Chozizwitsa ndi chiani?
Kwenikweni, kukhulupirira mu chozizwitsa sikutanthauza kuti nthawi zonse pali fairies, unicorns ndi dragons zabwino. Akuluakulu, anthu amakhulupirira zozizwitsa mosiyana. M'malo mwake, amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi mwayi, panthawi yomwe zinthu zimapangitsa kuti azikhala ndi makhalidwe abwino, kusintha kwakukulu mu khalidwe ndi khalidwe la ena omwe amakhala maziko olimbitsa maubwenzi. Ndi chozizwitsa kuti tidziwe bwino ndi anthu omwe mwadzidzidzi amakhala gawo la moyo wathu ndipo zimakhudza kwambiri. Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti zozizwitsa sizimachitika, koma zochitika zambiri za tsiku ndi tsiku zimaonedwa ngati chozizwitsa. Funso: momwe tingagwirizane ndi izi?
Ena, mochedwa kuntchito ndikudumpha pa basi, yomwe idayenera kudutsa maminiti khumi apitawo, ndikumwetulira kulankhula za chozizwitsa. Ngakhale ena, musamangoganizira za izo, kapena amachitcha zonse zomwe zimachitika nthawi zonse. Ndipotu, pali magetsi oyendetsa magalimoto, magalimoto osokoneza bongo, oyendetsa galimoto amene akungoyenera kudumphira ku ndudu ya ndudu. Kotero ndikulankhulidwe kotani komwe tingakambirane apa? Zoonadi, zozizwitsa zimachitika kapena sizichitika malinga ndi momwe timazionera, komanso ngati tikuziwona. Ena amakhulupiriradi zamoyo zodabwitsa ndi zamatsenga zomwe zimakhala m'dziko lathu lapansi, sitingazizindikire. Kumbali imodzi, chikhulupiliro choterocho chimawoneka ngati ana, atomiki ndi openga kwambiri, komatu, ndizosangalatsa kukhala pakati pa chinthu chapadera ndi kufotokozera zochitika zonse mothandizidwa ndi zozizwitsa zosiyanasiyana kusiyana ndi kuyang'ana mdima komanso mozama kwambiri padziko lapansi. Kulankhula za chozizwitsa, simukusowa kusokoneza zodabwitsa zanu ndi zolakwika zanu. Khulupirirani chinachake ndikuchiwona, zinthu zosiyana. Ngakhale, mwinamwake, anthu amene timawaona kuti sali abwinobwino m'maganizo, kwenikweni, tione zomwe zimabisika kwa ambiri. Koma palibe njira yodziwira kuti kulingalira kotereku ndi kotani.
Chozizwitsa ndi chinachake chapadera, chomwe tikuchiyembekezera ndipo chikuchitika. Mudziko lenileni lachikulire, zozizwitsa zimakhala zochepa chabe, koma sizikutaya makhalidwe awo, chifukwa ziri ndi mawu ndi zozizwitsa. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuti tiyankhe funsoli momveka bwino, chifukwa chiyani munthu aliyense ali ndi lingaliro lake payekha. Mwa njira, mosasamala kanthu kuti munthu amakhulupirira kapena samakhulupirira zozizwitsa, aliyense ali ndi chozizwitsa chake, wina ndi wotsimikiza Kuti izo sizidzachitika nkomwe, komabe, sizongopanda kanthu kuti tonsefe timawerenga nthano mu ubwana wathu ndikukhulupirira zamatsenga. Chifukwa cha ichi, chidziwitso chathu chimakhalabe ndi chiyembekezo chozizwitsa ndipo ambiri akuyesera kuwona moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndiyeno funso libuka: kodi ndilofunika?
Kodi mukuyenera kukhulupirira chozizwitsa?
N'chiyani chimatipatsa kukhulupirira zozizwitsa? Otsutsa amanena kuti kuchokera ku chikhulupiriro choterocho chokhumudwitsa chimodzi chokha. Ndikofunika kuyembekezera ndikukhulupirira nokha ndi mphamvu zenizeni, popeza zozizwitsa sizichitika, motero kuchokera ku chikhulupiriro choterocho ululu umodzi. Koma kodi ndi zoona? Munthu akamakhulupirira kuti chozizwitsa, ndiye kuti atatha, amamva chimwemwe chochuluka chifukwa chochitika chake chapadera, ngakhale chisangalalo, chisangalalo chozizwitsa chimakondabe. Ndipo monga kakisvestno, kusangalala ndi kukondwera, munthu amalimbitsa thanzi lake, mthupi ndi m'maganizo. Komanso, pokhulupirira mu chozizwitsa, timaona zozizwitsa zambiri, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti pali zifukwa zambiri zosangalalira.
Anthu osakayikira ali otsimikiza kuti kuchokera ku zozizwitsa palinso zokhumudwitsa chimodzi chokha, chifukwa chakuti sazindikira zonyansa. Ambiri amaganiza kuti chikhulupiriro chimenechi ndi chifukwa cha naivete ndipo sichikwanira kudziko lenileni. Koma mbali ina, mtendere weniweni ungatipatse chiyani? Lingaliro lakuti chirichonse chimachitika molingana ndi zochitika zina ndi kusokonekera kulikonse kuchokera mu dongosololi ndi chabe mwadzidzidzi wa zochitika zomwe sizinayambe zakhalapo zapadera pa intaneti, zimangokhala zomvetsa chisoni ndi zokhumudwitsa. Pambuyo pake, ngati muyang'ana anthu osayenerera, mukhoza kumvetsa kuti anthuwa amavutikanso bwanji m'dziko lathuli. Tsiku lililonse amakhala ngati robot, akuchita ntchito zina. Iwo akufuna kusintha chinachake, chifukwa palibe chifukwa chilichonse pa izi. Omwe amatsutsa nthawi zambiri amapita kuntchito, chifukwa n'zosatheka kuwerengera chirichonse. Ndipo popeza voodachu, yomwe ili ndi mtundu wina wa chozizwitsa, samakhulupirira, ndiye kuti njira iliyonse yotereyi imaonedwa kuti ndi yolephera. Pamene anthu amayendetsa masewera awo, pessimists amanena kuti izi ndizochitika mwangozi chabe ndipo mwachiwiri sizidzachitikanso, kotero ndibwino kuti musatengere mwayi. Kukhulupirira chozizwa ndi kukhala wokhulupirira. Ngakhale pamene zinthu zonse zakhala zopanda pake, munthu amene amadziwa kuti pali zozizwitsa padziko lapansi, samatsitsa manja ake. Mwa njira, musati musokoneze chigamulo chozizwitsa ndi ulesi. Ngati anthu sakufuna kuchita chirichonse ndipo akuyembekeza kuti chilichonse chomwe akufuna kuchokera kumwamba chidzagwa kuchokera kumwamba, ndiye izi sizikunena za chikhulupiriro mu zozizwitsa, koma zachinyengo ndi zosafuna kugwira ntchito paokha. Anthu amene amakhulupirira chozizwitsa amavomereza kuti ngakhale panopo, zomwe zimawoneka kuti palibe njira yotulukira, padzakhalabe mtundu wodabwitsa kwambiri ndipo zonse zidzakhala bwino. Chodabwitsa, nthawi zambiri zimachitika. Mwinamwake izi ndi chifukwa chakuti kuganiza bwino kumakopa munthu. Choncho, ngati timakhulupirira zozizwitsa, ndiye kuti timaganiza zabwino.
Choncho, ngati mukuganiza ngati mukufunikira kapena simuyenera kukhulupirira zozizwitsa, ndiye kuti yankho likhoza kukhala lolimbikitsa. Chinthu chachikulu sikutengeka ndi zokondweretsa dziko lanu ndipo musaiwale kuti ngakhale m'nthano za Fairy ndi aakazi omwe amapita kwa iwo omwe adayesetsa kupeza chinachake pamoyo wawo. Chifukwa cha chikhulupiriro mu chozizwitsa, zimakhala zosavuta kuti munthu athe kuthana ndi mavuto awo, chifukwa amadziwa kuti nthawi yamdima ikadali mdima ndipo chinachake chosayembekezeka chidzachitika, chinthu chodabwitsa, chomwe chimasintha zinthu zonse. Ndipo iwo omwe amatipangitsa ife kuti tipewe zozizwitsa zopanda pake, kwenikweni, sitikufuna kuti tiwone mbali yabwino ya moyo. Inde, ndithudi, aliyense wa pomp ndi ovuta kukhumudwitsa. Koma ngati simukukhulupirira zinthu zabwino, ndiye kuti zabwinozi sizingamveke mwamphamvu kuti moyo wanu ukhale wodzaza ndi wokondweretsa. Kotero, pakati pa chikhulupiriro ndi kusakhulupirira mwa zozizwitsa, ndibwino kuti musankhe choyamba, chifukwa ndi chifukwa cha ichi kuti nthawi zonse mudzakhala ndi mphamvu yosuntha ndipo musataye mtima.