ngakhale zitatha kulembera pansi, pakadali pano, mphatsoyo siidzakhala mphatso yeniyeni, monga momwe mumaganizira ndi munthu wake, chilakolako chogwiritsa ntchito ndalama komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ndi nthawi yoyendayenda m'masitolo khumi ndikufufuza mndandanda. Adzayamikira izi, poyamba, ndipo kachiwiri, mudzayamba kumvetsetsa pang'ono, mutakhala ndi nthawi yochepa kufunafuna zofunikira, ndalama zochepa kapena zobisika zatsopano. Mukhoza kusonyeza zomwe mukuzikonda, mutatha kukambiranso chipinda, kapena kukonza chipinda mu hotelo yabwino usiku, zidzatsitsimutsa ubale wanu kwambiri.
Mphatso ya apongozi ake nthawi zonse imakhala bwino kukambirana ndi apongozi awo kapena mwamuna wawo ndikungochita nawo zomwe akupeza, kutenga mbali ya nkhawa. Choposa zonse, mwina tikudziwa zomwe tingapereke kwa abambo ndi abale. Ngati pali zovuta ndi kusankha, zovala ndi nsapato, komanso ma vocha, mafilimu okhudza iwo, opangidwa mu zolemba za PhotoShop ndi zithunzi zawo ndikugwiritsira ntchito botolo yoyenera, zigwira ntchito.
Mulimonsemo, pamene funso likubwera, chimene chiri chabwino kupatsa mwamuna, mphatso ndi nkhani yaumwini ndipo munthu ayenera kuyandikira nayo ndi udindo ndi kuseketsa.